I've got a friend staying with me. Used to enjoy her company when I was on my I.T and she was waiting for her project defence(part time student). We would gist and we would gist and watch movies most times. The problem now is I'm done with my I.T and back to the real world. I cant concentrate in school work cause she's always watching movies and trying to engage me in one of her never ending discussions. The worst part is that her bf seems to be always around. The thing is I easily get distracted that's why I want her to leave. How can I do this without being the bad guy who ruined our friendship?

put it in writing or send to her mobile.

Put it in writing nd lay more emphasis on 'you want to be alone for some time".. Then drop the note when she's observing siesta.. She would understand... My pal did it to me recently n trust me, we are stl frnds til nw..

gmm.... Anyway, d easiest way dat do work is.... Tel her d landlord/caretaker is bginin 2 complain lately dat he doesnt want more dan a person in ur room dat wen u rented d room u didnt tel him dat sumbodi else wil b stayin wit u and dat u hv b pleadin since, dat she(ur frd) is just stayin temporarily bt lately he has given u warnin dat u shuld tell ur frd 2 leave or he wil eject u 4rm d house and return ur money.

afdynamic: gmm.... Anyway, d easiest way dat do work is.... Tel her d landlord/caretaker is bginin 2 complain lately dat he doesnt want more dan a person in ur room dat wen u rented d room u didnt tel him dat sumbodi else wil b stayin wit u and dat u hv b pleadin since, dat she(ur frd) is just stayin temporarily bt lately he has given u warnin dat u shuld tell ur frd 2 leave or he wil eject u 4rm d house and return ur money.

bro u can lie.........

I concur with the people that opine that you should put it in writing. Don't forget to stress the fact that your friendship is important to you. It's difficult...but you have to do it.

What must be done must be done.