hi,
i'm about getting married, but my pastor called me and told me that i should not make noise, that i should do a small wedding, pls i need your advice which sholuld i do, traditional,registry or church wedding, my guy insists that obedience is better than sacrifice, that we should abide stictly to what the pastor says, pls advice what should i do

Traditional anyday.  Followed by a simple registry wedding.  Don't like church weddings at all.  Especially in Nigeria. . . .they all look hungry and nothing goes according to plan in the dirty environment including the uncompleted buildings without airconditioning called churches.  Futher more, it is becoming increasingly common to have multiple brides and grooms on the day of your wedding so the day is not special afterall.  That is what white people do best, it is their culture.  Black church weddings are too fake and boring!  Love traditional weddings with all the proverbs and local jokes/teasings between the families. 

Boy!  All those traditional songs leading the bride to the grooms arms or house just makes me cry buckets!

Church weddings. . . please!  We know that belongs to the pure virgins!   10month pregnant virgins in labor as they exchange vows!

Most of the guys look like haunting dogs in the so-called suits while the "bush" brides just look like broke bothered Cindarellas with al the stupid flowers in their hair or what ever they call those veils or tiaras.

Na by force?

Chei!  Laff wan killllly me eeeeeeeeeeeh!

Nigerians!

@poster

y did ur pastor tell u to do a quiet wedding?traditional wedding is compulsory(in d´igbo land),and for me church wedding is better off than registry

Traditonal
Registry
Church wedding
. . .  both of the three

@poster, do what will make u feel good ma dear. . . some pastors sometime speak from the stomach not "holy spirit" directives thingy.

efuah:

Traditonal
Registry
Church wedding
. . . both of the three

Ole!

Come oh?  Why is that food always finishes in Nigerian weddings within one hour of the receptions? Then 2 hours into the reception, everyone is begging for pure water sachets?

Obedience is better than Sacrifice. Whichever you do    
        pls keep it low.YOU have been Warned

almondjoy:

Traditional anyday. Followed by a simple registry wedding.  Don't like church weddings at all. Especially in Nigeria. . . .they all look hungry and nothing goes according to plan in the dirty environment including the uncompleted buildings without airconditioning called churches. Futher more, it is becoming increasingly common to have multiple brides and grooms on the day of your wedding so the day is not special afterall.  That is what white people do best.   Love traditional weddings with all the proverbs and local jokes betweent the families.  

Boy!  All those traditional songs leading the bride to the grooms arms or house just makes me cry buckets!

agreeded.lol the beads,jokes,songs and even the dressing.lol i cant miss that ooooh for any other type   i love Traditional weddings.
@OP,why did your pastor suggest a quiet wedding?its YOUR wedding anyway,you have the last and final say.
lol happy married life in advance  

almondjoy:

Ole!

hehehe. . . na ma mind i dey speak

almondjoy:

Come oh? Why is that food always finishes in Nigerian weddings within one hour of the receptions? Then 2 hours into the reception, everyone is begging for pure water sachets?

rotfl. . . everywia AJ, everywia!

efuah:

hehehe. . . na ma mind i dey speak

rotfl. . . everywia AJ, everywia!

Speak your mind ma dear.  How the food no go finish for Naija wedding when the guest list has agberos in more numbers than family members.

ifyalways:

agreeded.lol the beads,jokes,songs and even the dressing.lol i can't miss that ooooh for any other type  i love Traditional weddings.
@OP,why did your pastor suggest a quiet wedding?its YOUR wedding anyway,you have the last and final say.
lol happy married life in advance 

I had a blast at ma traditional.  I could only upload it in ma personal profile picture area.  Thanks to banorable.  These darling Edo princesses sang me all the way to the waiting laps of ma beloved.  I cried the whole way there like a sheep being led for slaughter.  Ooooooooooh sweet slaughter.  The white wedding was stressful and just irritating with the long sermons and stupid preachings of you may kiss the bride. When we had been kissing and shimmering for ever before the event.  I just hate the hypocrisy of it all.  Looking back, if not for ma parents, I would not have a church wedding.  A bloody waste of time! Ugly pastor preaching rubbish! Reception. . . .what a dreadful drag! Jam packed with children running all over the place.

Very annoying!

he he he.

awwwwwwwww

efuah:

awwwwwwwww

Which one is awww, Tell us about your own

lol, u want to hear?

lemme make it short for u

i met him
i love him
we married
we did it
we have a son. . . ya dig?

Why spend all ma cash to feed people?
no be me and them. .i go use the money buy the latest Jeep for the babe.

Silent thingy. .i cant shout o! witches full berekete

YOU ONLY GET TO DO THIS ONCE IN UR LIFETIME, SO PROB U THINK HARD IF U WANT A QUIET WEDDING DAT PPL MIGHT NOT REMEMBER BUT UR MARRIED LIFE BECOMES A SUCCESS, OR A LOUD ONE EVERYBODY REMEMBERS COS THE MARRIAGE FINALLY FAILED.
HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.

izeek:

YOU ONLY GET TO DO THIS ONCE IN UR LIFETIME, SO PROB You THINK HARD IF You WANT A QUIET WEDDING DAT PPL MIGHT NOT REMEMBER BUT UR MARRIED LIFE BECOMES A SUCCESS, OR A LOUD ONE EVERYBODY REMEMBERS COS THE MARRIAGE FINALLY FAILED.
HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.

not anymore oh
pple marry as much as 5x in a lifetime.

@topic,
as long as u guys love each other . . .why not just go for the one u can afford. At the end of the day, everyone goes to the respective house with full stomach and u go to ur husbands'.

none of themis beta they are all foreign go traditional jo _{so that you would have a blank cheque}

las vegas chapel. cheap and u could get the wedding annuled if u change ur mind.

My dear, be smart a court wedding secures your future and that of your kids much more than a church wedding will. Its more legally binding and offers more protection not that we are wishing you basd but its always good to plan for eventualities. It also saves you unnecessary hassles with inlaws.

I don't believe in church weddings, it doesn't make sense to me any more.my Fiance n I have decided to have a traditional wedding and at the registry