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Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by HezronLorraine(m): 5:23pm On Oct 10, 2013
koastar: All the homosexuals that quoted me, why are you so bitter and uncultured? You guys can't make your point without a pinch of insult huh! I'v had more than this from my homo (now straight) friends whom I changed when they were still lost and delusional in their thinking. The first phase of change is for you all to accept you are wrong and seek for repentance and change. This is important before being straight can be achieved because the change can only start from you wink
Chief Therapist.Let me remind you something.That your friends don't act on their homosexual desires or choose to forsake homosexuality for acceptance into a self-imposed heterosexual lifestyle doesn't mean they turned straight.Maybe you don't understand-just like after years of engaging in s.exual inter.course,you choose to abstain,that doesn't mean you're a virgin.

So,your friends are probably live in self-denial presently and trying to conform to heterosexual lifestyle by leaving homosexuality in the past.They didn't turn straight I can tell you.Nobody turns straight.it's not a switch you can just flip.You're gay by heart not your actions make you gay.It's much easy to suppress homosexual feelings than for you to turn straight.

Do you mind enlightening us on the process they went through to alter their s.exual orientation.Thanks.

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Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 6:30pm On Oct 10, 2013
ammyluv2002: Yes, I do shocked


Two things. You can either choose to bang your hands on your computer till it functions no more...


Or you can choose to embrace the fact that some people are just different, and gay, and affect your life in no way...and can even be great friends to you.

smiley

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Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 6:46pm On Oct 10, 2013
koastar: All the homosexuals that quoted me, why are you so bitter and uncultured? You guys can't make your point without a pinch of insult huh! I'v had more than this from my homo (now straight) friends whom I changed when they were still lost and delusional in their thinking. The first phase of change is for you all to accept you are wrong and seek for repentance and change. This is important before being straight can be achieved because the change can only start from you wink


Lol@whom you changed. Like you'll be there supervising them in their private lives.


Anyway, no one is insulting you. You came across as someone that got his info from the roadside, and generalised it to include all the gay people. So it's only natural for someone to call you to order in your unnecessary quest to prove that sexuality of someone is gotten by being in a boarding school. As if we all attended those kind of schools.
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by GSKing: 7:00pm On Oct 10, 2013
masonkz:


Two things. You can either choose to bang your hands on your computer till it functions no more...


Or you can choose to embrace the fact that some people are just different, and gay, and affect your life in no way...and can even be great friends to you.

smiley
masonkz:
Two things. You can either choose to bang your hands on your computer till it functions no more...


Or you can choose to embrace the fact that some people are just different, and gay, and affect your life in no way...and can even be great friends to you.

smiley
honestly, there are some advice im just tired of hearing, lolz... "STAY AWAY FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX"
i mean, that advice is outdated dammit, not everybody is straight jare

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Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 7:16pm On Oct 10, 2013
Uyi Iredia:

It is genetic but the expression of it involves choice. The same applies to gays and bisexuals.
dude, u are either a gay struggling or a bisex. I have followed u close to a year. U keep hiding the truth abt it.
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 7:22pm On Oct 10, 2013
koastar: All the homosexuals that quoted me, why are you so bitter and uncultured? You guys can't make your point without a pinch of insult huh! I'v had more than this from my homo (now straight) friends whom I changed when they were still lost and delusional in their thinking. The first phase of change is for you all to accept you are wrong and seek for repentance and change. This is important before being straight can be achieved because the change can only start from you wink
crap, i mean bullshit
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 7:31pm On Oct 10, 2013
BushyA55.Banger:

crap, i mean bullshit


Dude U don't mean it @ Ur Signature...
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 7:32pm On Oct 10, 2013
Bushy aren't U Oh.dude undecided
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 7:34pm On Oct 10, 2013
Nigellus_Hosan:


Dude U don't mean it @ Ur Signature...
lols, i do.
Wait, are u bisex? I think i am bisex too.
I ran after gals in pri 5 and 6, wanna rape them. I fingerd them too. Bt after that period, it was strictly boiz, was wondering why it happend that way.
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 9:15pm On Oct 10, 2013
la_creame:


funny I have the hetero hand but im gay
Ha! Interesting!! Found that when I was reading on child/adolescent development on the net.
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 9:46pm On Oct 10, 2013
GSKing:
This is not only bullshit but total crap!
Ur hate for homosexuals has beclouded ur judgement and sense of reasoning. Because a girl chickened at the thought of mockery, prejudice and stigma, u come out with this environmental hoopla. Im homosexual, not because i want to, heck i have 5 siblings for pete's sake, dont u think kids want to grow up the same way as their peers? Why would i want to be different at just age 6? What does anybody know at age 6 for crying out loud? I grew up side by side with all my siblings, never went to any boarding school, did everything to be like my 4 sisters, watched straight pornn, but all my efforts were futile.
When my mother(God be with her) was pregnant with her second child for want of a male child for the royal family, she went for scan at 4 different prestigious hospitals but guess what? all results, on different occasions showed i was MALE! It was the first time i was hearing that kind of medical misinterpretation or was it mistake? Even my parents were surprised to have a girl upon delivery, but what can i do? It wasnt my fault, doctors machines wasnt in good condition, ryt? I was surfing the net one day when i came across a biological term called masculinization of female babies, exactly the opposite of feminization of male babies(low libido). I dont understand why feminization of male babies would be attributed to low libido and why the reverse wasnt the case for "high" libido...

My point... In your effort to prove ur erudite scholarship, u made urself look very, totally, completely, blithering and utterly foolishh.
Therefore, it is foolhardy for any heterosexual and homosexual to think that change is possible (and attainable at the snap of a finger). Excuse me?


Hmmm. I love this.
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 10:53pm On Oct 10, 2013
la_creame: I was never molested, I dint go to a boarding school and no one taught me how to be gay.
I grew up admiring the same sex, as a child I crushed on girls.
its not a phase, its who I am.
and I love me and zandie


Dim Oma, I love us too. #Mwaaaah#

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Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by GSKing: 11:09pm On Oct 10, 2013
zandie:


Dim Oma, I love us too. #Mwaaaah#
di kwa? Echem no nwanyi nabo?
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 11:23pm On Oct 10, 2013
M jealous
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 7:42am On Oct 11, 2013
BushyA55.Banger:

lols, i do.
Wait, are u bisex? I think i am bisex too.
I ran after gals in pri 5 and 6, wanna rape them. I fingerd them too. Bt after that period, it was strictly boiz, was wondering why it happend that way.

Lol..
U regressed..
From Bi - Gay..Before
I was Gay , doe i always liked girlz..
But now 'm Purely bisexual
49% Heterosexual..51 Homosexual..
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 7:56am On Oct 11, 2013
koastar:
Dude, homo or bisexual is not genetic but by choice. You must have been watching a lot of homo Indecency which caused a hormone rush in you and got your mind wrapped up in it. At one point, you thought of practicing it to see how it feels and I'm sure that's how it started.
*Note: your mind is made up of what you watch and hear and your actions are from the abundance of your mind.

Another possibility, is the experience gotten in boarding schools, in prison or communities where you get to see and interact with same-sex fellow only, and the urge to be intimate resulted to the homosexual orientation. Environment matters a lot!

I know of lesbians who I have helped out of such orientation, and I can proudly say they are now fully heterosexual- the secret is a form of therapy. This is why I always disagree with people like the Op when they say the orientation is genetic and not a choice because if it is, the girls I'v helped out of homo wouldn't change.

I Will Ignore The Porn Ish @ 3 years Of Age..n I never went To a boarding School...
N above all Ure stupid Therapy 4 Lezbianz..

Are U Serious ?..Can U Emmajean ?
So now 'm responsible 4 My Hormones ??

Lame Analysis..
How am i sure u aren't that Unilag Dude that disproved Homosexuality With Magnets...

Dammit angry
This year's Nobel Award For Lameness Hasn't been Taken yet..

So This Ur Lame Article Has made U eligible..
U should b nominated..

Afterall Award is Award... undecided
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 8:00am On Oct 11, 2013
Bad mouth@hossan..serves him right. I guess ur a lasgidian
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by sparko1(m): 8:10am On Oct 11, 2013
The survey has just began!!
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Youngpo413: 9:20am On Oct 11, 2013
Nigellus_Hosan:

And Ur Opinion Is Lame..
Som Straight Dudes just need 1 experience For d in-built Sexuality To start Manifesting n become Bisexual...

I av always known I wasn't like Other boys Since i was 3..
I av been attracted to guyz Since i was 3 n i kept denying it till i turned 15..

Refusing to Believe The Truth

At The Onset Of Puberty I was Pure Homosexual...But Until 2 years ago I found out I was now attracted to girlz too..

N Up till now i Still can't help it..
I am Attracted to both sides

So who made the damn Choice..

I believe everything about us even our sexuality is Imprinted in Our Genetic Makeup...

U don't av to make any Choice..



speechless!
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by sparko1(m): 2:44pm On Oct 11, 2013
Hezron Lorraine: I don't Know what to make of Threads like this nowadays.

@OP,I could write you a long epistle to reply this thread,but I can tell you 70% of gay people didn't choose to be gay or let's put it more like this.
Let's use this format of how people are gay:



There's a line I'd like to draw.Almost all human being as homosexual tendecies,the level to which they can act on it differs in every human which I listed up there.

By reinforcing how people become we can say some automatically find themselves in a one way traffic with homosexuality-meaning they find themselves unable to control or withdraw their homosexual desires.

Another set of people would only after a while be disposed to it and find the same-sex attractive.

In all,It's not a choice to be gay.Accepting that you're gay is the Choice you make.
1.)There are those born with full homosexual
desires.they discover at a very tender age,though
they may have no idea what it means until later in
life.these types have mostly never known
heterosexual feelings and have always responded
to
same-sex attractions.


2.)There are those who find out after years of
already being straight,they've always liked the
opposite sex,later on they discover their desires
moving towards the same-sex,they respond so
well
to this new attraction and find themselves
incapable
of going back to the opposite sex.


3.)There are those even while having feelings for
the
opposite sex,when faced with homosexual
advances,they discover they can't withdraw or
find
any urge to withdraw.


4.)There are those who are bisexual,they are
capable of responding to attractions from both
sex.


5.)Some have to be abused s.exually.after this
intimate torture,they slowly get hooked in
homosexuality and end up enjoying it.


6,)There's any category,these ones are very
straight,they tend to enjoy homosexual
intimacy.they hardly and rarely feel any emotional
feelings to the same-sex like the opposite.

From the above its obvious its not by choice from you point of view, but the most important question is why is the government placing a ban or making it look like a crime by attaching 18 years imprisonment to it.

what is the difference between what the government is doing and what boko haram is agitating for?
This is what give birth to serial killers, when people cannot express their sexual feeling without being criticized, they will then Chanel the hatred toward a particular group of people.
Like someone once say, "how do we create a disturbed personality? its constant criticism".

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Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 4:05pm On Oct 11, 2013
Nigellus_Hosan:

Lol..
U regressed..
From Bi - Gay..Before
I was Gay , doe i always liked girlz..
But now 'm Purely bisexual
49% Heterosexual..51 Homosexual..


And 100% confused.

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Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 4:13pm On Oct 11, 2013
sparko1:

From the above its obvious its not by choice from you point of view, but the most important question is why is the government placing a ban or making it look like a crime by attaching 18 years imprisonment to it.

I'm sure you know it's not today that the government started playing foolery to the detriment of the populace. Criminalizing the sexuality of people that have nothing to do with the term "criminal", and would rather send abroad, those criminals that have gained "amnesty", for "re-orientation" and education and whatever else they wanna fool themselves with.

Even going to the extent of negotiation with the main criminals in our land, who have caused thousands of death in various parts of the country. But they'll just sit and order 14 years imprisonment to people who have caused no harm to anyone, just because they can.




SMDH.
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 5:22pm On Oct 11, 2013
masonkz:


And 100% confused.
harsh....mayb tru tho
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 10:10pm On Oct 11, 2013
BushyA55.Banger:
Bad mouth@hossan..serves him right. I guess ur a lasgidian


Loyal Gidilander
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 10:13pm On Oct 11, 2013
masonkz:


And 100% confused.


Whoever Liked this Is Either As Daft as the Adumadu Who posted this or probably Dafter..
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 10:15pm On Oct 11, 2013
masonkz:


And 100% confused.



Adumadu Body..
Must U comment ??
Young po413:


speechless!

undecided
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 10:16pm On Oct 11, 2013
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Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 10:20pm On Oct 11, 2013
BushyA55.Banger:

harsh....mayb tru tho

Rëtards Reason alike U Know..
So 'm not surprised....
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 11:19pm On Oct 11, 2013
Nigellus_Hosan:

Rëtards Reason alike U Know..
So 'm not surprised....
smhhh. Fuq u
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 11:36pm On Oct 11, 2013
BushyA55.Banger:

smhhh. Fuq u


dammit angry
i reject it i cover my hairy butt with the blood of ogun..

*zips up n padlocks Osmium pampers..
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 6:19am On Oct 12, 2013
Nigellus_Hosan:

dammit angry
i reject it i cover my hairy butt with the blood of ogun..

*zips up n padlocks Osmium pampers..
u hv got it hairy?? Dafuq, lets hook up na, dnt be selfish
Re: "BEING GAY” Is It Genetic Or A Choice by Nobody: 7:13am On Oct 12, 2013
Nigellus_Hosan:



Adumadu Body..
Must U comment ??

undecided

Lol. What's Adumadu?

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