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Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by 4C2215131: 4:05pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
chiwuike20:$ You seem to not take cognizance of the fact that 'Mentor(ship)' is a double edged sword,good and bad. That seemingly good modus operandi that your mentor adopts to keep his family in line may not just augur well for you. Different strokes for different folks. You want to modify the modus operandi? Then he may no longer be your mentor as the average Nigerian 'mentor' doesn't subscribe nor care much for his supposed wisdom and authority being questioned. Statements like "what do you know,you are just a child,take it from someone who's been married for 100 yrs..." would be the order of the day should you deign to deviate from prescribed instructions. God help you if by some freakish twist of faith you prove them right. Guess it's a cultural trait that is well ensconced in the fiber of our being. That being said should one be fortunate enough to have a true mentor,it is indeed a welcome development. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by ayusco85(m): 4:18pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
missyparis: wch gods Are u not A̶̲̥̅ nigerian? U knw them na |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by elynneyo(f): 4:20pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Nice write up dear. |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by Kirinwa: 4:25pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
adexsimply: If I hear.. Just wondering too. |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by moscobabs(m): 4:34pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
if u are a woman and u are not ready to work thinking u wanna be full house wife.......u are not ready for marriage |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by chuksme(m): 4:41pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Thank you very much.I love this thread. |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by Slowvenom(m): 4:42pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Good one, am intrested 4 more, my Eba neva finish abeg mk I contnu |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by BunnyB(f): 4:45pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Nice write up. |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by Ishilove: 4:49pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Mintayo: 15 ways to know if you're ready for Marriage:Guilty. Does that mean I'm not ready?? |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by ayantolamary: 4:54pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
nt jst ready |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by odeku457(m): 4:54pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Read through it all @ OP and = I AM NOT READY.... Shikena. |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by MrAboki: 4:54pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
This post has been removed by Mr. Aboki.. for no real reason.. :p 1 Like |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by adexsimply(m): 4:57pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
chiwuike20:I don hear o..But I'm my own mentor..So I no fit marry shey? ok now |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by BobbyTimmy12: 5:04pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
#FACT# |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by dabrake(m): 5:18pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
.E be like say this OP don dey mad abi? |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by BitonKaiser: 5:26pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Hmmm...Its whole lot involved |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by Nobody: 5:30pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Yoshi-Master: |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by Nobody: 5:30pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Hmmm now I know am ready for marriage after reading this,my groom should better come fast oh! |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by Nobody: 5:34pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Mintayo: 15 ways to know if you're ready for Marriage: OP learn to give reliable source. Source: Information Nigeria www.informationng.com |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by 30secs(m): 5:40pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
OP Bleep you... I get all doz traits but I over ready for marriage! |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by Nobody: 5:48pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
1. If you are a christian and you want to marry another person from another religion (islam, judaism, buddah or atheism etc) then you are breeding a failed marriage automatically (2 Corinthians 6:14-18, proverbs 27:17) 2. If you aren't born again yet you claim you are a christian who wants to marry then you are preparing expressway for the devil to destroy your life. 3. If you rely on your strength when searching for your partner and not GODs direction then you would end up shattered and battered and in divorce. 4. If a man or a lady doesn't have a sound matured character, such individual shouldn't get married (don't marry anyone without good character) 5. A man who doesn't respect a woman no matter who she is, isn't ready to marry. 6. A lady who can not imagine herself being submissive even when she's right isn't ready for marriage. 7. If that lady/man you are with cannot see your worth, doesn't see your future potentials and can't combine to achieve a common vision and dream with you but only see your materialistic physical assets or bodily endowment then you are heading for trouble better break off such relationship. 8. If a man wants to marry you yet he isn't having a decent legitimate job that ensure he feed and takes care of basic needs pls dnt rush into such marriage. 9. Ladies don't always think of only marrying men who have made it big in life. God wants you to start from somewhere and grow up/progress (Don't despise your days of your little begining) stop being greedy and materialistic (don't force a man to go and steal to buy or borrow a cloth or shoe or car or gadget) stop livin such fake life and men pls let your YES be YES and your NO be NO Men pls know your worth. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by komek(m): 5:52pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Godysien: A good one bro...thumbs up man. I used to think that Judith is a name for a Lady o |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by Vanityupnvanity(m): 5:54pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Points number 1 and 9 contradicts each other. |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by Built2last: 5:55pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
NICE |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by beejaay: 5:56pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Vanityupnvanity: Points number 1 and 9 contradicts each other. |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by tomakint: 5:56pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
@ Mr Aboki, what a nice piece you got up there! @ OP, you made some valid points too! |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by naijathings(m): 6:01pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
i just read thru the list.. waste of time. we just hinder ourselves with all these stupid rules and regs. since when did anyone need to look at a list to know if he is ready to put a ring on her finger ? every man has at least one of these behavioural issues and that is some of the things that make us the MEN we are.. i have many short comings and flaws and some of them I will never give up for anyone yet she likes me. she has her own wahala too.. meaning.. we are not perfect. |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by seunmatt: 6:28pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
mikeljims: Alright..... okada man stop me here.This one rili crack me up. Hehheheheheheh mikeljims: Alright..... okada man stop me here.This one rili crack me up. Hehheheheheheh |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by Okponee: 6:37pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Mintayo: 15 ways to know if you're ready for Marriage: Though I agree with you on few of the points you have raised, as per what we need to work on, yet, I totally disagree with you on your position that until one is ok in all the areas you have mentioned, he is not ready for marriage. The most important thing in marriage is for each of the couple to be ready to sacrifice as much as possible, to have a peaceful and fruitful marriage. So many successful marriages started with at least, one of the couples missing many or all the points you mentioned above, but with determination, they gradually adjusted along the line until they could get along well with each other. |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by kushsy: 6:48pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
I like my space n am married. I do tell my husband when I want to be alone n even my kid.. |
Re: Are You Ready For Marriage? 15 Ways To Find Out! by tete7000(m): 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
God should be the foundation of a marriage. If you are convinced God is telling you to take the step, kindly do; He will provide you with necessary resources. He needs your faith, not your purse. |
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