bellong: Have you asked him whether he slept with the girl or not?

Ashabie: I stated it there that he said he did...buh not up to a month.

Ashabie: brother said she claimed to be 2 month pregnant and its not even up to 2mnths that they met...am his best friend and his confidant...he needed me now and am helpless,cos I dnt no where to start from or what advise to give...maybe your sincere advises can help...thanks in advance.

Chillisauce: Don't be surprised the baby comes out looking like her ex.
I will say you guys shouldn't be in a hurry to accept her because she is preggy. Let her not use the means to tie your brother down.
You can take care of the baby if she wishes but no marriage until your bro is sure that's what he wants.
I wonder why your 27yrs old bros doesnot know what to do.
He is an adult, he will be a mumu to leave his present relationship and Marry this girl because that's where she is heading to.

bellong:


The bolded does not necessarily mean he did it.

Meanwhile, to the matter, since he couldn't control his vessel despite having a girl friend, the best bet is to wait for her to deliver the baby and do a DNA test to confirm paternity.

Please note that the fact she is pregnant does not mandate your brother to marry her.

tellwisdom: Op, do you have big yansh??

Ashabie: And where's the wisdom in you

Shattap ...Im trying to help you

Ashabie: Thanks so much everyone for your concern and advises...the case is settled now...I just got a call from my mum now,telling me the girl took some medication last night and was rushed to the hospital after my sister told her to meet her this morning for a test...now she lost the preggy and was on admission...trying to get across to her all to no avail for now...but I will keep trying so as to engage her in a little conversation and am sure this is the end of the said relationship.

baby_123: Let your brother let her know he will wait and do a DNA test on the baby before he accepts it. If she's not sure for her sake she should keep away until paternity is confirmed. Your mum should also stay neutral and shouldn't be a pawn in such. Under no circumstances should your brother have sex with her till she gives birth. She may not be pregnant and claim that, if he has sex with her she may really get pregnant and claim she lost the first one.

remsonik: Op u re a woman and u should know better,being two months pregnant is not a factor of its not up to two months they had sex. A pregnancy is being counted from the day of ur last period not the day u had sex. So if my last period was on the 10th of november and I had sex on the 24th of november I will be 5 weeks pregnant not 3 weeks as it should be from the day I had sex. So its very possible

andyanders: Never EVER allow your family to be destroyed by someone like that lady. If she like, let her keep the baby and deliver the baby in her parent's house and not your house. If the baby comes out request for DNA.

Do not marry out of sympathy no matter what comes out of this. She just needed to destroy your brother because she has seen his potential.

If DNA comes out and your brother is responsible, let him accept to take care of the baby and let her this lady go her own way and continue with her ex since she was the one who opted out of the relationship.

Call the present lady your brother is moving with and open up to her and let her know before she finds out. I wish you and yours the best out of this.

greatgod2012: Haaaa nkan mbe o.
Mewa nsele ni'le aye.
So, someone can be this desperate and evil at the same time.
Only God knows the type of prayers your mum must have engaged in before the truth can be this unfold.

May God save us and our children from such a person o.

tellwisdom:
Op, do you have big yansh??

tellwisdom:
Op, do you have big yansh??