IAH:

I must inform my Pastor first. I must also inform my teachers at school, my grandmother, the king of my hometown and our gateman. Duhhhh Pastor ko, Stopper ni

hahaha
mamaput had a misconception abt wht u said
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I will start dating the babe, cos i am old enuf to date and to know what i want.

for better answers, take this to religious section. anyway, why tell my pastor first?

funny thread, could be nice for joke section as well

for all those against informing the pastor, let me fill you in, as a christian one has direct access to God but the same bible says in the multitude of counsel, there is safety.

possible scenerios
1. the man is impotent(both parties has agreed, no pre-marital sex), pastor is aware but the the lady is not aware!!
dont you think she will have a rethink if she finds out before things become serious

2.she has had series of abortions, pastor is aware but brother is not aware or it could be HIV on either part or her womb has been removed etc

To an extent the pastor knows things even our parents don't as a result of the counseling sessions we have had with them

In these cases the pastor will advise them to wait or put a stop to it before it develops, it depends