PAGAN 9JA:
I know u will argue its African and stuff. but personally I feel if we are to progress, we must not abuse women and treat them like mere objects. iif polygamy is legal, then polyanndry should also be made legal, as was in the old Pagan days.

Other Pagan nations around the world (India, CHina, Japan, etc., who had polygamist hstory) have already abandoned it.

bama so! oyinbo says no to polygamy but yes to gay marriage abi?

Come to Nigeria.

PAGAN 9JA:
I know u will argue its African and stuff. but personally I feel if we are to progress, we must not abuse women and treat them like mere objects. iif polygamy is legal, then polyanndry should also be made legal, as was in the old Pagan days.

Other Pagan nations around the world (India, CHina, Japan, etc., who had polygamist hstory) have already abandoned it.

DUDE, ARE YOU SURE THERE WAS A TIME A WOMAN WAS ALLOWED TO MARRY MANY MEN IN HISTORY Or you just made that up

Policewoman: DUDE, ARE YOU SURE THERE WAS A TIME A WOMAN WAS ALLOWED TO MARRY MANY MEN IN HISTORY Or you just made that up

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyandry

According to inscriptions describing the reforms of the Sumerian king Urukagina of Lagash (ca. 2300 BC), the former custom of polyandry in his country was abolished, on pain of the woman taking multiple husbands being stoned with rocks upon which her crime is written.[1]

Polyandry in Tibet was a common practice and continues to a lesser extent today. Polyandry in India still exists among minorities, and also in Bhutan, and the northern parts of Nepal. Polyandry has been practised in several parts of India, such as Rajasthan, Ladakh and Zanskar, in the Jaunsar-Bawar region in Uttarakhand, among the Toda of South India,[2] and the Nishi of Arunachal Pradesh.[citation needed]

It also occurs or has occurred in Nigeria (Among the Irigwe of Northern Nigeria, women have traditionally acquired numerous spouses called "co-husbands.", the Nymba,[2] and some pre-contact Polynesian societies,[3] though probably only among higher caste women.[4] It is also encountered in some regions of Yunnan and Sichuan regions of China, among the Mosuo people in China, and in some sub-Saharan African such as the Maasai people in Kenya and northern Tanzania[5] and American indigenous communities. The Guanches, the first known inhabitants of the Canary Islands, practiced polyandry until their disappearance.[6] The Zo'e tribe in the state of Pará on the Cuminapanema River, Brazil, also practice polyandry.[7] Polyandry was practiced in Celtic societies as women were allowed to own property and marry more than one husband.[citation needed]

50calibre: I don't believe this co*k and bull story. An African woman would pass on the opportunity to become a wife ( even if its number 70th ) of a filthy WEALTHY king and chose instead to be a refugee in Britain? I don't think so and the UKBA would see through the ruse.

not all African woman, not everybody is after wealth, and please stop your generalization

This lady just want some international recognition, and she's already getting it and soon, UN as usual will invite her and give her a Nobel Peace Prize for fighting polygammy in Swaziland...the world is all about being smart and utilising opportunities. Smart lady

Eneze1:


not all African woman, not everybody is after wealth, and please stop your generalization

well you don't expect him to give an exact number.do u?

bethnals:

bama so! oyinbo says no to polygamy but yes to gay marriage abi?

very funny, Africans are just too gullible. Whatever the western world approve, is approved and whatever they condemn is condemned.

Gay marriage was just legalised in France a few days ago, and American government was also pressurising Nigerian government to approve gay marriage, but at the same time, they condemn polygamy.

All these are their western tactics to ensure all African cultures are destroyed and foolishly, we are dancing to their drum beats, sighs.

CAMEROONPRIDE: well you don't expect him to give an exact number.do u?

I wasn't expecting him to give an exact number, but it won't be fair on u guys for me to say all guys are cheat,

PAGAN 9JA:
I think its high time they abolish polygamy.

You can't abolish polygamy. You can only fight to have a democratic system which I think its absence is the problem of the above mentioned state.

Eneze1:


I wasn't expecting him to give an exact number, but it won't be fair on u guys for me to say all guys are cheat,

you wanted him to use some?

Eneze1:


I wasn't expecting him to give an exact number, but it won't be fair on u guys for me to say all guys are cheat,

but you said it already.

Dewze:

thanks a lot bro. Anyway you can help will be highly appreciated. There is a friend in Cameroon that I trying to locate. Her name is Rockia Ebane Enogene. I beleive she schld at university of yaounde and she might be affiliated to ubmls.
She taught me how to eat Ndole and groundnut soup bro (lovly meal).
Just like to know how she is doing now.

Hahaha, now you are making me miss Ndole, groundnut soup. I enjoyed eating both with unripe plantain. But, Cameroon try sha with food (Aricot rouge with banane, manioc).

polygamy is allowed in Islam and thus shoud be respected. the problem is not the polygamy itself ,its the practitioners who abuse it out of its lessons and understanding. will u say because the eyes looks evils the u will pluck it out?. women en slavery is totally forbidden in Islam even its an act that brings the wrath of God on the husband.and mind u the God that legalizes it knows more than we do.look at this instances
1. a man that has sexual power more than a single woman
2.a woman that does not give birth to a child for many years e. t .c

CAMEROONPRIDE:

Etc jeez give us a break and man woman up and Learn to assume your decisions...we are in the era of Mrs independent aka strong black woman

Policewoman: DUDE, ARE YOU SURE THERE WAS A TIME A WOMAN WAS ALLOWED TO MARRY MANY MEN IN HISTORY Or you just made that up

There was a time when many societies were matriarchal and women took many husbands.

profshakur: polygamy is allowed in Islam and thus shoud be respected. the problem is not the polygamy itself ,its the practitioners who abuse it out of its lessons and understanding. will u say because the eyes looks evils the u will pluck it out?. women en slavery is totally forbidden in Islam even its an act that brings the wrath of God on the husband.and mind u the God that legalizes it knows more than we do.look at this instances
1. a man that has sexual power more than a single woman
2.a woman that does not give birth to a child for many years e. t .c

please don't bring islam here. i don't want you to blow up this thread. we are talking about African Nations.

PAGAN 9JA:


There was a time when many societies were matriarchal and women took many husbands.

Bruv, this is your time to shine, such thread is long overdue.....lol
Make I leave dis thread for you. ....I come in peace *watching from my windom*

harlos: but you said it already.

read my post well

docjuli:

Hahaha, now you are making me miss Ndole, groundnut soup. I enjoyed eating both with unripe plantain. But, Cameroon try sha with food (Aricot rouge with banane, manioc).

https://www.nairaland.com/1193302/cameroonian-food

You know Man, groundnut soup all days, everyday

Eneze1:


read my post well

I think you shouldn't have said that

CAMEROONPRIDE: when we talk about women empowerment, we talk about women being able to make their own decisions..they weren't dragged by force to the mayor/albeit/etc...they are able to say no...some women unfortunately for you find it an easy to get out of poverty, they will sit their azz all day long or shopping all day long to cut short..women are their own problem(if that's even a problem) and are the solution...let them b ..eh eh I want to think the dude is well known in his country so they all know he's already married..but why do they keep saying yes? Yet you want to put the blame on the man...are u a man? Because only dumb women are always blaming men

stop being idiotic these women don't have the same gender equality rights like other women in SADC countries do. If he makes a choice he gets wat he wants, these women can't object...the only option out is seeking refugee in a foreign land. Imagine ur own daughter having to be emancipated and sent off to a foreign land at 15 simply because some greedy man wants to get into her kitten to satisfy his selfish needs... Again i ask u where is the prductivity in that knd of behaviour? U dont know sh*t about the Swaziland legal position with regards to gender equality

CAMEROONPRIDE: do you really believe that? He is a king in a small country no one is going to hit on his wifes, so I doubt he can't b this jealous....people are always exaggerating

The guy us indeed dangerous. No one dares stands against him. I heard stories about his atrocities and its not good.

You all should stop putting your mouths in something you know nothing about. The silly girl won't say how much I've done for her and her family. Be warned!

King Mswati: You all should stop putting your mouths in something you know nothing about. The silly girl won't say how much I've done for her and her family. Be warned!

mswati wakitsi batjele abati kutsi bakhuluma ngani ,,,

nadia_SA: mswati wakitsi batjele abati kutsi bakhuluma ngani ,,,

WtF!

J12:

WtF!

lol what na?? Its siSwati

nadia_SA: lol what na?? Its siSwati

For real? I thought it was gibberish.
What did you write up there anyway?

nadia_SA: mswati wakitsi batjele abati kutsi bakhuluma ngani ,,,

explain this