Came across this story and thought to share.

My name is Temi. I have a huge issue. I have been married for two years now. I dated my husband for 6years.

Now this should be a warning to folks out there planning on getting married...don't ignore the warning signs. Walk away from any relationship that brings u more pain than joy. It's not worth it.
I made that mistake and I am paying the price.

I ignored it all,stayed n went on to marry him....not hoping he would change but deceiving myself that I would cope (foolishness). Today I am dealing with infidelity,emotional abuse, extreme control, bitterness and a confused life.


What is my issue today.? He keeps threatening to leave with our kid. In the past one month he has said it countless times. Sometimes jokingly and sometimes in the heat of our quarrels. It has made me think a lot and its extremely disturbing. He makes statements like you would go out and come back to an empty house. Threatens to throw me out. This is actually a new development...I know there is way more to it but I am just so tired.

I am just so sad and Shame would never allow me discuss this with my family or friends because they all warned me not marry him but I was so in foolishness. I wrote this mail to alert ladies. Please do not ignore the warning signs.

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Stolen from a blog. All these fake stories. *yawn*

If you dont know this, then you must be in pre-puberty stages.

@sisi eko

Long time no see, ba wo ni? Se o wa kpa?

baby_123:
If you dont know this, then you must be in pre-puberty stages.

...the problem is not knowing.A lot of girls/ women usually know what they are getting into. The op or the story teller knew.
The problem is "ignoring" because of the "Mrs" goal. We will never stop reading/hearing these kind of stories.

Is my name Temi? Yeah I saw it on a blog and thought to post so ppl can read her story and educate themselves.

jennykadry: @sisi eko

Long time no see, ba wo ni? Se o wa kpa?

@ Mo wa ok!!

Sisi Eko: Came across this story and thought to share.

My name is Temi. I have a huge issue. I have been married for two years now. I dated my husband for 6years.

Now this should be a warning to folks out there planning on getting married...don't ignore the warning signs. Walk away from any relationship that brings u more pain than joy. It's not worth it.
I made that mistake and I am paying the price.

I ignored it all,stayed n went on to marry him....not hoping he would change but deceiving myself that I would cope (foolishness). Today I am dealing with infidelity,emotional abuse, extreme control, bitterness and a confused life.


What is my issue today.? He keeps threatening to leave with our kid. In the past one month he has said it countless times. Sometimes jokingly and sometimes in the heat of our quarrels. It has made me think a lot and its extremely disturbing. He makes statements like you would go out and come back to an empty house. Threatens to throw me out. This is actually a new development...I know there is way more to it but I am just so tired.

I am just so sad and Shame would never allow me discuss this with my family or friends because they all warned me not marry him but I was so in foolishness. I wrote this mail to alert ladies. Please do not ignore the warning signs.

whose fault is it if a woman blindly marries a wrong partner? this is medicine after death - it's like crying like a baby after missing the wrong exit on a highway!