obi4eze: Sorry sir but are you born-again and Spirit-filled too?

frank3.16:
by wooing her... i believe u will also want to have sexx with her. cool. first of all i want to let u know that born again ladies are the sweetest to sleep with. the gratification knows no bound. u cant afford to miss this opportunity. the fact that they cover their whole body leaves ur imagination running wild and thinking... there must be a gold mine behind those unattractive cloths.

back to the topic

are u friends with her? i have to ask again because i really want to be sure... what u wrote up there is not clear enough. u have to be her friend. wooing a born again lady can only start with friendship.

remember she is emotionally stronger than her counterparts or so they think. but this is ur weapon. her strength is also her weakness. how can u achieve something with this? become week and a little bit needy. make her see u as a project. try to sound as sincere as possible and make her know u somehow depend on her for emotional strength. that way u are free to misbehave and ask for forgiveness... afterall she knows that u are weak.

then when u have gotten close enough... when u have her trust... u start working on her defenses. they must be bought down. how can u do this? her conscience. attack the conscience. make her understand that she can rationalize her actions (evil ones). let her know everybody has a secret. get into her head and u will find out that she also have weak moments too. get to know what these weaknesses are and develop them. let her know she can do it and god will forgive her. give her bible instances where strong men of god yeilded to their weakness.

speak words into her ears just as the pastors do. remember the pastor is ur enemy here. u must be in church to hear what he preached, then u can use these prechings to work against her conscience.

just let her know that she is only human and god understands more than her pastor.
i hope this helps. i wil be here for u if u need me.