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9 Things Ladies Should Never Tell A Man by mencade5(m): 10:30pm On Apr 28, 2013
9 Things Women
Should Never Tell a Man. There are a number of things
that you should never tell a
man if you would like to have
a good dating relationship
with him. Let us take a look
at them so that you can avoid them. 1. Being the first to say "I love
you." You may say this as a
way of making him say that
he loves you too, but you
should not try to push him to
say something he is not yet prepared for. You will remain
in an awkward position when
he does not do it. 2. If he promised to call but
didn't, don't confront him and
ask why he did not call. You
will be basically accusing him
of not caring for you, and it is
more likely that you will make him turn defensive. 3. When you go out on a date,
do not press him to tell you
when you should expect to
see him once more. If he is
really interested, he will get
in touch. On the other hand, if he has no interest, then you
should not keep your life on
hold for him. 4. In case he does not keep
his promise to see you, you
should not ask him where he
had been. The hidden
question is really whether he
was out with another girl, which will just show your fear
and insecurity. 5. In case he had gone out
with another woman, you will
simply put both of you in an
uncomfortable position when
you ask him whether he went
to bed with her. Even if he did, he is not doing it now. 6. Whether you have just
started going out with a guy
or you have dated for some
time, do not press him with
the question as to where your
relationship is going. If the relationship is promising, you
will simply know this from his
actions. 7. If you have something you
would like to discuss with
him, bring it up casually at an
appropriate time. When you
tell him that you would like to
have a talk, he will automatically become
defensive as he does not
expect the conversation to be
enjoyable. You just need to
choose your time well. 8. However much he has hurt
you, going around stating how
you have him won't solve the
issue. In fact, when you
maintain your cool even
during a breakup, you will win his admiration. But throwing
temper tantrums will only
push him further away from
you. 9. In case you suspect that he
has been up to no good,
telling him that you don't
trust him won't make him
change. Instead, he will just
get more careful, and you won't be able to get the much
needed evidence.
Re: 9 Things Ladies Should Never Tell A Man by iebanehita(m): 11:09pm On Apr 28, 2013
All ds rubbish don't av a source?!!
Re: 9 Things Ladies Should Never Tell A Man by Kingslaw(m): 11:36pm On Apr 28, 2013
So if person use his head write something you go de ask for source bah?
Re: 9 Things Ladies Should Never Tell A Man by mencade5(m): 6:15am On Apr 29, 2013
iebanehita: All ds rubbish don't av a source?!!

i guess ur own topic on football has source right?
Re: 9 Things Ladies Should Never Tell A Man by iebanehita(m): 11:16am On Apr 29, 2013
mencade5: i guess ur own topic on football has source right?

lol..no hard feelings mahn.
Re: 9 Things Ladies Should Never Tell A Man by mencade5(m): 5:52pm On Apr 29, 2013
iebanehita:

lol..no hard feelings mahn.
hahaha...same here 4 me. Am just having fun. Tank you.
Re: 9 Things Ladies Should Never Tell A Man by herboshedhe(f): 4:53pm On May 01, 2013
mencade5: 9 Things Women
Should Never Tell a Man. There are a number of things
that you should never tell a
man if you would like to have
a good dating relationship
with him. Let us take a look
at them so that you can avoid them. 1. Being the first to say "I love
you." You may say this as a
way of making him say that
he loves you too, but you
should not try to push him to
say something he is not yet prepared for. You will remain
in an awkward position when
he does not do it. 2. If he promised to call but
didn't, don't confront him and
ask why he did not call. You
will be basically accusing him
of not caring for you, and it is
more likely that you will make him turn defensive. 3. When you go out on a date,
do not press him to tell you
when you should expect to
see him once more. If he is
really interested, he will get
in touch. On the other hand, if he has no interest, then you
should not keep your life on
hold for him. 4. In case he does not keep
his promise to see you, you
should not ask him where he
had been. The hidden
question is really whether he
was out with another girl, which will just show your fear
and insecurity. 5. In case he had gone out
with another woman, you will
simply put both of you in an
uncomfortable position when
you ask him whether he went
to bed with her. Even if he did, he is not doing it now. 6. Whether you have just
started going out with a guy
or you have dated for some
time, do not press him with
the question as to where your
relationship is going. If the relationship is promising, you
will simply know this from his
actions. 7. If you have something you
would like to discuss with
him, bring it up casually at an
appropriate time. When you
tell him that you would like to
have a talk, he will automatically become
defensive as he does not
expect the conversation to be
enjoyable. You just need to
choose your time well. 8. However much he has hurt
you, going around stating how
you have him won't solve the
issue. In fact, when you
maintain your cool even
during a breakup, you will win his admiration. But throwing
temper tantrums will only
push him further away from
you. 9. In case you suspect that he
has been up to no good,
telling him that you don't
trust him won't make him
change. Instead, he will just
get more careful, and you won't be able to get the much
needed evidence.
Thanks for the advice,we'll work on them
!
Re: 9 Things Ladies Should Never Tell A Man by mencade5(m): 6:39am On May 02, 2013
herboshedhe:
Thanks for the advice,we'll work on them
!
you are welcome dear.

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