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| If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Detonatorrex(m): 9:48pm On Jan 04, 2013 |
what would you do if you found out that your father is having extra marital affairs with a single lady?   #your sincere opinions please |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Jellita: 10:32pm On Jan 04, 2013 |
I will be happy for him o! I have my own 'extras' to worry about. I just would hope my mom is getting her groooove somewhere else!  Freeeeeeeee world-Freeeeeeeeeeeeee will abeg! Life is to short to keep drinking 'Agbo' for another porsin's fever! Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh! Is he not an AFRICAN-POLYGAMOUS-CHRISTIAN again?  Na dem work be dat-i-o!!!  Phock hiarandia. . .born hiarandia! |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Detonatorrex(m): 11:14pm On Jan 04, 2013 |
Jellita: I will be happy for him o!you are kidding! |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Redmosquito(m): 12:40am On Jan 05, 2013 |
Jellita: I will be happy for him o! |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by opo22: 6:44am On Jan 05, 2013 |
he is still my dad, he is allowed or u say privileged. No qualms |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Kobojunkie: 6:49am On Jan 05, 2013 |
Detonator-rex: Confront him, and if he does not stop completely, get your mother involved. |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by djeezy(m): 7:13am On Jan 05, 2013 |
Jellita: I will be happy for him o!Really? Nice joke. |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by djeezy(m): 7:15am On Jan 05, 2013 |
Kobojunkie:And teach the bi.tch a lesson. She will never return again. |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by ifyalways(f): 8:25am On Jan 05, 2013 |
Not my business really. I'm not his babysitter. 2 Likes |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Nobody: 8:39am On Jan 05, 2013 |
opo22: he is still my dad, he is allowed or u say privileged. No qualms What about if your mother is having an extra marital affair? Would you still think she is allowed or priviledged? |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Nobody: 8:49am On Jan 05, 2013 |
ifyalways: Not my business really. I'm not his babysitter. In such a situation, there is the risk of his infecting your mum with an STD. Don't you think it would be wise to inform her so as to prevent this from happening? |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by ifyalways(f): 9:14am On Jan 05, 2013 |
@ fellis, how do we know he doesn't use condoms? How am I sure his wife, the mom is not aware of the "arrangement" ? I wasn't there when they set parameters for their marriage and I'm not gonna pokenose . I have my husband and kids to look after no time to chase my pop around. How they live their lives is NOT my business. They are happy, live under one roof, no case of abuse or violence and that's all there is to it. I'll rather he live or die a happy man (wherever he finds it) than nag and frustrate him to death with aproko and idle pokenosing. Btw, when you "catch" him and tell the wife what next? Flog or ground him? Fight and kill the "other lady" ? Roll on the floor and beg him to stop? Ask your mom to get a divorce then marry her? Hahaha. I just dey laugh. PS: its a different case when "the mom/wife" finds out herself and confides in her kids or when the affair is affecting the "dad/husband" negatively. The children in such circumstance can come in and together find a "peaceful" solution. 2 Likes |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Nobody: 9:35am On Jan 05, 2013 |
ifyalways: @ fellis, how do we know he doesn't use condoms? This post sounds so angry. Wow All I did was ask a question. . . . . . Anyway the risk of the other spouse contacting an STD is still there so it is better to inform them. If it turns out that they agreed on an open marriage then well and good, no harm done. If they didn't agree then the husband/wife; whoever is being cheated on can start taking steps to protect themselves. |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by ifyalways(f): 10:14am On Jan 05, 2013 |
My post "sound" angry ? Dear old Mary Ainsworth, how so? Choi, ebelebe igba . Nld and nlders are just . . . Funny Abeg, happy new year. 2 Likes |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Detonatorrex(m): 10:17am On Jan 05, 2013 |
Kobojunkie:getting the wife involved may destroy the marriage and/or the family |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Nobody: 10:53am On Jan 05, 2013 |
ifyalways:After reading your post I have to agree with you ebelebe igba .ebelebe igba yourself, whatever that means |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Detonatorrex(m): 10:54am On Jan 05, 2013 |
fellis: |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by 9lifes(m): 3:02pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
confront the girl or woman,but the problem is that he will start hiding his actions. Do not challenge him,except u can provide for yourself. |
| Re: If Your Father Is Having Extra-marital Affairs by Detonatorrex(m): 3:46pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
9lifes: confront the girl or woman,but the problem is that he will start hiding his actions.true!  |
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