when you are in a date with somebody you love so much, in which you are about to go into marriage, after you met with your pastor in church, you were told it can not work, and if you insist it won't hold in the church.
as a brother how will you feel, and also as a sister how will you feel, will you let go of the marriage or still be with each other?

I will pray about it

i think that will be the best option, but will you now take the marriage out of your own church?

Yes after fasting and praying

israel boy: when you are in a date with somebody you love so much, in which you are about to go into marriage, after you met with your pastor in church, you were told it can not work, and if you insist it won't hold in the church.
as a brother how will you feel, and also as a sister how will you feel, will you let go of the marriage or still be with each other?

What reason(s) did the church give not to wed you?

they are not meant to be together

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israel boy: they are not meant to be together

on what grounds?

@poster
Since you and your partner cannot think for yourself & make your own decision then just accept your pastors advice. I mean if u don't want to listen to him just because he says that you guys are not compatible then why bother to go & see him in the first place?