Most Christians know that the Bible discourages sex
before marriage, but questions arise when we ask if
kissing is a sin. Like many issues we face today there
is no black and white answer to whether or not
kissing is a sin, but instead we have to ask God to
guide us in the direction He wants us to follow.
First off, there are different degrees of kissing. Jesus
kissed his disciples. We kiss our family members.
Even in Europe kissing is a common form of greeting
among friends. So kissing is not always a sin.
However, it's not likely someone is going to ask if
kissing as a greeting is a sin. The real question, then,
is whether or not romantic kissing is a sin.
When Kissing Can Become Sinful
So, now we are down to the real question of if
kissing is a sin, and the answer really comes down to
what is in your heart at the time. The Bible clearly
tells us that lust is a sin. So, is lust in your heart
when you're kissing? Is the kiss making you want to
do more with that person and leading you to
temptation? If the answer to these questions is,
"yes," then kissing can become sinful. It doesn't
mean all kisses with someone you love or are dating
are sinful. It just means to be careful about what is
on your heart and to make sure you have enough
self-control if you allow yourself to be in a kissing
situation.
So, Should I Kiss or Not?
The answer to this question is up to you. Some
people choose not to kiss until marriage, because
they see kissing as leading to sin or they believe
romantic kissing is a sin. Others feel that, as long as
they can overcome the temptations and control their
thoughts that kissing is okay. The key is to do what
is right for you. This means spending time praying
about it and thinking it through. Sure, "everyone
may be doing it," but that doesn't mean it's right for
you. Do what God lays on your heart.

Some of you christians are really jobless.

So, as you are now, a full grown man like you... You actually entertain the idea that the creator of this universe will decide on if to send you to an eternally burning furnace or not based on whether or not you KISSED somebody in your human life.

I mean.. this is embarrassing even to read. Why don't you find something useful to contribute to society instead of this nonsense?

Rossikk: Some of you christians are really jobless.

So, as you are now, a whole grown man like you... You actually entertain the idea that the creator of the universe will decide on if to send you to an eternal burning furnace based on whether or not you KISSED somebody in your human life.

I mean.. this is embarrassing even to read.

My good sir, u need not be surprised by the level of insanity christianity gives the human mind.

trust me, I was there once

macof:

My good sir, u need not be surprised by the level of insanity christianity gives the human mind.

trust me, I was there once

Actually, so was I, though it was such a long time ago, I'd forgotten just what kind of hold it has on the mind.

Honestly, these guys like to use the word 'bondage' a lot, little realizing that they are the ones in real bondage, with all this self-imposed guilt, ludicrous rules and checks they've set for themselves, all out of the irrational fear of burning forever in 'hell'.

It's really unsettling when you think about it. I actually feel sorry for them. It's like they've been given the opportunity to experience human life, and they decided on taking 1/5th of the offer, disregarding the 4/5ths out of fear.