Girls be careful who you share your problems with
especially on facebook. Also mind the advise you
listen to from your fellow ladies. Most of the ladies
here on facebook only form woman liberation on
facebook and it ends there. Most of them are in
messed up relationships but will use you as an
experiment by fuelling you against your man. Some
of them endure beatings from their men and are
punching bags but will tell you to dump that guy
that scolded you. Some of them compulsorily wash
their men's clothes but would ask you to dump a
guy that begs you to help him wash his. Some of
them know their boyfriend's other girlfriends but
will ask you to quit yours when your boyfriend
cheats once. Many of them give their men money
but will ask you to break up with your guy if he
tells you he's broke. Many of them go to bed every
night in tears. Most of them are sex machines and
will get threatened to get dumped anytime they
refuse sex and they stay put but will tell you that
your boyfriend that politely asks for it doesn't love
you. Some of them are very lonely and have
loveless lives but will pretend they are happy and
tell you they don't need a man to be happy and
would try to make you as lonely as they are. Some
are lonely due to the things they are asking you to
do. Some were hurt so badly by men that they
don't want to see any girl date a man so they try
to ruin every relationship they come across
Ladies, set your own standards and don't live by
anybody's standards. If you want to wash your
boyfriend's clothes do so but if you don't want to
then don't. If your boyfriend cheats and you want
to give him a second chance please do but if you
don't want to don't. Don't live by anyone's
standards.
I have a friend that caught his girl with his friend
and all of his friends asked him not to take her
back and they swore not to talk to him if he did. I
called him and asked him the kind of girl she has
been and he said perfect. I asked if he would have
loved to settle down with her if this hadn't
happened and he said "Yes". I asked him to forgive
if he can, that he shouldn't lose her to what our
friends were saying. I told him to ask her what
made her sleep with him. He did and found out that
after they had a fight she got drunk and his friend
tried consoling her as he was her neighbour and
they ended up having sex. It took him months but
he forgave her and now they are about getting
married. He is ever grateful that the singular act
didn't make him lose his girl. A cheat isn't always
a cheat, people make mistakes and if you can
handle it you stay.
So ladies be sure of what you want and set your
standards yourself, many claiming to be feminists
take out their frustrations on facebook and if you
let them they drop the rubbish in your life and ruin
your relationship. You are not a lab rat used for
experiments.


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