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Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by Tatian(f): 7:29pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
Couples of nairaland, pls share you experiences with me on this matter. I visted my big cousin in their home and happen to notice a misunderstsnding btw her and the husband, I ask my cuz what d matter was , she started by telling me her husband has refused to rent her a shop, I ask y wuldnt he do so,because I kn he's capable she was not able to give an answer. So I had a discussion wit the husband , he told me point blank he wuldnt because my cuz has forfited her chances , I didn't understand @ that point untill he told me my cuz got pregnant without his consent.he even said it to my face he's not accepting the baby. I was like WOW! Do these things really happen? He futher explained he's always using condom , or do d withdrawal method blah blah... Note: they have 2 boys already The question here is this .. Do you plan b4 plan you have ur kids... What if it comes without planning Thanks |
Re: Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by coogar: 7:41pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
isn't that the essence of family planning or have you been living under a rock for the past 100 yrs? |
Re: Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by k2039: 7:44pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
Ofcourse, it is all planned for, You cant expect me not to make adequate preparation for my baby and also give him/her the best care he/she desires. But in special cases where the unexpected happen, we will keep the pregnancy. |
Re: Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by baby124: 7:55pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
Yes o. Plan, Plan, and work hard. Kids deserve in come into an environment where they can be taken care of. God will not provide for a lazy couple without realistic plans. Dont be deceived. |
Re: Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
Yes OP unexpected and unplanned pregnancies confounds everybody in the family even tho it's a joyous thing... some people feign blithely ,some don't...just like the husband in the story. IMO it has to be planned.... you need a game plan especially when other kids are involved .... staying home for mat leave costs a whole lot , childcare and the list goes on ... but when it happens, well what's done is done. |
Re: Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by Geomac: 8:21pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
jidegirl12: Yes OP unexpected and unplanned pregnancies confounds everybody in the family even tho it's a joyous thing... some people feign blithely ,some don't...just like the husband in the story. +100 I can't say it better. |
Re: Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by larrymoore(m): 11:11pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
Pregnancy by accident mostly precedes planning. Pregnancy is a probabily, sometimes u could plan 4 baby n it doesn't come |
Re: Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by coldgate(f): 3:32pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
baby_123: Yes o. Plan, Plan, and work hard. Kids deserve in come into an environment where they can be taken care of. God will not provide for a lazy couple without realistic plans. Dont be deceived.Planning for babies? That is ridiculous! You don't plan, dear u hope for babies, providing the right environment for pregnancy to occur, and pray that you are so blessed.with children,there are no absolutes. |
Re: Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
coldgate: Planning for babies? That is ridiculous! You don't plan, dear u hope for babies, providing the right environment for pregnancy to occur, and pray that you are so blessed.with children,there are no absolutes. You only hope for babies when you're waiting / searching? We're talking about when other kids are involved ...., so she's right... you have to plan it. |
Re: Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by Callotti: 8:07pm On Dec 14, 2012 |
Oh yes o! You have to be emotionally and financially ready! Or you can wait on the 'lord' to provide! |
Re: Couples Do You Plan Before You Have Your Babies? by tpiatabernacles: 3:08am On Jan 07, 2015 |
coldgate: people do plan for babies, particularly if they want the babies to be born in a particular month. for example, conceiving this month will give you a baby anytime from september onwards (maybe before). etc etc, all things being equal of course, and barring any unforeseen circumstances. in addition, women do calculate their ovulation periods, etc. |
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