WAYS TO ATTRACT A GUY OR LADY---->. It might seem irrelevant, but standing up straight makes you seem confident and in control, which people do find attractive. Keep your shoulders squared, your spine straight, and try to center your hips over your feet. Walk with confidence anddon't drag your feet or shuffle. Also don't stare at the ground.
2 Smile . Offering someone a genuine smile is one of the easiest things you can do to seem instantly appealing. Practice smiling often, and try to get into a frame of mind where your grin is easy to trigger.
Develop a warm sense of humor. Find joy and laughter in the ridiculous aspects of life, and don't be afraid to point this out to other people. Try to keep your jokes free of references to bodily functions, sex acts, or disparaging other groups of people.
3 Make eye contact . When you're talking to someone (especially someone you like), demonstrate that you're interested and paying attention by making consistenteye contact.
Use eye contact to flirt. Throwseveral glances at someone sitting near you or across theroom until he or she catches you. Maintain eye contact for a second, smile and look away.
4 Be a gentleman . You don't have to be a stuffed shirt to show basic care and consideration for other people. Say "please," "thank you," and "excuse me," and show courtesy by holding doors open for people walkingbehind you.
Be respectful of other people. Don't tear down other people's beliefs, and don't be unnecessarily rude to them. If someone tries to start a confrontation with you, walk away calmly — this illustrates that you won't sink to the other person's level.
Don't swear or make crude comments in public. It's fine to let your hair down a little bit around your guy friends or your family, but avoid talking this way around people you don't know well.
5 Know how to carry a conversation . Being a competent conversationalist can help people feel more at-ease and relaxed around you. Know how to casually inquire about how someone is doing, and let that lead into other topics of conversation. Ask open-ended questions (for example, instead of saying "Do you have any plans this weekend?", which can be answered with a simpleyes or no, ask "What are youup to this weekend?", and stay away from contentious topics such as politics and religion.
To sharpen your conversational skills, try striking up a chat with a stranger next time you're waiting around in public, such as at a bus stop or in line at the grocery store. If you can get a genuine smile and a few lines of conversation out of the other person, you're doing well.
6 Speak clearly and carefully . When you talk to other people, try not to mumble or rush your words. Form full sentences, and avoid opening your mouth before you've really thought about what you're going to say — it will save you a lot of potential embarrassment.

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