@May Kelly: There is "JUST" love, for every wife. A poor young woman who is married to a very wealthy man was only need a bungalow and a Lexus. Whereas, an older and wealthier wife of the same man knows how to handle an estate and a Bentley or Rose Royce. But of them are given full love. Each is satisfied according to her needs, as per the capacity of the man. And by the way, sex is not the only reason a man marries more than one wife.And it is not necessary if a man is financially and in other aspects incapable of getting involved in more than one wife.

olabowale:

@May Kelly: There is "JUST" love, for every wife. A poor young woman who is married to a very wealthy man was only need a bungalow and a Lexus. Whereas, an older and wealthier wife of the same man knows how to handle an estate and a Bentley or Rose Royce. But of them are given full love. Each is satisfied according to her needs, as per the capacity of the man. And by the way, sex is not the only reason a man marries more than one wife.And it is not necessary if a man is financially and in other aspects incapable of getting involved in more than one wife.

So in otherwords, wealthy Muslim mainly marry from a poor home so as to give the woman material things she has been lacking and that is "JUST" the love, and love is just equal just like that.

Anyway, are you saying that they maltreat them by keeping them hidden from people?

I do not think its possible for a man to love his wives equally!

Those with tradition of having more than one wife are yet to provide answer to this question. Could it be that they are ashame or did no believe their teaching any more? 86 Wooh!!!!

Leilah:

I do not think its possible for a man to love his wives equally!

i agree with you

equality is not chips and baked beans!

olabowale:

@May Kelly: There is "JUST" love, for every wife. A poor young woman who is married to a very wealthy man was only need a bungalow and a Lexus. Whereas, an older and wealthier wife of the same man knows how to handle an estate and a Bentley or Rose Royce. But of them are given full love. Each is satisfied according to her needs, as per the capacity of the man. And by the way, sex is not the only reason a man marries more than one wife.And it is not necessary if a man is financially and in other aspects incapable of getting involved in more than one wife.

I now understand you olabowale, Indeed a muslim will be receorded in the Guiness Book 86 wives not concumbines, so added with concumbines they will amount to 15 wives just as the pro-p-h-et. Well Done olabowale, keep it up.

It is impossible to love 2 people equally, be it wife, child or friend. . .
no two pple r d same so the feelings for them cannot be d same

There is no way a man cld have equal love to different woman, such man cld love one cos of her food, one cos of how she dance, another, cos of how she is presentable, and another would be best in bed, would be great if he can find one with all these attributes and teh rest will just rust for house.

When will it be acceptable for a woman to have more than one husband?

sistawoman:

When will it be acceptable for a woman to have more than one husband?

It is already accptable.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/7574757.stm

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/africa/man-condemned-for-having-86-wives-vows-to-marry-yet-more-915713.html


what about this man who has 86 wives, what is this all about?

femigirl:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/7574757.stm

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/africa/man-condemned-for-having-86-wives-vows-to-marry-yet-more-915713.html


what about this man who has 86 wives, what is this all about?

The women are just using the man and the man is thinking that he is the man.

the guy de use jazz.
ladies beware.