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Cheating by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:36pm On Jul 21, 2013
A lot of misconceptions are given to this act.
Whenever the word cheating is mentioned,
majority are quick to yell at the top of their lungs
that its all men that cheat...infact some says it runs
in their blood to cheat.
The honest gospel truth is, both genders cheats.
Now lets talk about the men and their cheating
habits.

I'm actually gonna talk to the married women here
because they need to be told a few things.

**Exhales**
..........You see ma'am, the mistake most women
often make is focusing all their love, time and
affection on the kids once the kids starts arriving.
This mistake is often done unintentionally
. . .however the men are very jealous(take it or
leave it) some of them will open up to their wives
and make feelings of lack of attention from her
known, while some men will just seek refuge in the
arms of some woman outside.
.........Nagging also pushes a man to cheat. So
watch it.
.........Tense atmosphere in the home can make a
man cheat, that is why its adviseable you ensure
the homefront is tranquil at all time.

........Hygiene is also an issue for some men. By the
time you start litering the whole house with kiddies
stuffs and leaving it all messy, your man will likely
keep away from the house and come home late just
to sleep.

.........The kind of pals a man mingles with also goes
a long way in playing a vital role as to his cheating
habit, a man who hangs out with friends who
cheats on their wives will most definitely be cajoled
into cheating as well.

.........Being stiff in bed will also make a man cheat.
Just so you know, there is nothing like respect in
bed with your man. Be his LovePeddler.
If you discover your husband is cheating on you
and you decide to quit your marriage, good luck to
you..

.. .. ..however should you decide to stay and work
on keeping your home;;;the worst mistake you'll ever make is to steal numbers from his phone and
call the girl he's cheating on you with. The best you
can do is ignore the girl and address the issue with
your husband. He's the one who broke the
agreement you both had, he's the one who broke
the trust you had in him. The girls in question met
and fell for him just like you did. They might not
even know you do exist and even if they knew, you
don't know the lies your husband must have fed
them with. So it's better you entomb them in the
mystery of their own nothingness.

.......Urhmmmm a smart woman whose husband
gets calls from his mistress in the middle of the
night will never pick a fight over the call with her
man. Here's the deal...the mistress knows he's got
a wife and she's calling in the middle of the night to
cause nothing but trouble. Should the wifey in
question continiously pick a fight with her man
over this, before long, she'l become a terrible nag
to her man and the man will be running further
into the arms off the woman outside. This is the
aim of the woman outside.
Words are great tools. Personally i can melt the
strongest heart with the words of my mouth. Gat
no time for shouting, na myself i go give headache
later. . . .my dear married women, don't shout
when you have a point to butress to your man,
shouting will only make you loud. Speak to him
with empathy and bruise his conscience with
touchy words that'l forever prick his conscience....s
ilence is golden. Don't act on impulse and don't be
quick to spit venom at your man when you're
upset. Be a woman of very few potent words, and
also be unpredictable,,,when he expects you to go
left, just go right. I bet you, he'l fix himself without
being told.

However it's important you know its not all men
that cheats, there are stilla few noble men who
don't cheat. So its wrong to assume all men are the
same because you've not tasted all of them.
Above all, never you get tired of going on your
knees....the highest place in this world is at the feet
of God, take your supplications to him and watch
him do wonders for you.


#Hope
Re: Cheating by jude4us(m): 10:40pm On Jul 21, 2013
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Re: Cheating by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jul 21, 2013
@Op, are you a love/cheating specialist?
Re: Cheating by Sanboy25: 10:45pm On Jul 21, 2013
idnoble135: @Op, are you a love/cheating specialist?
I was asking myself the same thing... grin
Re: Cheating by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:47pm On Jul 21, 2013
If you look at the bottom of the post, a girl named Hope is the actual writer not me!
Ain't a love specialist......
Re: Cheating by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jul 21, 2013
Sanboy25:
I was asking myself the same thing... grin
lol, hope you are learning against the future.
Re: Cheating by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jul 21, 2013
Ijele-igbo:
If you look at the bottom of the post, a girl named Hope is the actual writer not me!
Ain't a love specialist......
a girl? Hmmhmm. Giving advice on what she has not experienced. Simple analogy, its like a newbie student trying to teach his professor.
Re: Cheating by Sanboy25: 10:54pm On Jul 21, 2013
idnoble135:
lol, hope you are learning against the future.
grin grin
Re: Cheating by Sanboy25: 10:55pm On Jul 21, 2013
idnoble135:
a girl? Hmmhmm. Giving advice on what she has not experienced. Simple analogy, its like a newbie student trying to teach his professor.
You're harsh grin grin I also give advice while being unexperienced and I think I'm good at it... undecided
Re: Cheating by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jul 21, 2013
Sanboy25:
You're harsh grin grin I also give advice while being unexperienced and I think I'm good at it... undecided
you give advise with such precise details?
Re: Cheating by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:01pm On Jul 21, 2013
idnoble135:
a girl? Hmmhmm. Giving advice on what she has not experienced. Simple analogy, its like a newbie student trying to teach his professor.

grin You never can tell........ Nothing like small girls nowadays
Re: Cheating by Sanboy25: 11:02pm On Jul 21, 2013
idnoble135:
you give advise with such precise details?
Hum not really... undecided Good night. smiley
Re: Cheating by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jul 21, 2013
Sanboy25:
Hum not really... undecided Good night. smiley
Re: Cheating by code0: 11:59pm On Jul 21, 2013
The point is that word makes and word mars. The world was created with words. And words express itself in knowledge about what you knows about. So the simplest way of dealing with life is acquiring knowledge so that you can release words suitable for every situation at any point in time. The right word for the right situation would always produce the right result of what you intended it to do. Because even the foundation of the world is hanging on words. I don't joke when it comes to releasing words because I know the power that comes with it. I just have mastery over the use of words.
Re: Cheating by Mynd44: 1:02am On Jul 22, 2013
There should be a limit to the amount of threads a person is allowed to open

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Re: Cheating by Nobody: 1:20am On Jul 22, 2013
Mynd_44: There should be a limit to the amount of threads a person is allowed to open
you mean limit to threads people can create?

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