@op, nice... jazakumullahu khairan, Amin

jazakallahu khayran jazza

Jazakallahu kairh fi dunnyaa wal ahkir

Mashaa Allah. Thank Y̶̲̥̅̊o̶̲̥̅̊и brother. May Allah increase us all in knowledge and d wisdom to act on Ȋ̝̊̅†̥, amen.

Peace be unto you @Op for this soft reminder.
Islam is a way of life. Alhamdullilahi

jazzakumullah khair

Jzk

Jàzaka llahu khairan. may Allah give us the ability to practice Islam according to the teaching of our noble prophet (SAW).

Alhamdulillahi... May Allah make it easy for everyone of us

kekakuz: islam is peace

my brother forget that thing, that one na fat lie.

lekibraky: Allah (S.W.T.) has entrusted parents with their children. Parents bear the responsibility to raise their children in the Islamic way. If they do that they will be blessed in this life and in the Hereafter, and if they don't, they will get bad result during their life and in the Hereafter.

Imams Bukhari and Muslim reported that the prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) said, "All of you are heads of a group and all of you are responsible for your groups; the ruler is the head of state and he is responsible for his people, the man is head of his family and responsible for his family, the woman is the head in her husband's house and she is responsible for the house. In short all of you are heads and responsible for your group."

The prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) did not excuse any one from responsibility that Allah has put on every individual to build the Islamic society: the ruler is responsible: the man and woman are responsible.... All within their capabilities, domains, and authorities, and the loss of Islam from our Muslim ummah these days is nothing but a result of the neglect of responsibility...

Today, I want to talk about responsibility of men and women, fathers and mothers. This common responsibility, between the two, is to rise, educate, and build the new generation in the correct method and the right way.

Allah creates the children with pure innate nature, without defects and whatever defects that happens later on is the result of the bad education. Imams Bukhari and Muslim reported that the prophet (S.A.W.) said, "Every new born has the correct instinct, his parents make him Jewish, Christian or a fire worshipper."

Allah has put in every person the good tendencies and the bad tendencies so choose and testing will be performed, so parents must encourage and grow the good tendencies in the child so he can become a useful person that helps himself and his people. Allah (S.W.T) said in surat At-Tahrim, (verse 6), which is translated as, "O you who believe, protect yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is men and stones."

And the protection of yourself and your family from hell fire won't be with any thing but the good education, the practice of good morals, and the guidance to nobility.

Islam does not distinguish between male and female with regard to the Education requirements. Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) said, ''Whoever had a daughter, tutored her on good morals, educated her well and fed her properly; she will be a protection for him from hell fire." What do we mean by good education? The good education means the physical, mental and moral preparation of the child so he can become a good individual in the good society.

The physical preparation: Includes the care for the child's body and his strength a through good feeding and following the correct methods in prevention and treatment of diseases.

The mental preparation: Includes everything that comprises the formation of the correct mental thinking, the ability of good judgment and the profound thinking and inference; so the child can understand his surroundings, judge things and benefit from his and the others' experiences.

The moral preparation: includes the instilling and neutering of the best morals; also the discouragement and correction of bad morals and behavior.

For all the above there are methods and ways that help parents to reach their goal:

Methods for physical preparation:

1. To make sure that the child is clean in his body, clothes, his surroundings and has a love of cleanliness in his life.

2. To make sure to feed the child from the good without excessive expenditure or stinginess.

3. To encourage the practice of sports such as running, swimming, shooting and riding and their sports those make the body strong and active in a whole some atmosphere.

Methods for mental preparation:

1. To teach reading and writing and to ensure a superiority in all kinds of knowledge and sciences.

2. To practice attentively looking at all creations and events around him which will enable his mental growth and give him the correct inference capabilities.

3. Touring or traveling in the land and pondering all the different marks and signs of Allah and the history of previous people and nations.

Methods for moral preparation:

1. Showing the values of good deeds and their effects on the individuals and society; also showing the effects of bad deeds, all within the child's capability of understanding.


Parents should be a good practical example in their behavior because children like to imitate their parents in their sayings and their deeds.
3. Teaching the child the religious principles and tutoring him in worship, taking into account the child's capability of understanding. The prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) had said, "Order your children to pray at the age of seven."

4. Treating children nicely and kindly, the prophet (S.A.W.) taught us that practically. When he was praying as an Imam with the people, his grandson Al-Hasan, son of his daughter Fatimah, may Allah be pleased with them rode his back while he was bowing, lengthened his bow. When he finished his prayer, some of the companions said, "You lengthened your bow? "Then the prophet (S.A.W.) answered, "My grandson rode my back and I hate hastening him".

5. One of the important things that parents must teach their children to select the good company and the avoid the bad, because children are always influenced by their company. The bad behavior can be transmitted through bad company. So prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) warned us by saying, "The person is following his company behavior, so every one must watch for his company." (A good hadith reported by Imams Abu-Dawoud and At-Tirmithi.).

6. Encouraging the child's sense of belonging to the Muslim Ummah, by teaching him of the brotherhood between Muslims, teaching him to care for Muslims in any land, and that he is part of the Muslim body, to feel joy when Muslims are joyous, to feel sad for Muslims’ sadness, and to do best to achieve the Muslim nation's goals. All of this can done practically through by:


a. Taking children to mosques and introducing them to their brother in Islam regardless their race, language, or origin.
b. Teaching the children the history of the prophet (S.A.W.) and his companions and the history of Islam with in to the child's capability of understanding.

c. Encouraging children to sympathize with Muslim problems and to contribute to the solutions such as the poverty problem and to donate some money to the hungry Muslim children.

d. Taking part in the celebrations and festivals with Muslims, and sharing picnics and creating ties with their Muslim brothers of the same age.

7. Growing the sense of distinction from society, and that does not mean arrogance because arrogance is forbidden: but it means the sense of being a Muslim and that Muslims are different from non-Muslims in their sources of belief and behavior. Clarify that the society is good and bad, so as a Muslim, take and benefit from what is good and leave and avoid what is bad.

8. Growing the feeling of love of Allah, his prophet, Muslims, and all people. This love will lead to special behavior towards all those loved.

This is a general guideline, so every Muslim can take care of his children and know the correct path that must be followed, so we can do the job we are entrusted to do as Allah proscribed, as well as the responsibility the prophet has clarified to protect the future generations of Muslims, as Allah said in surat At-Tawbah, verse 105, what can be translated as, "And Say Do deeds! Allah will see your deeds and (so will) His Messenger and the believers. And you will be brought back to the All-Knower of the unseen and the seen. Then He will inform you of what you used to do."





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May Allah rewards u abundantly..nd gvz u d gud ov dis life and the hereafter @@[1:[0:1:Ameen ]]

Alhamdulillah, see the beautiful things that we have in islam.bro may Allah reward u with jannatul firdaus. aameeen

emekaeneh: Sorry I am so much not interested.

i expected to see a fool like u comment..[color=#990000][/color]who force u to read it by the way??

Jazakallahu khayran

, please i am not trying to offend anybody i am just trying to ask a question, i need clarification, i heard muhammed raised female children by raping them, i heard it was in the quran
please do not ban me, you can hide the post if it is offensive to anybody, but i just need clarifications, thank you
by the way, wat is S.A.W and S.W.T, what do they mean?

@ GeneralJ.dere is nothing lyk DAT in d Quran nd u can go make research. people only critisis us base on individual behavior or someone will just seat and spray tins abt us DAT is not rit .prophet Mohammad was d most peaceful person on earth and only d Quran and d hadith and justify DAT.Christian just seat and say tins abt us DAT even to d normal brain its not OK.hw I wish Christians can get a gud understanding of d Quran just as we do for d bible dem I tink d books will speak for dem self's or beta more get a video of debate BTW Muslim mallam and a Christian pastor. dem d video can tell u which religion is d tru religion. tank u

Jazakalahu khairan. This got to be in my library

I left my ex bcoz she's not just xtian she drinks alcohols too,defiant and disrespecting.told me she had smoked at certain age,but extremely beautiful..God if I marry her she would definitely raise my child to be that careless,useless for me and society...

Results of marrying nonchalant women is the reason today you see a strong Muslim father but a weak Muslim home...

It is the mother that shapes the life of a child,be warned

ndagiman: @ GeneralJ.dere is nothing lyk DAT in d Quran nd u can go make research. people only critisis us base on individual behavior or someone will just seat and spray tins abt us DAT is not rit .prophet Mohammad was d most peaceful person on earth and only d Quran and d hadith and justify DAT.Christian just seat and say tins abt us DAT even to d normal brain its not OK.hw I wish Christians can get a gud understanding of d Quran just as we do for d bible dem I tink d books will speak for dem self's or beta more get a video of debate BTW Muslim mallam and a Christian pastor. dem d video can tell u which religion is d tru religion. tank u

I've always told my Muslim friends that no real man of God engages in a debate in the name of spreading the Gospel. All those people you see debating Ahmed Deedat and his likes are just attention-seekers/pseudo-pastors. The Bible instructs Christians to leave a place if the gospel their preaching is not accepted. So engaging in debates is even un-Biblical

@ Chartey.abeg no fool Ur self.which one is dey ar not recall mean on God.u wea b real man of God abeg make I ask u some questions.

Nice

ndagiman: @ Chartey.abeg no fool Ur self.which one is dey ar not recall mean on God.u wea b real man of God abeg make I ask u some questions.

I didn't say i was any man of God. And yes those people are not real men of God cause they don't know what the Bible says about evangelism.
You can ask me questions if you are really sincere about getting answers. I'll try my best to answer you honestly and if i don't know, I'll tell you. But if you just want a debate, I'm not down for that-the Bible is against it.