A friend of mine called ♏ε̲̣̣̣̥ yesterday and was complaining of his inability to enjoy intimacy with his wife since she put to bed 2 yrs back.Although the delivery was via normal means but he says her p...sy got S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ enlarged dat he feels nothing each time he gets into her.Sincerelly,I got И̣̣̣̥o much knowledge on that esp on those dat hav put to birth but ♍y fear is if what ♍y friend says is true for all ladies,Ђ☺w do I cope I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ future?I love been intimate and would want to continually be satisfied with ♍y wife I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ future.Just need some info on this pls!​​​-̶̶•-̶̶•̸Ϟ•̸ŤђαϞĸ Ɣõú•̸Ϟ•̸-̶̶•-̶̶

The woman must have gotten infected, maybe, during childbirth or afterwards, and didnt take care of herself.
Dont worry yourself too much, your friend's case is an exemptionally rare case, childbirth usually dont leave women with enlarged p..ussy, except something went wrong, that place is like elastic, during childbirth, it extends and after, go back to its normal size, but d woman really need to take care of herself, involve in relevant exercises, if need be(i cant remember d name of d exercise now, but i do it often, it helps to tighten d place) and it has helped a great deal.......im happy and proud to tell you that, after, 3 kids, my hubby sometimes complain that, "why is this place tight like this as if no baby has passed thru d place?"
so, rest your mind, childbirth will not debar you from enjoying your wife, its even approved by God to enjoy your wife, so no cause for alarm.
May God help us all.

LOL @OP, you sound so concerned
greatgod2012, its kegels exercises. I admit that this crossed the back of the mind a few times. Thanks for reassuring both OP and me lol.

greatgod2012:
Dont worry yourself too much, your friend's case is an exemptionally rare case, childbirth usually dont leave women with enlarged p..ussy, except something went wrong, that place is like elastic.......im happy and proud to tell you that, after 3 kids, my hubby sometimes complain that, "why is this place tight like this as if no baby has passed thru d place?"
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The bolded got me laughing so hard!!!
Well in reality, most of us barchelors have this fear and its a bit reassuring that the p.ssy will still go back to its normal size afterwards! I hope I can also make that bolded comment after 3 kids o. Lolllllllllz!

Nice one greagod2012.Tks for the advice and assurance.Trully,I was deep I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ thoughts all thru y.day.Actually would be I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the family line I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ less than two months as ♍y card is already out.Wld discuss wif ♍y wife to be on this cos she knows i dnt joke wif such and hold her S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ much I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ high esteem nd would always want to.But really wish to know much abt the exercise tho.God bless thee and Ūя̲̅ family.

vikeb: Nice one greagod2012.Tks for the advice and assurance.Trully,I was deep I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ thoughts all thru y.day.Actually would be I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the family line I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ less than two months as ♍y card is already out.Wld discuss wif ♍y wife to be on this cos she knows i dnt joke wif such and hold her S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ much I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ high esteem nd would always want to.But really wish to know much abt the exercise tho.God bless thee and Ūя̲̅ family.

you are welcome!
goggle "kegels exercise", you will get what you want and even related ones there.
Also, there are v.....agi.n.a thightning cream and soaps that some pple are using, i've never used one b4 o, but a friend of mine who uses it claims that she use to be like virgin each time she uses it,
And lest i forget, tell your friend to take his wife go see a doctor who specialises in such abnormality, i believe it can still be corrected, se..x is an essential part of marriage that shouldnt be joked with at all, or else, that marriage is on its way to collapse(God forbid). Thank you.
May God help us all.

sasi_malia: LOL @OP, you sound so concerned
greatgod2012, its kegels exercises. I admit that this crossed the back of the mind a few times. Thanks for reassuring both OP and me lol.

im concerned because its one of d major cause of breakup in marriages. And thanks for reminding me d name.
It is well.

There is really no noticeable difference unless her episiotomy(if she had one)got infected along the line just like GreatGod2012 said or your guy is extremely small down there.There are positions that could help him,tell him to research on it.My mum had seven kids but my dad is still all over her,sodon't worry yourself about nothing.I can't tell the difference myself and I have had a couple.


@GreatGod2012,this kegel thing does it really work??I start it but always forget am doing it.Do you spare some time for it?The thought of expanded below gives me shivers when I think of a third a child.The op's friend's case can be corrected surgically,probably by a plastic surgeon.A gyno can't really do much about an expanded below.

byvan: There is really no noticeable difference unless her episiotomy(if she had one)got infected along the line just like GreatGod2012 said or your guy is extremely small down there.There are positions that could help him,tell him to research on it.My mum had seven kids but my dad is still all over her,sodon't worry yourself about nothing.I can't tell the difference myself and I have had a couple.


@GreatGod2012,this kegel thing does it really work??I start it but always forget am doing it.Do you spare some time for it?The thought of expanded below gives me shivers when I think of a third a child.The op's friend's case can be corrected surgically,probably by a plastic surgeon.A gyno can't really do much about an expanded below.

yes o, it does, but you have to do it continuosly, especially after childbirth, for you to see its noticable effect.
May God help us all.

@GreatGod:does this Kegel excercise also apply to a woman who has had all her children via CS?

coldgate: @GreatGod:does this Kegel excercise also apply to a woman who has had all her children via CS?

i dont think so, since no baby has passed thru d place, i think d place should remain intact as ever before.
May God help us all.

I do Kegel exercise every day especially when I'm driving, 3 c-sections and it feels more tighter down there I'm embarrassed already

greatgod2012:

i dont think so, since no baby has passed thru d place, i think d place should remain intact as ever before.
May God help us all.

Really? I heard it ( sex) even feels better after natural childbirth, is it true we are missing ?