When most marriages are premised on what we 'see' rather than what we 'feel', there tends to be a break up as soon as we get familiar wt dat wch we 'see' n begin to 'feel' dat wch we ought to hav 'felt'.
I have seen a chap get married cos d lady has a gud paying job & they might pull resources 2geda & get rich.

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Thank you,good tread

Then maybe this was for you!

Mcfemad: Though, there are several of this write up out there, but, the poster has done a good job.
I'm in 4 years relationship and we're due to get married next February( IVs are out already and oda arrangement put in place). We had a disagreement over a complex issue as it relates to my Mum earlier today and I decided to call it quit. I simply told her its over btwn us (I dunno wat came over me sha cos this is someone I love so much and we'd achieved a lot together). We'd both made up our mind to separate, but with this article, I'm considering calling her back as It had opened my eyes to salient issues bordering our relationship. OMG...confused, we still love each other but she ...***sobs***

Thank you so very much!

Wunmi10:


very nice write up. I read it from beginning to end. I really must commend you on such a lovely write-up. I intend to copy it and keep in my mail. I will print it and share with my partner. Thank you so much !

LOL! You are wrong, very wrong indeed...lol

Babzilla:

A DIVORCEE PERHAPS...OR SOMEONE IN A MISERABLE MARRIAGE.

Whether you marry the wrong person or not,you too are married already and God abhors divorce,both couples should strife to make it work,thats when those tips comes in.