jusRadical: SEX among humans is only for those who are legally married (one man, one wife and no divorce)? Anything outside this is either fornication or adultery.

@poster you should have thought of this before committing the fornication because he that wants to build a house must first of all count the cost before starting. How would you feel in the next 10 - 30 year when you remember the pre-marital sex you engaged in or that you were pregnant before marriage?

I am not condeming you but you need to hear some basic truth to be able to know better, think clearer and plan better .

You need salvation in CHRIST JESUS first before the marriage. The marriage is a secondary issue, while peace with GOD is the primary and also the most important thing now. JESUS still loves you

dasparrow:

You should have thought about all that before opening your legs and fornicating with someone you are not legally married to. Have you not heard of birth control pills and condom? Anyways, at this point, you and your soon-to-be baby daddy should sit down like two mature adults and think of the way forward. I don't have anything else to tell you.

mediainspired: While I undastand d OP's situatn & dilemna, it stil does not take away D FACT dat she &her boyfriend hav commited a great sin &stand guilty b4 God. 90% of d comments here, esp by d ladies is a fulfilment of God's words, "For in d last days, iniquity shall abound (increase) &men shall be lovers of demselves more dan lovers of God."
See dem rationalising fornication on d false premise dat "everyone does it in courtship." Really? Cos I dont out of d fear of God, & i know a good numba of ppl who dont. Haul abuses as u want (meanwhile most if dem are fervent churchgoers &even workers), but fornicatn is d worst sin in d Bible cos its a sin against God &ur own body. OP, i wil not mince words, repent of ur sins, make peace wit ur creator first &He wil giv u wisdom on wat to do. It may not even be any of d pieces of advice here.

mediainspired: While I undastand d OP's situatn & dilemna, it stil does not take away D FACT dat she &her boyfriend hav commited a great sin &stand guilty b4 God. 90% of d comments here, esp by d ladies is a fulfilment of God's words, "For in d last days, iniquity shall abound (increase) &men shall be lovers of demselves more dan lovers of God."
See dem rationalising fornication on d false premise dat "everyone does it in courtship." Really? Cos I dont out of d fear of God, & i know a good numba of ppl who dont. Haul abuses as u want (meanwhile most if dem are fervent churchgoers &even workers), but fornicatn is d worst sin in d Bible cos its a sin against God &ur own body. OP, i wil not mince words, repent of ur sins, make peace wit ur creator first &He wil giv u wisdom on wat to do. It may not even be any of d pieces of advice here.

BagLova:

can you just shut up and making yourself look stup!d? She has two options and you're here criticizing and judging. What makes you feel she has not asked God for forgiveness already? People like you have sent women to abortion clinics to cover your fake righteousness.

Those of you that are forming holy holy. If you have ever kissed, grabbed a woman's oranges or even licked your lips at a woman's arse, you have sinned too. You are so annoying.

mccooler: are you telling me you are already having sex?...well i'll advise you wait for the ripe time, get married , then you can talk abt sex.

2sa2: How come no one is recommending abortion

achi4u: , According to the bible, You can't have a child outside wedlock. You'll only be facing the wrought of God. The deed has been done already,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,guy pack well with dat ur bible.sombody is seeking for a reasonable advice and u are here brandishing a mere book writting by a whiteman.

My dear Op kindly have ur beautiful baby which is the greatest gift the nature can offer and then procceed to a man made wedding.

But first let him go and pay for ur bride price...and every other thing shall fall in place.

Can you show me the Scripture that says you can't have a child outside wedlock
He who is without sin cast the first stone...

sureteeboy: Marriage is honorable in all. And the bed undefiled: but whoremongers, and adulterers, God will judge > hebrews 13:4.

According to the bible, You can't have a child outside wedlock. You'll only be facing the wrought of God. The deed has been done already, (I mean the pregnancy).

Pray to God for forgiveness and get married ASAP

*Kails*:
why should it matter?
i mean unless your Amish or something

WeddingFever: I would like to know what most women would do if they find out their pregnant. We don't have money to wed as we just graduated from uni and my boyfriend is not settled. His working but i don't have a job for now. Should our parents help us to get married or do you advice us to have our baby and get married later. Thanks a lot.

simpleseyi:


Thou shall not judge. Are you a virgin? If so, go to the nearest brothel and get yourself disvirgined. Lastly, don't marry any woman without 'testing' her, it is like buying no-testing used electronic at WestMinster. This is an advice from my church mind.

WeddingFever: I wanted an abortion immediately after finding out but my bf was deeply upset abt my decision. He said he wouldn't let me hurt his child. He has started planning towards the baby and even brought up the topic of marriage so I decided to ask how others did it. Thanks.

dasparrow:

You should have thought about all that before opening your legs and fornicating with someone you are not legally married to. Have you not heard of birth control pills and condom? Anyways, at this point, you and your soon-to-be baby daddy should sit down like two mature adults and think of the way forward. I don't have anything else to tell you.

tellwisdom:
You are foolissh or you just asked a ffoolish question-choose one??...where was ur parent when you guys were busy handling ur boobbs, kissin and yanshin?? ...why involve them now??

alosnika:

Please tell me you have never committed any sin ever since you were born. I suspect you are a product of adultery,else you wouldn't have spoken like this.

sureteeboy: Marriage is honorable in all. And the bed undefiled: but whoremongers, and adulterers, God will judge > hebrews 13:4.

According to the bible, You can't have a child outside wedlock. You'll only be facing the wrought of God. The deed has been done already, (I mean the pregnancy).

Pray to God for forgiveness and get married ASAP

32-D:

so una neva get money una come dey fvck without rubber, u no know say u neva get job wen u open ur legs dey chop sweet banana....no worry born d baby, head wey go suffer, even if u carry am go aso villa, he/she go still find his/her way to ajegunle

BagLova:

can you just shut up and making yourself look stup!d? She has two options and you're here criticizing and judging. What makes you feel she has not asked God for forgiveness already? People like you have sent women to abortion clinics to cover your fake righteousness.

Those of you that are forming holy holy. If you have ever kissed, grabbed a woman's oranges or even licked your lips at a woman's arse, you have sinned too. You are so annoying.

WeddingFever: I wanted an abortion immediately after finding out but my bf was deeply upset abt my decision. He said he wouldn't let me hurt his child. He has started planning towards the baby and even brought up the topic of marriage so I decided to ask how others did it. Thanks.