If you're in a toxic relationship, you probably know you want to get out. But you feel stuck, paralyzed, and nagged by doubts.
You might cling to hope that he could change.
You might cling onto the idea that things will revert to theway they were in the beginning.
You might have had your self-esteem whittled away so badly that you feel like you can't leave or deserve all his abuse.
Perhaps you are married and feel like you need to stick to the "worse" part of "for better or worse" even if that means having your soul gutted on a daily basis. For whatever reason, you haven't left yet.
But here are ways to get out of a toxic relationship.
* Begin to live for you.The first step, even before you leave, is to begin to build back up your confidence and sense of yourself as a person outside of your partner. Think about what you'd like to do (not what HE would like you to do) and then start to do it. It might mean just reading a book. It might mean taking a class. It might mean joining a gym. Start to do things for yourself so you can begin to realize that there is a life outside of your relationship and you can get a little of your mojo back. Do it even if he complains about it.
** Begin to "let go."Mentally begin to detach from the relationship, and I don't mean begin to harden your heart or tell yourself you don't care. I mean letting go ofthe idea that you can change anyone. If a person wants to change, they do it themselves.
They start to look into therapy, classes, support groups, etc. Begin to accept that you can't make anyone happy, can't make anyone grow up, can't, in fact, http://www./2013/08/get-out-of-toxic-relationship.html

Which kin photo be dis na

Eeeeyaaaaa,see as the woman close her face....well rat poison is a cheap commodity

Hate abusive men.My project in uni then was based on such abuse.I see such men as cowards
I can KILL when am abused.FACT!!!

lynpetra: Eeeeyaaaaa,see as the woman close her face....well rat poison is a cheap commodity

U wicked oooo.. Choi u mean mk she go swallow rat poison.... Do u tink that can cure the problem

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money121:
U wicked oooo.. Choi u mean mk she go swallow rat poison.... Do u tink that can cure the problem

No, I mean she shud cook veggie soup for him..

lynpetra:

No, I mean she shud cook veggie soup for him..

Exactly my thought [quote author=lynpetra]

Kingauthur:


Exactly my thought

Deciphering what I meant wasn't hard,was it

lynpetra:

No, I mean she shud cook veggie soup for him..

Hmmmm i trust u na her back u go dey.... But do u tink that can solve the issue??

money121:
Hmmmm i trust u na her back u go dey.... But do u tink that can solve the issue??

Permanently!