A lot of people might have brought up topics relating to the ideal age one is supposed to get married, but what I want to know is, should marriage be considered as an achievement or a decision made when one's set goals have been achieved. I ask this question because I see alot of people go into marriage without knowing the last thing about what they are getting into. Some go into marriage simply because all their friends are married or they feel they have attained 'the age of marriage'. While replying, pls bear in mind that marriage is the fundamental act that defines society.

I believe this is the upteenth time this issue would be treated in this section.

Marriage is a decision; good and enjoyable (not endurable) marriage is an achievement.

And you can't tell if a marriage is good now until several yrs after the wedding ceremony. So, getting married is basically a decision.