KarmaMod:

Unfortunately for you, not every woman finds porn offensive. She's probably even provide the chips and lube for you.

KarmaMod:

so? who's the one dealing with the baby?

Let's compare the price of "Honey you havent been yourself, is everything ok? Lets talk" vs sending illegitimate baby to school, clothes, shelter, blah blah blah, upkeep for the mother of the child, etc

If he doesn't mind spending the money, dealing with the baby will be no issue to him.  She, on the other hand, will be sad, hurt, emotionally violated, you name it . . . over what the man has done to her.  He might even decide to marry the other woman, or welcome the kid into his home.

papa_dims:

if the guy wants it he should do something special for wife so can feel special and be in the mood for it. how can the husband just jump on the wife just like that but when he will to do it with his GF he would take her out and do some crazy stuff. if you want to enjoy you must work hard for it.

Have you forgotten the bride price?

KarmaMod:

Unfortunately for you, not every woman finds porn offensive. She'll probably even provide the chips and lube for you.

meanie

KarmaMod:

Unfortunately for you, not every woman finds porn offensive. She'll probably even provide the chips and lube for you.

      .  She will find it offensive if I call out my ex-girlfriend's name when I bust.

papa_dims:

if the guy wants it he should do something special for wife so can feel special and be in the mood for it. how can the husband just jump on the wife just like that but when he will to do it with his GF he would take her out and do some crazy stuff. if you want to enjoy you must work hard for it.  

That could work. but i guess platonic love dies when you get married.

whenever it is done by force it is called rape whether single or married

Ibkaye
I didn't say that oh. You know we're not supposed to know things like that, we're innocents until we get to our husbands' house. So change that song to an innocent song like. . . Ringa Ringa roses, a pocket full of roses.

@ Shuppie
I say, may God continue to charge your energizer bunny, you are a woman, amongst women. . . and if you really want to reach sainthood, iyou would let science study you, so the rest of us mortal women can gain from it. Won't. . . Won't you please do this for your fellow sisters? Please, pretty please?

don't tink there's any big deal in this.if all guy agree to relax pretendin dat theres no big deal in sex
there will be a time girls will be beggin 4 it  trust

QUESTION
If you were raped by your spouse, will you call out for a divorce? would you forgive him/her? basically what would you do?

This question is for both the ladies and the men (yes, it is actually possible for a man to get raped, want to give both sexes the chance to answer the question )

HCH3COO:

If he doesn't mind spending the money, dealing with the baby will be no issue to him. She, on the other hand, will be sad, hurt, emotionally violated, you name it . . . over what the man has done to her. He might even decide to marry the other woman, or welcome the kid into his home.

Um or she'll just leave the house for you while you deal with kid of a woman you just slept with just to satisfy sexual urges when you could have easily spoken to your wife. Abi you think all women are trapped or would just accept such a situation?

I assume you watched that Si GboGbo Obinrin movie. What happened to Moyo? Didnt she leave? She was offended by her husband's actions but she left. She admitted what she did wrong in the marriage but she still left and thankfully she didnt have a kid with the dude thus they wont be any problem for her to marry again

dadon G:

don't think there's any big deal in this.if all guy agree to relax pretendin that theres no big deal in sex
there will be a time girls will be beggin 4 it  trust

Truly Questionable.

ibkaye:

QUESTION
If you were raped by your spouse, will you call out for a divorce? would you forgive him/her? basically what would you do?

This question is for both the ladies and the men (yes, it is actually possible for a man to get raped, want to give both sexes the chance to answer the question )

Well if my husband ever in his mortal life raped me, So Help Him God. He better sleep with one eye open and constantly look over your shoulders when im using kitchen utensils. . .

KarmaMod:

Um or she'll just leave the house for you while you deal with kid of a woman you just slept with just to satisfy sexual urges when you could have easily spoken to your wife. Abi you think all women are trapped or would just accept such a situation?

I assume you watched that Si GboGbo Obinrin movie. What happened to Moyo? Didnt she leave? She was offended by her husband's actions but she left. She admitted what she did wrong in the marriage but she still left and thankfully she didnt have a kid with the dude thus they wont be any problem for her to marry again

    yeah     but she was hurt .  it was all her fault.  i'm still laughing about that movie.  you know nigerian women hate divorce.

if i'm lucky, the other woman might be a gem.  it doesn't always result to kids.  he can just wear rubber to save all that drama.

If she hated divorce so much she would have stayed esp since the entire family was begging her. I dont see God condemning adultery then providing a "gem" so dream on

All of this can be avoided if she performs her marital duty.

and his which is emotional support

KarmaMod:

and his which is emotional support

Naaa! That's my teddy bear's duty. His is to rock my nights!

teddy bear ko, spongebob ni

KarmaMod:

teddy bear ko, spongebob ni

Believe me. It's does a better job!

KarmaMod:

and his which is emotional support

what of providing him some emotional support when he asked for it?

Lack of sex can be fatal to manhood.

HCH3COO:

Lack of sex can be fatal to manhood.

No procreation?

Or well, I don't think we'll extinct tomorrow!

HCH3COO:

what of providing him some emotional support when he asked for it?

Wives usually do. They usually sense things are wrong from the beginning and they try to get to the bottom of it. Most men dont care if they're wives are bothered by something until it gets to the point that she starts withdrawing sex.

michelin89:

No procreation?

Or well, I don't think we'll extinct tomorrow!

No. High blood pressure, ucler, fever . . .

HCH3COO:

No. High blood pressure, ucler, fever . . .

Ok! Die in peace!

KarmaMod:

[b]Wives usually do. [/b]They usually sense things are wrong from the beginning and they try to get to the bottom of it. Most men don't care if they're wives are bothered by something until it gets to the point that she starts withdrawing sex.

Wive do but we men don't?  What of those wives who couldn't give a damn if you eat or not because they care too much about 50-50.  Women know that men have this big ego/pride that makes them frown when it comes to begging.

michelin89:

Ok! Die in peace!

ogini cannot kill yourself over such woman.

HCH3COO:

Wive do but we men don't? What of those wives who couldn't give a damn if you eat or not because they care too much about 50-50. Women know that men have this big ego/pride that makes them frown when it comes to begging.

Women don't have pride abi?

HCH3COO:

ogini cannot kill yourself over such woman.

Ok! Leave in peace and regain your health elsewhere!

michelin89:

Women don't have pride abi?

well, women's pride. . . . . they can usually afford to give it up. most women do.

Ok! Leave in peace and regain your health elsewhere!

exactly.

HCH3COO:

Women know that men have this big ego/pride that makes them frown when it comes to begging.

Who cares? You think women ENJOY begging? You think they dont have pride? Abeg come up with something better. That lame excuse of "men have ego" is tired.

I think it's funny that you mention how women should do "martial duty" yet I say as long as the men provide emotional support and now you are making up pitiful excuses.

Dont expect something if you cant do your own "duty" as well. It's that simple

KarmaMod:

Who cares? You think women ENJOY begging? You think they don't have pride? Abeg come up with something better. That lame excuse of "men have ego" is tired.

I think it's funny that you mention how women should do "martial duty" yet I say as long as the men provide emotional support and now you are making up pitiful excuses.

Dont expect something if you can't do your own "duty" as well. It's that simple

Who cares?  Men do.
It's not tired.  Begging just seems so feminine to most men  .  Imagine a story of a woman hanging out with her friends, telling them how she cuddled her husband, made him food, massaged him, caressed his feet because she saw him worried, then made love to him to ease his mind.  The women will go "awwwww, how cute" .  If a guy does the same while hanging out with his boys, telling them how he cooked and did all that hoopla, but in the end she refused sex. . .  they'll call him a  .

Men, good men, take care of their duties.  But don't expect us to automatically scan your minds when something's wrong.

once again when a man is stressed or frustrated and doesnt talk about it, wives usually harp on it. Stop making excuses for men from doing the same