she is 14 and wants a lecture on sex but i dont know what to tell her because im not experience she doesnt want to talk to her parents either because she is shy and scared so i am the only one she feels comfortable with

esperiense: Send her e-mail and phone no to me 08063737929. I will help u to educate her free of charge

did she whatsapp you?

neena adjei:
did she whatsapp you?

u actually sent it hmmmm

gree-die:


u actually sent it hmmmm

nahhh it ddnt go thru anyway

Find a female friend of yours who is, and ask her to help her out.

Or perhaps even a mother who is willing.

Remember to join in too.

Although, I strongly believe you should tell her parents.

Legit1: Find a female friend of yours who is, and ask her to help her out.

Or perhaps even a mother who is willing.

Remember to join in too.

Although, I strongly believe you should tell her parents.

her parents will take it the wrong way and harm her

You can always use diagrams from medical websites to teach her about d process of s.ex. The diagrams may be graphic, but they are the most realistic way for her to learn.

@OP how old are you?
And you don't have to experience it personally to know about sex, at least you've seen movie scenes with sexual acts in it if you haven't seen a full 8 rated movie before.

All there is to tell her is what sex is about and precautions that need to be taken. If she's so curios about what it feels like, then she's most likely to experiment it. My guess is, she's probably getting sexual advances from her male peers or maybe she's facing peer pressure. Her hormones is probably raging too.
Whichever the case may be, please don't fail to educate her about the risk of contacting std's and how dangerous it can be to one's reproductive health.

You can save her number from pedophiles on the prowl too

neena adjei:
her parents will take it the wrong way and harm her

Hmm....are you the gal in question?

CFCfan: You can always use diagrams from medical websit es to teach her about d process of s.ex. The diagrams may be graphic, but they are the mist realistic way for her to learn.

thx

Legit1:

Hmm....are you the gal in question?

how can i be the girl in question i just know her parents well because they are my auntie and uncle

Brand_new: @OP how old are you?
And you don't have to experience it personally to know about sex, at least you've seen movie scenes with sexual acts in it if you haven't seen a full 8 rated movie before.

All there is to tell her is what sex is about and precautions that need to be taken. If she's so curios about what it feels like, then she's most likely to experiment it. My guess is, she's probably getting sexual advances from her male peers or maybe she's facing peer pressure. Her hormones is probably raging too.
Whichever the case may be, please don't fail to educate her about the risk of contacting std's and how dangerous it can be to one's reproductive health.

You can save her number from pedophiles on the prowl too

true thank you

neena adjei: she is 14 and wants a lecture on sex but i dont know what to tell her because im not experience she doesnt want to talk to her parents either because she is shy and scared so i am the only one she feels comfortable with

I'm confused, what exactly does she want to know about that you need experience for? Best se*xual positions? How to get mind blowing O's? Doesn't she just need simple sex education, encouragement of abstinence, how to make good choices, how to say no and how to practice safe sex when she is ready? How does experience come into play in giving appropriate sex education? If you had even started by teaching her in a non judgemental way how and why you have remained abstinent till date, you would have done a good part of educating her already.

For the rest, why don't you google how to talk to a teenager about sex? You should find good resources there.

the only sex education she needs is to zip up until marriage

^^ I agree

jmoore: the only sex education she needs is to zip up until marriage

Da heck?!

that all?

Dis how you plan to bring up your kids?

Well here is d next question they wud ask Ʊ : what is zip up dad? Mind to tell us?

@op, a lot of Nigerians don't ενεη know what S education is because itz a taboo discussion and so many young ones and families have been suffering from dis ignorantly .

Here let me help d lil way i can. You can also google S education after now :

S education is all About teaching young ones ( young teens) about the inevitable changes that r bound to happen to her body as she develöpes into a lady.

The bo0BS poppin out. Pubic heir growth, booty and hips developing and finally, about the must monthly flow.

All these changes (b0obs , hips, booty and sleeker face) can't but attract guys who wud want to have her as a gf( all mostly ƒoя to explore her body or truely loving her and wanting to share things impersonally with her) .

And because of this reason, and ƒoя d fact that she would like some of them too , naturally, it is important therefore, to τaικ about feelings and reproductive system(both female and male) teach her about virginity virtue but if she must let any boy into her, she must insist he used a good condom. And ß vigilant too because some guys pull dεм oFf.

This is done to avoid ha getting unwanted pregnancy, HIV and STDs

Please help teach this gurl b4 she gets into some crz ish.
Be gentle and patient to answer her listless questions . And as simple to lay across your help lines.

IT IS HIGH TIME NIGERIANS ΤAΙΚED ABOUT THIS IN HOMES!

Regards
Don

HARDDON:

Da heck?!

that all?

Dis how you plan to bring up your kids?

Well here is d next question they wud ask Ʊ : what is zip up dad? Mind to tell us?

@op, a lot of Nigerians don't ενεη know what S education is because itz a taboo discussion and so many young ones and families have been suffering from dis ignorantly .

Here let me help d lil way i can. You can also google S education after now :

S education is all About teaching young ones ( young teens) about the inevitable changes that r bound to happen to her body as she develöpes into a lady.

The bo0BS poppin out. Pubic heir growth, booty and hips developing and finally, about the must monthly flow.

All these changes (b0obs , hips, booty and sleeker face) can't but attract guys who wud want to have her as a gf( all mostly ƒoя to explore her body or truely loving her and wanting to share things impersonally with her) .

And because of this reason, and ƒoя d fact that she would like some of them too , naturally, it is important therefore, to τaικ about feelings and reproductive system(both female and male) teach her about virginity virtue but if she must let any boy into her, she must insist he used a good condom. And ß vigilant too because some guys pull dεм oFf.

This is done to avoid ha getting unwanted pregnancy, HIV and STDs

Please help teach this gurl b4 she gets into some crz ish.
Be gentle and patient to answer her listless questions . And as simple to lay across your help lines.

IT IS HIGH TIME NIGERIANS ΤAΙΚED ABOUT THIS IN HOMES!


Regards

Don

Wow thanks

@Hardon... Good one, best answer 100% votes

neena adjei: she is 14 and wants a lecture on sex but i dont know what to tell her because im not experience she doesnt want to talk to her parents either because she is shy and scared so i am the only one she feels comfortable with

At 14 yrs,she should be in ss1. All school teaches sex education ie d one appropriate for her age.also somebody who is shy will not tell u to educate her on sex at age 14!she has classmates,they all learn together.abi,is there something u r not telling us? Will never believe this.

yellowpawpaw:
At 14 yrs,she should be in ss1. All school teaches sex education ie d one appropriate for her age.also somebody who is shy will not tell u to educate her on sex at age 14!she has classmates,they all learn together.abi,is there something u r not telling us? Will never believe this.

you have no idea of the girl im talking about

She sure needs enough education.
Wish you understood her well enough. Very obvious she's been getting advances from peers and possibly young dudes who may eventually take her been naïve for a ride.

She needs to learn about abstinence, body growth, etc. Pls google up more on sex education for teens and not watching X rated movies abi na positioning she dey learn ni?

yellowpawpaw:
At 14 yrs,she should be in ss1. All school teaches sex education ie d one appropriate for her age.also somebody who is shy will not tell u to educate her on sex at age 14!she has classmates,they all learn together.abi,is there something u r not telling us? Will never believe this.

all schools really do?

and gurls where really very free with their male biology lecturers as to ask them personal specific questions huh?

Appropriate for her age? gee, did you just wake up? gurls at 14 now, are ladies.. i mean bodily set ladies in young minds. and any gurl that is ripe in body, whether young or not, is wanted by men. this is not about biology but about how to eschew evil men( if she can) and if she cant( she has feelings too) protect her self.

let me ask you just one question: if schools were so good in tutoring this vital aspect of life to kids, why are there so many unwanted pregnancies, diseases and wardward adults today?

if schools were so good at the topic, why are there so many children torn apart families today? SEX TALK is a TABOO in Nigeria jor!

the only way, youngs bloods could ever learn, with some degree of authority, is at home. not at some 45 mins lectures.
with their listless questions.

the bolded above is just wrong. so you cast your sweet wheat out to learn among thorns huh? just gross. just so sad.

have you ever heard of peer pressure? think that is a good thing? the human heart is inherently wicked. we dont learn bad things ... we came fashioned thus. if she is gonno know any thing about good, you have to dilligently and prayerfully guide her. so she can take her stand when evil friends come calling.

It is written : BRING up a child the way he/she should go....... it is your duty not some school's. afterall, if she shows up tommorow with pregnance, or he is caught in some robbery tomorrow, it is not the school that would bear the brunt.

Puleez, let us all wake UP!

Inexperienced as in?

Inexperienced as in?

Ok, thanks for the info.

Another variation on the i'm a virgin threads.

tpia@:
Ok, thanks for the info.

Another variation on the i'm a virgin threads.

BA wo ni/Bawoni/bawo/BA wo?

^se nkan lo

tpia@:
^se nkan lo

My Yoruba ends there.oo I can say ekaro that's for you when u wake up

[quote author=HARDDON]

"Da heck?!

that all?

Dis how you plan to bring up your kids? "

ditto! especially with all the child molestation that goes on in houses (cousins, house helps etc). Biko educate your kids so they know and will feel comfy telling you if they are being molested.

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