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Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by ghostofsparta(m): 8:03am On Apr 25, 2013
***This is a serious topic***

I was watching this really ANNOYING Nolly/Ghanywood movie on AIT, about one otherwise comfortable young husband whose very sexy wife kept denying of sex. It's keep getting worse despite all his polite attempts and overtures. She insisted she doesn't like to have sex and that her husbands only knows nothing but sex which is untrue according to the progression of the movie. Although this poor young man fought every attempt to patronize prostitutes twice, I think he was trying to obey his moral training probably stemming for a Christian background, whatever. But alas! NEPA did their thing as usual but this time it was is a favour since I wasn't bothered on how it was going to end. But the story kept me thinking in the dark. Personally, I don't think I subscribe to this social requirement i.e. having to do with this 'Wifey thing' but what would you rather do if someone you consider your wife denies you of sex continuously?

This is what I will do:
Personally, I for one used to self-service 4-5 times a day for 18 good years, I am saying that just to give an idea of how serious my libido is. And maybe I am somehow railroad into the matrimonial agreement of 'husband & wife' and she maliciously starts to deprive me of what I am privileged to, say for a week or two.



The day I am reacting is the day she's definitely packing out of that house that mid-night. My house or hers, it won't matter. And, say for one reason or the other I allowed her back in, with the expectation of her changing and she resumes the act, an act that will now be much more painful than burning in hell for eternity.

Let me hear your thoughts before I tell you how I will punish her sexually for making me regret the decision of allowing her back.

Don't get me wrong as I know some will tend to, this is not a thread about misogynists who relish in the suffering of females. Again...it's a thread asking what will you do as an husband if you find yourself in such dilemma.

Thanks for viewing.

Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by StPete: 2:12pm On Apr 25, 2013
Personally, I for one used to self-service 4-5 times a day for 18 good years, I am saying that just to give an idea of how serious my libido is.

The above highlighted sentence got ♍ε̲̣̣̣ reeling with laughter grin grin grin

But seriously, why would any ♈ig♓t thinkin woman deny her husband sex for a long time abi bomb dey her head
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by SLIDEwaxie(m): 5:31pm On Apr 25, 2013
I either fucck d maid or get an assistant-wife!

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Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Princesszoe: 9:48pm On Apr 25, 2013
You should be ashamed of yourself @ slide. So you would advise your son or daughter to do same when any of them faces similar fate ? Fear God o and be morally upright.
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by ghostofsparta(m): 4:57pm On May 17, 2013
SLIDE waxie: I either fucck d maid or get an assistant-wife!

What if you and your wife employed an houseboy instead of maid, are you going to pounce on him when the heat is unbearable?
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by bebe2(f): 5:31pm On May 17, 2013
All things being equal no woman wud deny her hubby sex.

But are men can be very dull wen it comes to things like this, for afternoon dem go do like say una dey quarrel but wen night reach dem go wan pounce like tiger. It's not done.

If u want it start working on it days before, be nice, be complimentary, touch her even wen u know u can't do it then, get her in a happy mood then maybe u might just get lucky tonight. cheesy cheesy

Lest I forget, make sure ur wife is enjoying it too. If she is not moaning its becos u r not doing it right. Ask her how she wants it.
After the deed to run away like u stole it, cuddle her for a few minutes before u go dey find wetin u go drink.

Bottomline is if she enjoys it, she won't refuse u the next time u ask.

Chei, I don really spoil o, may God have mercy on me wink

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Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Connoisseur(m): 8:45pm On May 17, 2013
ghostofsparta: Personally, I for one used to self-service 4-5 times a day for 18 good years, I am saying that just to give an idea of how serious my libido is.


never knew w*nking get round 2 not to talk of 5.
any woman who is in the habit of denying the husband of sex without a geninue reason is courting trouble
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by jeffizy(m): 10:41pm On May 17, 2013
bebe2:
If u want it start working on it days before, be nice, be complimentary, touch her even wen u know u can't do it then, get her in a happy mood then maybe u might just get lucky tonight. cheesy cheesy

Hmmm, bebe, please, don't play kashi with a man's conji o.
You may get hurt,i tell you!
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Nobody: 1:02am On May 18, 2013
ghostofsparta:

What if you and your wife employed an houseboy instead of maid, are you going to pounce on him when the heat is unbearable?

Rotflmao. grin grin grin

Personally, I for one used to self-service 4-5 times a day for 18 good years, I am saying that just to give an idea of how serious my libido is.

Lmao!!!!!! grin grin this is serious.
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Princesszoe: 5:53am On May 18, 2013
Initimacy in marriage must be done selflessly. The man should always compromise and same goes to the woman. If the man needs it, the woman should give in and if the woman gives reason for not having the strength or body language whether flimsy or not, the man should compromise and control himself. Selfishness drains peace, love and trust in marriages. The couple MUST be selfless for peace and genuine happiness to last in their marriage otherwise the two parties might even be cheating on themselves for different reasons without knowing it.

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Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Nobody: 1:32pm On May 18, 2013
He shud fix whatever went wrong
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by ghostofsparta(m): 7:27pm On May 18, 2013
mondi_cheeks: He shud fix whatever went wrong
And one of the ways for her to let him know there's something to fix is to deny him s3x?

Princess zoe: Initimacy in marriage must be done selflessly. The man should always compromise and same goes to the woman. If the man needs it, the woman should give in and if the woman gives reason for not having the strength or body language whether flimsy or not, the man should compromise and control himself. Selfishness drains peace, love and trust in marriages. The couple MUST be selfless for peace and genuine happiness to last in their marriage otherwise the two parties might even be cheating on themselves for different reasons without knowing it.
Regardless of your opinion, what will you do if you're a man and your wife consistently denies you?
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Princesszoe: 7:49pm On May 18, 2013
Ghostofsparta i'd find out what happened. If my partner is ill, we will work it out. If my partner is observing prayers, i will bend. Definitely my partner will not sex starve me or deny me intimacy for straight one week. At least sundays are free days. We can have as many rounds as possible. Ofcourse the fellowing week might not be same with the previous week. We can do it within the week. The thing is, selflessness is one of major key to a lasting home. Sex shouldn't be every day thing and one shouldn't be sex starved either. We must learn and establish the character of compromise otherwise the marriage will be doomed and the children will suffer emotionally, morally, spiritually and physcologically.

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Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by coogar: 8:09pm On May 18, 2013
ghostofsparta: ***This is a serious topic***

I was watching this really ANNOYING Nolly/Ghanywood movie on AIT, about one otherwise comfortable young husband whose very sexy wife kept denying of sex. It's keep getting worse despite all his polite attempts and overtures. She insisted she doesn't like to have sex and that her husbands only knows nothing but sex which is untrue according to the progression of the movie. Although this poor young man fought every attempt to patronize prostitutes twice, I think he was trying to obey his moral training probably stemming for a Christian background, whatever. But alas! NEPA did their thing as usual but this time it was is a favour since I wasn't bothered on how it was going to end. But the story kept me thinking in the dark. Personally, I don't think I subscribe to this social requirement i.e. having to do with this 'Wifey thing' but what would you rather do if someone you consider your wife denies you of sex continuously?

This is what I will do:

Personally, I for one used to self-service 4-5 times a day for 18 good years, I am saying that just to give an idea of how serious my libido is. And maybe I was somehow I was somehow railroad into the matrimonial agreement and she starts maliciously starts to deprive me of what I am privileged of, say for a week or two.

Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by armyofone(m): 8:13pm On May 18, 2013
cougar,

grin
show me how to do the gif. I don't mind being your student.
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by coogar: 8:19pm On May 18, 2013
armyofone: cougar,
grin
show me how to do the gif. I don't mind being your student.

you know the way to my crib - come alone around 10pm. the tutorial would take about 8 hours. there would be a break of one hour in between.
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by armyofone(m): 8:23pm On May 18, 2013
FedEx flight ticket please.
must arrive just in time to make plans (buy text/notebooks, pencil and eraser).
coogar:

you know the way to my crib - come alone around 10pm. the tutorial would take about 8 hours. there would be a break of one hour in between.
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Nobody: 9:43pm On May 18, 2013
ghostofsparta:
And one of the ways for her to let him know there's something to fix is to deny him s3x?
yes..if she is angry she won't want it, it's not only jus to punish
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by dasparrow: 10:31pm On May 18, 2013
ghostofsparta:
And one of the ways for her to let him know there's something to fix is to deny him s3x?


Regardless of your opinion, what will you do if you're a man and your wife consistently denies you?

@Bolded

I won't really worry about it because I am not addicted to sex nor do I have the demonic spirit of lust dwelling in me neither do I have a libido like yours that rivals the libido of a horse on Viagra or a dog on heat that you have to self service severally a day like typical sex addicts do. Besides, any man who is a perfect gentleman will know the right things to do to get wifey in the mood and how to pamper his wife and get her in the mood for love making.

However, when many of you Nigerian-bred men act like aggressive chimpanzees in the jungle with no iota of affection which is necessary to get ladies in the mood for love making, then why won't you be denied sex? You make a woman terribly angry during the day yet you want her to open her punany for you at night. It does not work that way. You don't assist in the home and allow your woman work herself to stupor and exhaustion and then you think you can come with your crappy looking, probably disease infested p*r*i*c*k and expect her to suddenly feel all mushy inside and wet down below that will facilitate easy entrance into her hole. It does not work that way because if a woman is not in the mood for sex, her punany will not be wet and penetration will be painful.

Educate yourself on the psychology of women and you will be fine.

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Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Nobody: 10:33pm On May 18, 2013
dasparrow:

@Bolded

I won't really worry about it because I am not addicted to sex nor do I have the demonic spirit of lust dwelling in me neither do I have a libido like yours that rivals the libido of a horse on Viagra or a dog on heat that you have to self service severally a day like typical sex addicts do. Besides, any man who is a perfect gentleman will know the right things to do to get wifey in the mood and how to pamper his wife and get her in the mood for love making.

However, when many of you Nigerian-bred men act like aggressive chimpanzees in the jungle with no iota of affection which is necessary to get ladies in the mood for love making, then why won't you be denied sex? You make a woman terribly angry during the day yet you want her to open her punany for you at night. It does not work that way. You don't assist in the home and allow your woman work herself to stupor and exhaustion and then you think you can come with your crappy looking, probably disease infested p*r*i*c*k and expect her to suddenly feel all mushy inside and wet down below that will facilitate easy entrance into her hole. It does not work that way because if a woman is not in the mood for sex, her punany will not be wet and penetration will be painful.

Lwkmd!!! Bwahahahaha!!! Rotflmao!! grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Nobody: 10:44pm On May 18, 2013
Goodness gracious me @Desparrow grin grin grin

Sex sex sex like they're cursed. grin wetin gaan?
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by weaseloo: 11:46pm On May 18, 2013
dasparrow:

@Bolded

I won't really worry about it because I am not addicted to sex nor do I have the demonic spirit of lust dwelling in me neither do I have a libido like yours that rivals the libido of a horse on Viagra or a dog on heat that you have to self service severally a day like typical sex addicts do. Besides, any man who is a perfect gentleman will know the right things to do to get wifey in the mood and how to pamper his wife and get her in the mood for love making.

However, when many of you Nigerian-bred men act like aggressive chimpanzees in the jungle with no iota of affection which is necessary to get ladies in the mood for love making, then why won't you be denied sex? You make a woman terribly angry during the day yet you want her to open her punany for you at night. It does not work that way. You don't assist in the home and allow your woman work herself to stupor and exhaustion and then you think you can come with your crappy looking, probably disease infested p*r*i*c*k and expect her to suddenly feel all mushy inside and wet down below that will facilitate easy entrance into her hole. It does not work that way because if a woman is not in the mood for sex, her punany will not be wet and penetration will be painful.

Educate yourself on the psychology of women and you will be fine.


@ Bolded: True Talk!!!
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Princesszoe: 4:05am On May 19, 2013
Yes i concur
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by dayokanu(m): 7:47am On May 19, 2013
Intro to wahala
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Nobody: 10:12am On May 19, 2013
For the past three (3) weeeks,my wife have denied me sex - very serious; and i have been very calm.I am very faithful to her but what her problem is;is what i can not explain or understand as i have not piked up quarrels with her concerning it,i have only registered my displeasure.Worst of it is that she does not bother.Though, now i have come to understand one thing in my marriage."I should never feel hungry when she is not and never feel hungry when she is..! Candid help..!
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Nobody: 10:13am On May 19, 2013
For the past three (3) weeeks,my wife have denied me sex - very serious; and i have been very calm.I am very faithful to her but what her problem is;is what i can not explain or understand as i have not picked up quarrels with her concerning it,i have only registered my displeasure.Worst of it is that she does not bother.Though, now i have come to understand one thing in my marriage."I should never feel hungry when she is not and never feel hungry when she is..! Candid help..!
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by bebe2(f): 4:18pm On May 19, 2013
Communication is the key, she has probably heard something that has upset her.

Ask her calmly wat it is, tell her if she doesn't tell u, u will tickle her till she does. Never mind how angry she is. Tickle her till she is laughing uncontrolably u cud ask the kids to join u. That will take the tension off, n she might be calm enuf to tell u wat bothering.
It works for me sha, I hope it does for u.
Ehhhhnnn tell madam say God no give am the thing make she dey use as weapon o
greg1234: For the past three (3) weeeks,my wife have denied me sex - very serious; and i have been very calm.I am very faithful to her but what her problem is;is what i can not explain or understand as i have not picked up quarrels with her concerning it,i have only registered my displeasure.Worst of it is that she does not bother.Though, now i have come to understand one thing in my marriage."I should never feel hungry when she is not and never feel hungry when she is..! Candid help..!

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Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Nobody: 8:49pm On May 19, 2013
dasparrow:

@Bolded

I won't really worry about it because I am not addicted to sex nor do I have the demonic spirit of lust dwelling in me neither do I have a libido like yours that rivals the libido of a horse on Viagra or a dog on heat that you have to self service severally a day like typical sex addicts do. Besides, any man who is a perfect gentleman will know the right things to do to get wifey in the mood and how to pamper his wife and get her in the mood for love making.

However, when many of you Nigerian-bred men act like aggressive chimpanzees in the jungle with no iota of affection which is necessary to get ladies in the mood for love making, then why won't you be denied sex? You make a woman terribly angry during the day yet you want her to open her punany for you at night. It does not work that way. You don't assist in the home and allow your woman work herself to stupor and exhaustion and then you think you can come with your crappy looking, probably disease infested p*r*i*c*k and expect her to suddenly feel all mushy inside and wet down below that will facilitate easy entrance into her hole. It does not work that way because if a woman is not in the mood for sex, her punany will not be wet and penetration will be painful.

Educate yourself on the psychology of women and you will be fine.
All talk and •̸№ actiongrin •̸№ matter where you are,I bet you one day you shall come begging one of those "chimpanzees".but wait o,how did you know about that if they were •̸№t already bleeping ‎u upside down like real chimpanzees of EuropeAnyway,Just a tot gringringrin
Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Nobody: 1:00pm On May 20, 2013
dasparrow:

@Bolded

I won't really worry about it because I am not addicted to sex nor do I have the demonic spirit of lust dwelling in me neither do I have a libido like yours that rivals the libido of a horse on Viagra or a dog on heat that you have to self service severally a day like typical sex addicts do. Besides, any man who is a perfect gentleman will know the right things to do to get wifey in the mood and how to pamper his wife and get her in the mood for love making.

However, when many of you Nigerian-bred men act like aggressive chimpanzees in the jungle with no iota of affection which is necessary to get ladies in the mood for love making, then why won't you be denied sex? You make a woman terribly angry during the day yet you want her to open her punany for you at night. It does not work that way. You don't assist in the home and allow your woman work herself to stupor and exhaustion and then you think you can come with your crappy looking, probably disease infested p*r*i*c*k and expect her to suddenly feel all mushy inside and wet down below that will facilitate easy entrance into her hole. It does not work that way because if a woman is not in the mood for sex, her punany will not be wet and penetration will be painful.

Educate yourself on the psychology of women and you will be fine.
one million likes
U took that out of my mouth.
SMH for the fools that call themselves husbands we have in this country. Can't think beyond their erect di/ck.s.
Nothing else matters.except they het what they want.no care for the feeling of the wife. The dude is asking if denying him sex is the way to show if something is wrong.
Answer;HEll yes!
Don't you know sex is emotional for women.unlike u guys,u can plug ur stick in any hole.we women if we aint happy,the hole aint opening.shikena.

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Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by Nobody: 1:38pm On May 20, 2013
lorretta u: one million likes
U took that out of my mouth.
SMH for the fools that call themselves husbands we have in this country. Can't think beyond their erect di/ck.s.
Nothing else matters.except they het what they want.no care for the feeling of the wife. The dude is asking if denying him sex is the way to show if something is wrong.
Answer;HEll yes!
Don't you know sex is emotional for women.unlike u guys,u can plug ur stick in any hole.we women if we aint happy,the hole aint opening.shikena.
Which hole are you talking aboutThe express way that every Tom Dick and baba Harry has deposited gonosyphillis into!
SMH for the likes of you who are •̸№t even sure of getting married.gringringrin

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Re: Why Should A Wife Deny Her Husband Sex & What To Do If It Was You by afrika(f): 5:05pm On Aug 28, 2022
bebe2:
All things being equal no woman wud deny her hubby sex.

But are men can be very dull wen it comes to things like this, for afternoon dem go do like say una dey quarrel but wen night reach dem go wan pounce like tiger. It's not done.

If u want it start working on it days before, be nice, be complimentary, touch her even wen u know u can't do it then, get her in a happy mood then maybe u might just get lucky tonight. cheesy cheesy

Lest I forget, make sure ur wife is enjoying it too. If she is not moaning its becos u r not doing it right. Ask her how she wants it.
After the deed to run away like u stole it, cuddle her for a few minutes before u go dey find wetin u go drink.

Bottomline is if she enjoys it, she won't refuse u the next time u ask.

Chei, I don really spoil o, may God have mercy on me wink

My dear, u re right but this topic always gets me worried.

Maybe it tilted to the side of the men whom seem like the are suffering, people don't tend to take it serious. No awareness, no protesting, no TV show on It etc.

But remember there are some women that could be nice all round and neat inside yet their hubby loves them dirty and varieties. So they pounce outside their prey and never disturbs or wants sex inside.

Anyways, the long and short of my story is that those good guys always marry the wrong girls and the good girls end up with bad guys.

I have this friend, the guy is always complaining to me. His wife is on the chubby side. Yet the girl does not come for sex. She cud stay 4 weeks and no sex for the guy. They re both married and she tends to sleep in her own room. She sometimes does not dress sexy or appear sexy in the night so the guy even if he attempts, her body language n response could be not in the mood or didn't bath.

So, he curls bad inside and comes to toast my best friend for relationship n sex.

This days most lucky girls that never went to church to beg baba God for husband turn celibate when they have two kids or more.

They see no need for sex, yet worry if the man stays out too late. It is either they are waiting for the guy to die so as to be frier or the guy ain't fucking her well

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