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Is This Actually Cheating? by NOIBMUUL(op): 9:54pm On Mar 25, 2013

1. You have a gf or bf that says no sex before marriage. You then go out to get some. Is this cheating?

2. You have sex with your bf or gf, and occasionally you still get some outside. Remember you're not yet legally married and thus not under any oath not to have sex if you so please. I mean if you can commit fornication with your bf or gf, why not with someone else? Isn't this hypocrisy? Is this cheating?

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by 190: 9:56pm On Mar 25, 2013

Its not cheating

Just dey SLICE dey go till one woman manages to lock u up in the name of marriage then its cheating!

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Mar 25, 2013

[color=#000030]It's not cheating.

But promiscuity has never been my thing. If you really love someone, you'll avoid all avenues to hurt them. You'll surely get away with sleeping with someone else, but your conscience, you can never run away from, cos you toyed with someone's emotion, betrayed their trust in you, and you hurt them. One day, you'll finally choose to settle with one lady. But your old habits will refuse to die, and you'll find yourself cheating on your wife. . . The period of non-married life, should be a time you hone your self-control skills. Be loyal to your BF/GF. You may think you are enjoying your life because it is not cheating by sleeping around, but it's killing you softly, where it matters the most - Inside!

It's not cheating, but it pays to be loyal to your gf. . . [/color]

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by Nobody: 10:26pm On Mar 25, 2013*

YES, to both.

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Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by Les: 10:28pm On Mar 25, 2013

No1 is an excusable cheating. No2 is pure cheating and is not acceptable. There's a difference b/w sleeping around and having a relationship. If you wanna sleep around, fine. If you wanna have gf/bf, fine! And make d best outta it. Wat is d essence of having a gf/bf and still sleep around? It doesn't make sense cos you cant eat ur cake and have it back. Anyone dat tries dat is provoking nature and KARMA, a jealous husband to nature must surely act. Be warned and be faithful, it pays alot!!

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Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by Mynd44(mod): 1:29am On Mar 26, 2013

This kin questions sef

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by Popowaa: 8:28am On Mar 26, 2013

sexkillz: [color=#000030]It's not cheating.

But promiscuity has never been my thing. If you really love someone, you'll avoid all avenues to hurt them. You'll surely get away with sleeping with someone else, but your conscience, you can never run away from, cos you toyed with someone's emotion, betrayed their trust in you, and you hurt them. One day, you'll finally choose to settle with one lady. But your old habits will refuse to die, and you'll find yourself cheating on your wife. . . The period of non-married life, should be a time you hone your self-control skills. Be loyal to your BF/GF. You may think you are enjoying your life because it is not cheating by sleeping around, but it's killing you softly, where it matters the most - Inside!

It's not cheating, but it pays to be loyal to your gf. . . [/color]

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Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by NOIBMUUL(op): 9:57am On Mar 26, 2013

I don't consider any of them cheating. Technically.

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by KINGwax(m): 11:15am On Mar 26, 2013

Will y'all take ur dictionary and check the word 'cheating'? How are those not cheating? If u are in an open relationship, it different! But u go behind and derive pleasure outside ur relationship and y'all trying to justify it?
OP is simply crazy!!!

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by MrsChima(f): 11:26am On Mar 26, 2013

I am cheating with my husband.

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by Mynd44(mod): 11:29am On Mar 26, 2013

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I am cheating with my husband.[/quote]Enjoyment unlimited

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by MrsChima(f): 11:31am On Mar 26, 2013

[quote author=Mynd_44]Enjoyment unlimited[/quote]Each character has a different name. Winks.

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by Mynd44(mod): 11:35am On Mar 26, 2013

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Each character has a different name. Winks.[/quote]yup

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by Les: 12:16pm On Mar 26, 2013

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I am cheating with my husband.[/quote]mrs chima

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by SeunmiOsewa: 1:58pm On Mar 26, 2013

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I am cheating with my husband.[/quote]Or cheating with your gateman! grin

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by Nobody: 7:13pm On Mar 26, 2013

@OP
in my world, both are cheating unless you specifically told her BEFORE that you are going to fukc some other lady. if she fully well knows what you are doing, then it is not cheating. if you hide in the dead of night to crawl like a thief to see these ladies then off course this is cheating. sex is just the tip of the iceberg, even if you kissed her or simply touched her in some specific area then it is also cheating.

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by Nobody: 6:24am On Mar 27, 2013

@ poster,
Yes this would be cheating in my opinion.When youre with someone, it shouldnt take a legal oath to to give each other commitment and respect. Its only an excuse when people play the " Well, we arent legally married" card

Re: Is This Actually Cheating? by luvmijeje(f): 6:44am On Mar 27, 2013

Yes,it is called cheating and unfaithful.

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