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Should I Leave My Cheating Wife, Or Have An Affair Of My Own / If Your Partner Hits You ONE Time, Would You Leave Or Stay? / Do I Leave Or Remain In This? (2) (3) (4)

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Should I Leave Or Stay by Meah57(f): 9:25am On Aug 23, 2013
IS THIS GIRL BEING IRRATIONAL? SHOULD SHE
WALK AWAY? DO YOU THINK THE GUY NEEDS
MEDICAL HELP? OR DOES HE JUST HAVE
ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND SOMEWHERE? OR ARE
SOME GUYS JUST NATURALLY LIKE THIS?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven months and
we are relatively happy except for one major
issue: sex.I want sex more than he does. He either
avoids it or doesn’t seem to enjoy it and says he
has always been this way. He said he would see
his doctor but that was six weeks ago. I feel I am
nagging him to have sex with me, which is about
twice a month. I’m thinking of breaking up with
him.
WHAT SHOULD SHE DO? WHAT SHOULD HE
DO? WHAT SHOULD THEY DO?
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by Dubby6(m): 10:04am On Aug 23, 2013
hw pretty nd endowed are u? if okay den show ma side make i dey service u regularly 4 froo grin
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by Nobody: 10:39am On Aug 23, 2013
Meah57: IS THIS GIRL BEING IRRATIONAL? SHOULD SHE
WALK AWAY? DO YOU THINK THE GUY NEEDS
MEDICAL HELP? OR DOES HE JUST HAVE
ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND SOMEWHERE? OR ARE
SOME GUYS JUST NATURALLY LIKE THIS?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven months and
we are relatively happy except for one major
issue: sex.I want sex more than he does. He either
avoids it or doesn’t seem to enjoy it and says he
has always been this way. He said he would see
his doctor but that was six weeks ago. I feel I am
nagging him to have sex with me, which is about
twice a month. I’m thinking of breaking up with
him.
WHAT SHOULD SHE DO? WHAT SHOULD HE
DO? WHAT SHOULD THEY DO?

Leave.
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by ediemafio(m): 5:28am On Aug 25, 2013
Learn to control ur libido,men are not machines.I hope say u dey wash am for abunna cos bros no dey like am for abunna wen e dey hmm hmm..that could also b d case..
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by Nobody: 7:08am On Aug 25, 2013
2 things

1 , if He is cheating. Before u leave make sure you get him in the act, like that you can sue him and get some cash out of him. That's the koko now. For using you so long and lying to you kiss

2. If he got a medical issue, let him see a doc ASAP so you know the next step, wether to bail or remain.
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by greatgod2012(f): 7:53am On Aug 25, 2013
Personally, I will suggest that the lady should stay and help the guy out, the guy might be having medical problem, let her try more and persuade him more to visit a doctor, she may even pay for the bill, if the bill is the problem for the guy, let her help him to get to the root of the matter before concluding. If the guy has medical problem and through her persuasion, he get healed, he will forever be grateful to her.

If after much persuasion and the guy bend down on turning it off, she may then leave.
A broken dating relationship is better than a broken marriage.
May God help them both.
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by alexmbachu2: 3:12pm On Aug 28, 2013
Meah57: IS THIS GIRL BEING IRRATIONAL? SHOULD SHE
WALK AWAY? DO YOU THINK THE GUY NEEDS
MEDICAL HELP? OR DOES HE JUST HAVE
ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND SOMEWHERE? OR ARE
SOME GUYS JUST NATURALLY LIKE THIS?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven months and
we are relatively happy except for one major
issue: sex.I want sex more than he does. He either
avoids it or doesn’t seem to enjoy it and says he
has always been this way. He said he would see
his doctor but that was six weeks ago. I feel I am
nagging him to have sex with me, which is about
twice a month. I’m thinking of breaking up with
him.
WHAT SHOULD SHE DO? WHAT SHOULD HE
DO? WHAT SHOULD THEY DO?
just look for a man to make you happy always.not just the sex part.i am pretty available.pm me or better still call me on 08037471837
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by john410(m): 3:36pm On Aug 28, 2013
alexmbachu2: just look for a man to make you happy always.not just the sex part.i am pretty available.pm me or better still call me on 08037471837

Ashawo man!wat made u think u can do beta dan her guy.she is only looking for an advice not to add to her problem.

@op,just dnt leave him.make sure u find d root of this problm before jumping to conclusion.
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by mgbeketoto: 8:24pm On Aug 28, 2013
Anoda wan don come o! cheesy

HO-P!!!!!
So, you expect a POOHSIE that has been phocked for more than 2 weeks to still be sweet?
You must a a BORN-AGAIN or something WORSE!
Which planet you dey live for h-inside? grin

Poor you! You need to see a BABALAWO OR MAMALAWO!!!

Men experience 'The LAWS OF D. R.'(diminishing returns) after ONLY one week h-inside the same MGBEKETOTO! kiss

You wanno kill hiNNNN PEHNIS Kpata-Kpata FINISH NI? shocked
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by EfemenaXY: 5:27pm On Aug 29, 2013
Meah57: IS THIS GIRL BEING IRRATIONAL? SHOULD SHE
WALK AWAY? DO YOU THINK THE GUY NEEDS
MEDICAL HELP? OR DOES HE JUST HAVE
ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND SOMEWHERE? OR ARE
SOME GUYS JUST NATURALLY LIKE THIS?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven months and
we are relatively happy except for one major
issue: sex.I want sex more than he does. He either
avoids it or doesn’t seem to enjoy it and says he
has always been this way. He said he would see
his doctor but that was six weeks ago. I feel I am
nagging him to have sex with me, which is about
twice a month. I’m thinking of breaking up with
him.
WHAT SHOULD SHE DO? WHAT SHOULD HE
DO? WHAT SHOULD THEY DO?

Sorry, I don't get you, re: the bolded bit.

How can a man, in the middle of the se.x act claim not to enjoy it? If you say he felt that way afterwards, then that'll make more sense.

Anyway, the beauty of dating is that you get to study each other properly and decide if despite each other's flaws, you're both confident enough to overcome them. If whilst dating, either of you feel that there is an obstacle that can't be resolved, then you're very much free to walk out of the relationship. Besides, you've only been together for seven months, not seven years and there are no kids involved.

Se.x is important to you and you've rightly let him know from the onset. If he's unwilling to address his "issues" now, you can bet that those "issues" won't be resolved once you've tied the knot. If you guys can't sort this out now, then it's best you take a walk dear - and don't look back!

All the best.
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by simdam500(m): 6:12pm On Aug 29, 2013
Hmmmm! Complicated... but the truth be told
I’m thinking of breaking up with
him.
you already said it, so go with what you are thinking
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay by angelbaby22(f): 2:23pm On Sep 16, 2013
cheesy cheesy cheesy if it was the other way round people will say she should succumb to him if she wants the relationship to work. Girl stop wasting time on someone that can't give you what you want, twice a month is nothing and he can't even do that. Find someone that can satisfy all your needs if he's not your husband there's no reason why you should stand by him through his sexual problems. So he should be experimenting on you to heal his condition then he will go and find another woman to marry after he's used you to cure himself.

Anyway maybe he's gay and doesn't like women!

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