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Unfortunately, the reason why it's called a RELATIONSHIP is that it has to be between two people. For you to relate, there must be someone to relate with. Can't mention how many 'I' in your post - I love(d) him so much etc.

He cheated on you and you want to apologize. My dear, that's like giving him a licence to cheat on you eva.
He's not even sorry yet u want him back. If you missed the signs, He's Just not that into You and yes, you can move on.

There's life after the end of a one sided relationship.

my dear move on wt ur life.he does not appreciate and value u.love apart where is ur pride,going back to apologise wl give him a leverage over u.he has moved on so move on as well ok.u cannot tell me he has been single since .move on ur own guy that will love,vaue and appreciate u will come along.ok

apologize for wat?? so u r ok wit his cheating ways? FGS he didn't even have d decency to apologise. don't sell ursf short, u deserve a better man!!

he doesn't deserve ur love, i daresay if u love ursf as much as u love him, u woulda realised dat. wat u need to do is starting loving ursf, be in a rship wit u.

forget him, someone else ll come along besides, if he doesn't love u, do u think soothing his ego by begging him and going back to him will make him love u? no! it ll make him treat u lyk smelly poo. babe, u deserve beta.

Ladies will never cease to amaze me,he cheated and now you want apologise?You were even ironing the marafukers shirt after you knew he cheated.I got so many things to say to you but let me hold it because I don't know how much your tender heart can take.


If it takes you this much to love a man,then be ready to die for a man as well.

I wish I ever had a girlfriend like this

Don't even think of it, young lady!

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@poster,

Apologise for what? After six months he didn't show any kind of remorse instead trying to look for something to blame you. Let me catch you apologising to that fool. In fact don't let me pour my anger on you please.

princessmoi: @poster,

Apologise for what? After six months he didn't show any kind of remorse instead trying to look for something to blame you. Let me catch you apologising to that fool. In fact don't let me pour my anger on you please.

as if you don't know that some guys lick a lot of shi..t, watery shi..t for that matter.

in every relationship one person must kneel and d other must stand for d relationship to move forward.
in this case,u are the one kneelin...so,u hv to apologise to him since u stil love him and maybe him doing the same.....beside u only saw text msg and start to d vex carelessly

hiden_conyo: in every relationship one person must kneel and d other must stand for d relationship to move forward.
in this case,u are the one kneelin...so,u hv to apologise to him since u stil love him and maybe him doing the same.....beside u only saw text msg and start to d vex carelessly

Oh yea, right! When apologising, she should also go with the following;

10 white cocks.
1 white goat.
100 tubers of yam.
10 kegs of palm wine.
1 basket of native kola nut.



Nonsense!

Hahaha... To much apologies in your purse, you dunno how to spend it. That wasn't a relationship babe. Move on.

vivian chinaza:

Oh yea, right! When apologising, she should also go with the following;

10 white cocks.
1 white goat.
100 tubers of yam.
10 kegs of palm wine.
1 basket of native kola nut.



Nonsense!

just try to understand her situation, she just can't stop loving him....that's the problem

Go apologize, you dumb azz what were you doing in his phone?

Op,don't mind all these ladies advice here,just follow your heart. You saw what you wanted by searching his phone,and now you are complaining.

Most of the ladies here do worse things than yours,they would come here,and brag like a rabid d0g.

gree-die:
apologize for wat?? so u r ok wit his cheating ways? FGS he didn't even have d decency to apologise. don't sell ursf short, u deserve a better man!!

he doesn't deserve ur love, i daresay if u love ursf as much as u love him, u woulda realised dat. wat u need to do is starting loving ursf, be in a rship wit u.

forget him, someone else ll come along besides, if he doesn't love u, do u think soothing his ego by begging him and going back to him will make him love u? no! it ll make him treat u lyk smelly poo. babe, u deserve beta.

Always advising people to break up in relationship LOL

hiden_conyo: just try to understand her situation, she just can't stop loving him....that's the problem

If this guy was the one begging, I would have advised that she forgives him if she can, but no he wasn't. He was caught cheating and trust me, it doesn't matter how she found out. If she hadn't given this lady every reason to be suspicious of him, she wouldn't go sniffing around. Its good she found out anyway, cos sooner or later she would have been dumped.
He is just using reverse psychology on her, most men do that, using attack as best form of defence.
Begging him will not make anything better, its gonna get worst and this lady deserves a better man.

Davico:
Always advising people to break up in relationship LOL

u know this how?

@Foxie and all, be careful, do not toy with the power of God, his laws was that we shouldnt fornicate, he never sanctioned faithfulness in sin, for it is a sin to live or spend a night with a man who ure not married to. please let us stop substituting God's laws for ours. human law (morality says its ok to sleep with one person at a time, but God's laws says we shudnt do dat untill we get married, please do not use human laws as the standard here, do not initiate getting back to him, what you need to do is bring him to God, and also bring yourself to God. you cannot say that you havent been told, eternity is a long time to suffer, hell is real, and NO ONE knows when death wud come calling, dont risk eternity for a few years of pleasure!!!! but God's grace is sufficient to keep you, just come to him,and he will keep you in his presence.

vivian chinaza:

If this guy was the one begging, I would have advised that she forgives him if she can, but no he wasn't. He was caught cheating and trust me, it doesn't matter how she found out. If she hadn't given this lady every reason to be suspicious of him, she wouldn't go sniffing around. Its good she found out anyway, cos sooner or later she would been zygotezygotei ydumped.
He is just using reverse psychology on her, most men do that, using attack as best form of defence.
Begging him will not make anything better, its gonna get worst and this lady deserves a better man.

the bold part is just so deliberate a misinformation, I am tempted to call it a lie.

The average girl suffers so much from self esteem issues that she does not need a reason to grow suspicious. Be nice and faithful and she would suspect a cover up.

Oahray: the bold part is just so deliberate a misinformation, I am tempted to call it a lie.

The average girl suffers so much from self esteem issues that she does not need a reason to grow suspicious. Be nice and faithful and she would suspect a cover up.

I don't know what you are talking about ok? But if you read this story, you would see the part where the guy started withdrawing. And trust me most girls always know when there is another woman.

If a girl is naturally insecure? That's her problem, but if this insecurity arises as a result of suspicion? And this suspicion as a result of your action? Then it is your duty to make her feel secure!

In this case, the man is as guilty as charged. Its her life, I believe right now she is in a decision making process. But she asked for my advice, begging this man would not make things better. But at the end of the day, the decision is all hers.

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M.C:
@Foxie and all, be careful, do not toy with the power of God, his laws was that we shouldnt fornicate, he never sanctioned faithfulness in sin, for it is a sin to live or spend a night with a man who ure not married to. please let us stop substituting God's laws for ours. human law (morality says its ok to sleep with one person at a time, but God's laws says we shudnt do dat untill we get married, please do not use human laws as the standard here, do not initiate getting back to him, what you need to do is bring him to God, and also bring yourself to God. you cannot say that you havent been told, eternity is a long time to suffer, hell is real, and NO ONE knows when death wud come calling, dont risk eternity for a few years of pleasure!!!! but God's grace is sufficient to keep you, just come to him,and he will keep you in his presence.

M sure U̶̲̥̅̊ are not good at reading to understand, where in that post U̶̲̥̅̊ unreasonably commented on says I was fornicating with him? Did U̶̲̥̅̊ read from the top,no I guess! I specifically mentioned it was a LDR-a long distance Relationship if U̶̲̥̅̊ aren't familiar with the acronym. So how were we suppose to see? When all's being said,I still have Values 4 Dignity. Comment wisely.

[quote author=M.C]@ M.C M sure U̶̲̥̅̊ are not good at reading to understand, where in that post U̶̲̥̅̊ unreasonably commented on says I was fornicating with him? Did U̶̲̥̅̊ read from the top,no I guess! I specifically mentioned it was a LDR-a long distance Relationship if U̶̲̥̅̊ aren't familiar with the acronym. So how were we suppose to see? When all's being said,I still have Values 4 Dignity. Comment wisely.

hiden_conyo: just try to understand her situation, she just can't stop loving him....that's the problem

Which kind yeye love?
A guy cheated on u, u caught him red handed and he still had d gut to pick up a fight
Oh girl pls use ur head and not ur heart. Its is a LDR and dat guy is possibly seeing another girl so stay away from dat rship
Mayb he even left his fone intentionally for u to check. And 4 d sake o flove u still had time to press clothes . Very funny
I think he is using wot u said against u by breaking up finally.
Please dnt go back to him for anytime.
Stand on ur ground wit ur head high and move on. It maynot b easy but MOVE ON.
The guy is done with u. Going back to him will only bring more pain and aches

vivian chinaza:

I don't know what you are talking about ok? But if you read this story, you would see the part where the guy started withdrawing. And trust me most girls always know when there is another woman.

If a girl is naturally insecure? That's her problem, but if this insecurity arises as a result of suspicion? And this suspicion as a result of your action? Then it is your duty to make her feel secure!

In this case, the man is as guilty as charged. Its her life, I believe right now she is in a decision making process. But she asked for my advice, begging this man would not make things better. But at the end of the day, the decision is all hers.

the only part of that your post I didn't quite agree with was the part I highlighted. Sounds a bit too omniscient. You know she wouldn't have suspected without a good reason. How?

Truth is, few people if any, would make themselves the villain in any story. Inasmuch as she seems the victim who does not owe the bad guy any apology, it's still a single story... Incomplete. To think you have proclaimed him guilty already.

She wanted proof of cheating (whether her reasons are truly as valid as those she pointed out, or not), snooped around (the average girl would still do this even if she is married to Jesus), got it, traded angry words, parted ways... I do not get it, why does she want to apologise when she has gotten that which she wants?

@Op, If I were the guy...
If I'm guilty like you portrayed your guy, the breakup is a dream come true, and I would resist every effort to get back together.
If I am not guilty, I'd be so disappointed that I would not want to continue the relationship. I take trust issues seriously, especially when I do my best to earn it.

Either way, apologies with the aim of getting back together is a NO NO. Move on.

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@foxie, kk, im sorry if i spoke wrongly, but just so we are on the same page, i hope we both agree dt kissing is also part of fornication?

Oahray: the only part of that your post I didn't quite agree with was the part I highlighted. Sounds a bit too omniscient. You know she wouldn't have suspected without a good reason. How?

Truth is, few people if any, would make themselves the villain in any story. Inasmuch as she seems the victim who does not owe the bad guy any apology, it's still a single story... Incomplete. To think you have proclaimed him guilty already.

She wanted proof of cheating (whether her reasons are truly as valid as those she pointed out, or not), snooped around (the average girl would still do this even if she is married to Jesus), got it, traded angry words, parted ways... I do not get it, why does she want to apologise when she has gotten that which she wants?

@Op, If I were the guy...
If I'm guilty like you portrayed your guy, the breakup is a dream come true, and I would resist every effort to get back together.
If I am not guilty, I'd be so disappointed that I would not want to continue the relationship. I take trust issues seriously, especially when I do my best to earn it.

Either way, apologies with the aim of getting back together is a NO NO. Move on.

Ok, I stand corrected.

vivian chinaza:

I don't know what you are talking about ok? But if you read this story, you would see the part where the guy started withdrawing. And trust me most girls always know when there is another woman.

If a girl is naturally insecure? That's her problem, but if this insecurity arises as a result of suspicion? And this suspicion as a result of your action? Then it is your duty to make her feel secure!

In this case, the man is as guilty as charged. Its her life, I believe right now she is in a decision making process. But she asked for my advice, begging this man would not make things better. But at the end of the day, the decision is all hers.

Nne biko d girl Na pre-learner. D guy is just not into her, after 6months d guy no even send am.

malaria:
Nne biko d girl Na pre-learner. D guy is just not into her, after 6months d guy no even send am.

. That's eh. The girl di nma ipia ngbaachara. But do u blame her? Love can make you do stupid things sometimes.

vivian chinaza:

. That's eh. The girl di nma ipia ngbaachara. But do u blame her? Love can make you do stupid things sometimes.

She is been used,Honestly she is d second pesin in d guy's life . Nxt time poster love wit ur brain not hart. As for calling yhu , d guy will call u but not when u expect , so try and 4get him he is not worth it. Love is not blind, people in love are blind.

vivian chinaza:

as if you don't know that some guys lick a lot of shi..t, watery shi..t for that matter.