nwando:

This is from a sister who cares about her fellow sisters.
I don see things and hear tori for America
Beware of some Nigerian men coming home from the USA and Europe looking for wives.
All that glitters is not gold.
Many ladies have broken engagements from worthy suitors for "men abroad" only to arrive here and find out that Okeke is a pizza delivery man not a business man or that the rich neighborhood he lived in was a mouldy basement in someone's house.
This is a warning from a kind lady who loves her Nigerian brothers but will not spare the wayo ones using and abusing naive girls desperate to flee Nigeria at all costs.

tpia:

you guys are missing the point.

Okeke may have lied about his occupation to the prospective bride. Could be delivery man, security guard or cab driver saying he's a doctor, lawyer or important business man abroad. Nothing wrong with any of these occupations, but why lie to someone you say you care about and want to marry. What about when she discovers the reality.

The wife arrives joyfully overseas only to discover her dream prince is actually the opposite. Nothing wrong with that, except he shouldnt have deceived her in the first place.

happens a lot.

There's a story somewhere about someone whose girlfriend is thinking of sponsoring their entire wedding and engagement since the guy has no money. Some girls don't mind these kind of things, as long as the man is telling the truth.

nwando:

This is from a sister who cares about her fellow sisters.
I don see things and hear tori for America
Beware of some Nigerian men coming home from the USA and Europe looking for wives.
All that glitters is not gold.
Many ladies have broken engagements from worthy suitors for "men abroad" only to arrive here and find out that Okeke is a pizza delivery man not a business man or that the rich neighborhood he lived in was a mouldy basement in someone's house.
This is a warning from a kind lady who loves her Nigerian brothers but will not spare the wayo ones using and abusing naive girls desperate to flee Nigeria at all costs.

naija_diva:

but i think she came back to live here because they always go to court to decide who is going to pay child support.

nwando:

seen girls curse the pilot and plane that brougt them to JFK airport.

D-reloaded:

osisi, gist us with real examples

tRoOE:

@topic
duh who doesn't know that only mumu and desperate ladies will fall for that crap

nwando:

A girl in my college days in Naija married this 'Americana' with 2 necks who came to the teaching hospital specifically looking for a doctor wife.
The girl arrived here and found out everything she was told was a big lie.
They've been divorced since

nwando:

well dear if that's what you call it,I'm sad to report that the mumu and desperate ladies (most of them college educated) may have out numbered the non mumu and non desperate ones since these stories are all too common.

tRoOE:

Well do you believe them when majority of them are trying to jand abroad to have a better life since the economic in Nigeria is beyond terrible.

Btw, it obvious they just got married to those men for papers, if they surly love their husbands, then they shouldn't have problem sticking behind him. Moreover he married and brought her abroad

toshmann:

as they divorce finish, the babe been return to naija?

make una stop this sexism wey una de practice for here o BabyO you are a serious sand-for-garri expert anybabe wey come abroad must take wetin she see, after all the dude came abroad with great hopes too only to jam palava.
warning to nigerian men: beware of nigerian based women who claim to be qualified nurses, some of them are nurse-eliza and can't even write some of the exams that are necessary to practice in the states.

by the way, nne, i'm about to seal my marriage we still have some problems though, religious one(she's catholic and i'm not) but we are working on it. i'll be in new jersey next week to see her parents

wish me luck

naija_diva:

whether or not its about love, i don't think that you have to lie just to impress someone. if u live a useless life, u live a useless life. if the woman doesn't appreciate you for who you are then you know she's not the one. and also the man shouldn't have to lie about the kind of life he lives because what if he meets someone who is truly genuine and is not after his money and she moves in with him just to find out that he's a strugling guy who can't afford crap. of course i would be pissed and pack my bags and leave.

toshmann:

as they divorce finish, the babe been return to naija?

make una stop this sexism wey una de practice for here o BabyO you are a serious sand-for-garri expert anybabe wey come abroad must take wetin she see, after all the dude came abroad with great hopes too only to jam palava.
warning to nigerian men: beware of nigerian based women who claim to be qualified nurses, some of them are nurse-eliza and can't even write some of the exams that are necessary to practice in the states.

by the way, nne, i'm about to seal my marriage we still have some problems though, religious one(she's catholic and i'm not) but we are working on it. i'll be in new jersey next week to see her parents

wish me luck

echelon:

@ nwando

Is it also true that most guys there come home to marry when they are ready for marriage, instead of getting mates there? I'm sure we have enough nigerian ladies there. I think you are making a case for these ladies, to stop the guys from looking homewards.

nwando:

my dear most of them go home
looking for "virgin" wives
they think girls abroad are too "open eye"
or could be because the girls sabi them well well
so many go home and deceive girls in naija with lies