This same op recently posted that Her husband still communicates with his ex-girlfriend and that the husband picks quarrel with her when she complains. Now the husband is all praying and fasting again. I think something is wrong with this couple. Could this man be doing a cover up and hiding in a game of holiness? It appears the wife is starved of sex after a long waiting of abstinence if she actually did during their courting and desperately need it now while the husband might be wasting more of his energy with the ex-girl friend in a hide and seek adultery game and have no more power to fire on with the real wife. The lady may have a high libido that may not match her husband's appetite anyway and could be tempted to seek a hunk with a stud outside soon if care is not taken. Just my thoughts as any thing can happen. How can prayer and fasting become the order of the day for a newly married couple? When really the long barrier of sex has been removed by the act of marriage.