I know someone that was in courtship for 9 full years,and just barely 3 months to the long awaited and `prepared for` wedding,the guy called off everything.The lady is still unmarried till now,48 years old,has a flourishing printing business in Lagos but UNMARRIED.What could possibly had happened,whose fault was it.Well,i am not in the business of finding who to blame but the truth is the courtship was too long.
How do u expect a marriage when virtually it was like they have been married for 9 whole years.they had done everything together.He had even known everything about her so he lacks interest in her.
I understand that the reason for long courtship most times is financial,the man want to be over ready so they keep expecting and expecting,but do u know one fact you dont fully get super prepared for marriage, even the rich experience financial challenge preparing for marriage all you need is a prepared mind and heart.Thats all that is necessary,with this in mind i strongly believe that long courtship is unnecessary at most 2 years is most suitable.
Another reason for long courtship is that the man is trying to know the woman better,Mr! what are u still trying to know if you love her you must love her fault,you just have to be compactible that is only how you can change her.We all have faults at one time or the other but the love of God helped us all whether you know it or not.If you really want to marry her,long courtship is not necessary.
Finally,if you know you wont marry her break the courtship immediately,a broken coutship is better than a broken relationship OR WHAT DO YOU THINK?/
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well talkin about long courtship, i do not quite agree that it was the long term thing was the reason for the breakup. possibly they were not just compatible. if u truly love someone, even 10 yrs is not enough to get tired of the person. something went wrong somewhere but certainly not the time.

if u can get tired of someone in 9 yrs then how about those married for life?

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well talkin about long courtship, i do not quite agree that it was the long term thing was the reason for the breakup. possibly they were not just compatible. if u truly love someone, even 10 years is not enough to get tired of the person. something went wrong somewhere but certainly not the time.

if u can get tired of someone in 9 years then how about those married for life?

You are right. I courted my wife for 8yrs before we got married and we are best of friends till now. And she understands everything about me.
Though not all long courtships are favorable.