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HumbledbYGrace: I am so disappointed

Oh, don't be, dear. Men are not ordinarily domestic. It's almost always a sacrifice for a man to do the little things. We're designed for hunting and gathering.

Fact is, I love a clean, tidy house. But I don't much care for the work involved. I think it's partly why I've always prefered to live alone. I fix my mess when I want to and once it's fixed, I have to be having a really tough day for it to go to shyt again. When it does go to shyt, I need emotional juice to pull it together again. If I hadn't been brought up by my mom edit the way I had been edit, the story might have been worse. My head is like a constant battlefield so I don't always have the energy for little things.

However, when I'm married I know that I'll always feel guilty leaving wifey to do all the work by herself. So I make the effort now to get involved and pick up after myself so that I build a strong habit that'll ease her burden. When I was with my brother's family some time ago, baby poo didn't irk me but I didn't like the constant "distraction". But I have no intention to leave all the diaper management to wifey.

Excuse us men, honey. It's the testosterone. It's heavy lifting and standing rock-still in the wind and rain and sun to keep harm from coming into the house that it fuels best.

HumbledbYGrace: Poo poo makes me dizzy, on the real so doing it 24/7 for almost 4years is gonna kill me, atleast help me, do it in shifts

Cleaning poo poo is never a 24/7 duty. The pikin yansh dey leak?

I will only assist when you are busy with something more important than cleaning baby's poo poo

Cleaning poo s not really as bad as you put it, but to me, taking care of the baby s d woman job. Including d poo part. Helping out in d poo business? I think i would think about it wen d time comes.
You said in naija movie settings, here s a question, why in the world will a wife wants a maid when she s not working. She sud not be lazy.

xynerise: Cleaning poo poo is never a 24/7 duty. The pikin yansh dey leak?

I will only assist when you are busy with something more important than cleaning baby's poo poo

the baby poo like 3, 4 times a day, after every meal comes poo na, so?!? Ya'll gotta get involved like Ihedinobi stated

Well, since i do all chores(though my cooking skills is a bit atrocious) i don't need a wife to do all these. However. I need a wife that will always be there for me, a wife to support me, a wife that would offer invaluable advice like Sarah in the bible. An extra pair of eyes to watch over me, and a woman to protect. Is the list too long?

PocketEconomist: Well, since i do all chores(though my cooking skills is a bit atrocious) i don't need a wife to do all these. However. I need a wife that will always be there for me, a wife to support me, a wife that would offer invaluable advice like Sarah in the bible. An extra pair of eyes to watch over me, and a woman to protect. Is the list too long?

are you single?

Nope the list is not long, not at all

Duties are defined by the couples. That's why ppl court, though i really can't understand what this generation talk about during courtship.

HumbledbYGrace: are you single?

Nope the list is not long, not at all

i am. Though i'm of marriageable age, i'm still taking my time learning everyday on how to be a better husband, father, leader and security. I wanna be the best husband i can ever be, and i want a woman who will deserve me, my motto? Be the best and NEVER settle for less. Stamped.

PocketEconomist: i am. Though i'm of marriageable age, i'm still taking my time learning everyday on how to be a better husband, father, leader and security. I wanna be the best husband i can ever be, and i want a woman who will deserve me, my motto? Be the best and NEVER settle for less. Stamped.

what's marriageable age lol.

ireneidiva: Duties are defined by the couples. That's why ppl court, though i really can't understand what this generation talk about during courtship.

lol we talk about almost everything

HumbledbYGrace: what's marriageable age lol.