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U have made ur choice why opening a thread to ask what is ur problem, ur problem is that u fail to mind ur biz and live ur life as u want without bothering piple if ur being gay is good or bad. IMO is bad but who am I to judge u, ur experience with gals is not an excuse to be gay cus we straight piple have worse experience with gals too but that cant make me turn gay. Its ur life to live but be ready for the consequences of being gay.

calm9090: I do not wrong people , I am always careful in whatever I do, I have never hurt a lady, broken no hearts . Actually, I have gone through hell with girls in my early years.
I seem to like the company of guys around me, I never really have to bother about so many things that come with the boy/girl relationship package.
Simply put, I am gay, can anyone really tell me the problem with making myself happy ? I have never tried to influence anyone.
I'm not a church freak tho, so if you have something valid, asides the bible, then make me understand how I have a problem .
or is it just by the laws of the country?



*****there's no point cursing, I've gotten better insults from people, they don't move me anymore.

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if i have a son like you, i WILL kill him immediately i know his sexual preference. Lord knows.

the wrong thing with who U are is that U do not know that every thing is wrong with who U are.

clemz85: the wrong thing with who U are is that U do not know that every thing is wrong with who U are.

there is nothing wrong with u as a person but everything is wrong with the lifestyle you choose to live. I'm not even going to go religious on you but if nature designed for homosexuality we'd have only one gender in every specie.

money-hungry :
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if i have a son like you, i WILL kill him immediately i know his sexual preference. Lord knows.

Okay.

But then, get a son first .

What's this thread about? Dissing you or encouraging you? You said you've heard it all? So what else?

If you want my views about homosexualism...i'm totally against it and i do not believe it's in-born. I condemn no one...but if you have doubts in your heart about it, seek help.

After reading your post and you saying "Actually, I have gone through hell with girls in my early years" and "I never really have to bother about so many things that come with the boy/girl relationship package", I can't help but wonder if you're gay because you have CHOSEN that lifestyle, as a result of your negative experiences with women. You find it easier and more manageable to be with a man than a woman? I'm just going by what you wrote, so feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.

There's nothing wrong with who you are. I'm sure there's a lot more to your personal identity that you being gay.

BUT there is something wrong with who you have chosen to be and not because you've chosen it (in other words, unlike other people I'm not judging nor condemning you for being gay), BUT I do have a problem with your reasons for being gay; the reasons you mentioned. Some say they're born gay (which's debatable), others CHOOSE being gay. If yours is the latter, then there's a possibility that you can change, that is if you want to.

And No, there's nothing wrong with making yourself happy. Happiness is an end and we all have different means of attaining it. Not everyone will agree with how you go about it. You must know and I'm sure you already do, that the Nigerian society is not accepting of it and you've to find a way to cope. Good luck.

if u r truely wat u claim 2 be, y announcing it?
i sense u feel inferor.
a f-a-g?
too bad.

wtfff why are the rules and regulations over my head? what's going on?
what is the caveat all bout?
Seun what's wrong?

Op, u said gay??

How can u prefer a shIIt hole to.., (1). Soft Boobi??
(2).Wet&lubricated punny??
(3). Softness of a woman‘s body?
(4).pls, do gays kiss?? And, if they do..., hw does if feel like?
(5). Do they do Fingering??
(6). Do they give BJ?

Pls, i need answers. because, i need to understand this thing called GAY. #no fun or insult intended#

calm9090: I do not wrong people , I am always careful in whatever I do, I have never hurt a lady, broken no hearts . Actually, I have gone through hell with girls in my early years.
I seem to like the company of guys around me, I never really have to bother about so many things that come with the boy/girl relationship package.
Simply put, I am gay, can anyone really tell me the problem with making myself happy ? I have never tried to influence anyone.
I'm not a church freak tho, so if you have something valid, asides the bible, then make me understand how I have a problem .
or is it just by the laws of the country?



*****there's no point cursing, I've gotten better insults from people, they don't move me anymore.

If you are gay, how have you gone through hell with girls?

money-hungry :
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if i have a son like you, i WILL kill him immediately i know his sexual preference. Lord knows.

This is cold blooded, just wrong.

dude if you wana be gay, relocate from naija becoz you know how we are. do not come here and be playing victim. relocate or challenge politics