Each time I read the nasty comments on nairaland about Lola Omotayo Okoye my heart gets heavy. I do not know her in person-just like most of you. She has been called "old", "shameless" even a "gold digger"! Some "kind" people even empathize with her and "understand" that Peter married her because of her kids. Let's get a few things straight;

1. Nobody has the right to choose another person's spouse
2. I was in school with Psquare, Peter had a girlfriend-Ada-whom he was crazy about. Ada is a splitting image of Lola...does that imply anything?
3. Age is not the determinant of a good marriage; either party could be older
4. Prince Charles married "much younger" Diana, how did that go? How old is his present wife-whom he loved all along?
5. Prince Williams forsook all the "younger girls" in England and married an older bride
6. Sullivan Chime married a "much younger" Clara; again, how did that go
7. For those who went as far as calling Lola a runs girl, who sleeps with her "uncles", do you know this lady? Do you know this for a fact or is it just hear say? Why defame an innocent lady who is minding her own business? Do you think Peter is a fool?
8. For those who justify these rumours with the story of her living in a "mansion" in Ikoyi-shebi you people say she is old? Do you know she has a career, did you expect that at her "old age" she wouldn't have risen through the ranks?
9. For those of you who see only young brides as a wise choice, it is because you haven't gotten married yet. There are some childish attributes the young wife will have that will make you almost regret the marriage-that is if you don't do that eventually
10. Peter knew very well what he was doing. He wants peace, companionship and joy. A mature and experienced mother for his kids. He saw all the "young girls" world over before he made his beautiful choice.

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Una really get time, honestly

Did she say she is bothered by the talk?


E be like say una dey find money abi.

If anything at all, the husband is more bothered than her about what he reads on social media.

Celeb life ..waka.com

To each his own my dear. It is easy to ruin a person's image and walk away-obviously from your attitude...

ammyluv2002: Una really get time, honestly

Huh Twisted thinking like yours is the reason I put up this post.

tpia@:
Did she say she is bothered by the talk?


E be like say una dey find money abi.

If anything at all, the husband is more bothered than her about what he reads on social media.

When I was much younger, I wanted a an outgoing,funloving,smart,young,beautiful lady,that will make my friends green with envy!!!

After being to hell and back with all of the above ,the only criteria that I seek in my woman is one that will give me peace of mind,thereby creating an atmosphere of harmony wher we can build together.

If my wife is older than me, I do not mind and I stated this clearly to my mother !!! Na only one life I come and I deserve to live it as happily as possible.

2. I was in school with Psquare, Peter had
a girlfriend-Ada-whom he was crazy about.
Ada is a splitting image of Lola...does that
imply anything?

No! Explain more!
What happened to Ada?
BTW, which school was that?

This is experience speaking...

otipoju: When I was much younger, I wanted a an outgoing,funloving,smart,young,beautiful lady,that will make my friends green with envy!!!

After being to hell and back with all of the above ,the only criteria that I seek in my woman is one that will give me peace of mind,thereby creating an atmosphere of harmony wher we can build together.

If my wife is older than me, I do not mind and I stated this clearly to my mother !!! Na only one life I come and I deserve to live it as happily as possible.

Lol, this is supposed to be an anonymous thread...

homesteady:
No! Explain more!
What happened to Ada?
BTW, which school was that?

Deschil: Lol, this is supposed to be an anonymous thread...

You have to provide facts for people to believe you!

What information is it you want that requires such facts? What happened to "Ada", how am I to know? Maybe I even have the name wrong? It's been many years. If you choose not to believe that Peter ever dated a girl he loved before Lola or that I went to school with them, you are free to believe what you like.

homesteady:
You have to provide facts for people to believe you!

Deschil: What information is it you want that requires such facts? What happened to "Ada", how am I to know? Maybe I even have the name wrong? It's been many years. If you choose not to believe that Peter ever dated a girl he loved before Lola or that I went to school with them, you are free to believe what you like.

Ok

defense attorney

OP, for you to mention Ada, are you insinuating that Peter married Lola because she looked like his past lover Ada?
You just did what the other posters are doing.

Btw, your post is not well structured. Dating Ada has no business in the point you are trying to pass across.

Deschil: Huh Twisted thinking like yours is the reason I put up this post.

All you are is a butt kisser and sycophant.

Not to mention liar.

You're a bit too obvious dear.

OP, tpia don settle for your case today

OP, did you say "defence"
Defence and Barcelona should be mentioned in the same breath.
Next time, you type "defence" and you don't type Barcelona, Ogun will thumbprint on your shiny baldhead.

If his ex and his present love have a striking resemblance it only means that he is GENUINELY attracted to her and didn't marry her out of pity or a sense of responsibility towards his children. I thought my point was obvious?

Chillisauce: OP, for you to mention Ada, are you insinuating that Peter married Lola because she looked like his past lover Ada?
You just did what the other posters are doing.

Btw, your post is not well structured. Dating Ada has no business in the point you are trying to pass across.

Lol, I understand that there are also children on nairaland so I am neither surprised nor upset.

homesteady: OP, tpia don settle for your case today

Anyone who is in the news should expect both positive & negative stories about him or her.

Deschil: If his ex and his present love have a striking resemblance it only means that he is GENUINELY attracted to her and didn't marry her out of pity or a sense of responsibility towards his children. I thought my point was obvious?

My dear, you are wrong. If I date someone like my ex, it will only remind me of my ex. I means I'm genuinely attracted to him because of my ex... So your point is not obvious.

People subconsciously have a type; either by way of appearance or personality.

Chillisauce:
My dear, you are wrong. If I date someone like my ex, it will only remind me of my ex. I means I'm genuinely attracted to him because of my ex... So your point is not obvious.

@OP, we have heard!

Deschil: What information is it you want that requires such facts? What happened to "Ada", how am I to know? Maybe I even have the name wrong? It's been many years. If you choose not to believe that Peter ever dated a girl he loved before Lola or that I went to school with them, you are free to believe what you like.

So, you assume anybody really cares about the fact that you went to school with psquare (allegedly).

Unless someone lives on an island with population 1, i think everybody knows you will meet people wherever you are, why should the fact that they had schoolmates and class mates generate so much fear, anxiety and apprehension unless there is something amiss in the relationship?

What exactly are your reasons for dating the person? Because you love her or because there's something else you're looking for?

Like they say, discretion is the better part of valour and silence can be golden depending on the context.

Stop trying so hard to make it appear somebody is an alien.

Stop acting suspicious if there is indeed nothing to suspect.

Grow up already!

tpia@:



So, you assume anybody really cares about the fact that you went to school with psquare (allegedly).

Unless someone lives on an island with population 1, i think everybody knows you will meet people wherever you are, why should the fact that they had schoolmates and class mates generate so much fear, anxiety and apprehension unless there is something amiss in the relationship?

What exactly are your reasons for dating the person? Because you love her or because there's something else you're looking for?

Like they say, discretion is the better part of valour and silence can be golden depending on the context.

Stop trying so hard to make it appear somebody is an alien.

Stop acting suspicious if there is indeed nothing to suspect.

Your posts do not make sense, that is all!


Try to write a better script and stop assuming you are addressing half bakeds all the time, that is insulting.

As if she knows that some peeps are losing sleep ontop her matter

Deschil: People subconsciously have a type; either by way of appearance or personality.

From what your saying, we are safe to say he is with her because he is subconsciously attracted to her based on Ada appearance or personality.

Still don't know why you mentioned Ada in your post. Doesn't have anything to do with the message you are passing across.

lol oooooo.... odi egwu!

o.p are you her publicist

tpia@:
Your posts do not make sense, that is all!


Try to write a better script and stop assuming you are addressing half bakeds all the time, that is insulting.

Poor English write up;Wrong tenses

Too bad for you.