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Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by ojubi(m): 3:33pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
@ oop, I don't sympathise with you one bit. You saw all this coming in your early days in relationship but you went ahead with the relationship and marriage pe harps to make her and her family happy and proud right? I de laf u never see anything! Or maybe because the 2 of you are working and you saw economic and professional compatibility and forgetting about your personal joy and happiness? Dem no born u well! I keep saying it any woman who cannot be the peace of the man she marries or date shd never have a husband in d first place. I was already walking the isle, done introduction, collected list, fixed date for TM and wedding when I found out about my ex anger issues. She ll nag like hell and say all kinds of unimaginable things to me, she has no singular respect for me, the worse is even when our friends and other people are around she gets angry with me and express her grievances there. Even inside d church she still frown at me and God. One day I was on Naira Land she was angry hit my phone, it fell on the ground and scattered. Her emotional immaturity was just too much for me to handle again. I had sleepless nights for many weeks, asking my self why did I do this to myself? I woke up one morning called her on phone and council the damn wedding. As expected What followed was a lot of attacks and counter attacks from our family's cos we are not only from d same village but the same compound. Watin concern me! I did the needful. Because even if I marry her, her family will still attack me the day I ll tell her I can't take it anymore in the marriage, so why postponed the evil day? Today all that is history and am happy even though her mum hate me saying I disgraced her family, but na she disgrace herself cos if she train her daughter well she go respect man! Abi? My advice!! Edon happen! Edon happen abi! Get her whole family involved now oh! Make dem tell her to respect you oh, because u no be house boy were she go d talk to u any how, d demoralise your psyche, de be-little u oh! Tell dem if she no change u ll be force to do the needful oh. There are only a few things that distabilises a man like a nagging wife, if she no hear, BROTHER! Plan your EXIT! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by SisiKill1: 3:44pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
I'm still stumped at the part where thinking having a child with a crazy woman will change her. If you have little regard for your own life, that's your prerogative but please don't not bring a child into your mess. Saw an episode of a crime show (shut up Coogar) where the wife threw their baby down a flight of stairs just because she was mad at her husband. Her Psychologist said she wasn't trying to hurt the child but because her anger overrides any form of control she has, she threw the thing closest to her and it just happened to be their 16 month old....Poor child is now brain damaged. I'm sure he too thought having a child will change his wife. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by Seun(m): 4:11pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
dinachi: While seeing a therapist may not work, I can guarantee you 100% that the SHOCK THERAPY will definitely work. OP the ball is in your court!This is false. Let her see a Psychiatrist. They have powerful medicines which can work wonders especially when combined with counselling. |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by Caracta(f): 4:13pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
Seun: Do we really have such professionals in Nigeria. I just hope the woman will agree to see one. That's if she doesn't break 16 bottles on his head first. |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by baby124: 4:17pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
Seun:Ok. And every morning he must also make it his duty to pry open her lips to make sure she takes the drugs abi. Most of those drugs are temporary relief and not cures. They mostly leave the person in a kind of sleepy or over calm state. The time she stops taking those drugs OP's life will be in grave danger. If he has kids with her and leaves her, OP will never have peace or safety in his life. One of them will end up either severely injured/dead while the other in jail. We all know who will be where |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
Caracta:... Op, don't really know what to say because I have never come across such a woman all my life..never knew woman could be like this |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by Blitz4real(m): 4:41pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
Hmmmn HOT TEMPERED @ op u made a wrong choice I feel very sorry for you,cause I know how it feels.ojubi has said it at all " PLAN YOUR EXIST" |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
Blitz4real: Hmmmn HOT TEMPERED @ op u made a wrong choice I feel very sorry for you,cause I know how it feels.ojubi has said it at all " PLAN YOUR EXIST"EXIST |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by Nobody: 4:52pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
Your wife is behaving in this way because she knows how to push your buttons and pull you into the argument. Stop being a door mat. She is being such a witch to you..do not allow this to happen anymore..stand up for YOU! |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by captcochrane(m): 5:34pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
Caracta: yes yes, we av, we av many 16 bottles........its part of their training to handle dt |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by Blitz4real(m): 6:07pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
firstEVA: EXISTbest option, otherwise he would have no rest throughout the days of his life |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
1. Pray For her. 2. Study her moods if she has mood swings especially around that time of the month. 'Could be a trigger. 3. She may still have un forgiveness in her for some incident in the past. Talk to her about this or try and find out with style and encourage her to forgive. 4. You r liberal but on a particular occasion u may need to take a stand and directly rebuke her attitude. 5. Pay attention to her physical needs, r u meeting them? Sex etc. 6. Make her laugh often. 7. That's all for now. |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by mgbeketoto: 11:25pm On Jan 08, 2014 |
Bi Polar disease! Get help ASAP!!!! |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by crackhaus: 12:16am On Jan 09, 2014 |
mgbeketoto: Bi Polar disorder!Edited! |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by mariahAngel(f): 10:12am On Nov 04, 2020 |
byteem: Hello, I hope you're still alive... |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by NoToPile: 12:26pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
mariahAngel: I can't believe I went to check his profile when I saw your post. He's still active on NL joor |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by chii8(f): 1:11pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by Janosky: 3:20pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
byteem:Before you married her, nobody hear una voice. Bros, settle the gbege in your home prayerfully and peacefully. You should consult a Clinical Psychologist to identify the root of her anger issues and resolve it. When you identify the root of a problem, the solution is closer to you. (E get something wey dey pain am wey she never solve. Find out what it is & solve it together. Then ,she will calm down and Manage her anger for good.) By now you should know what makes your wife turbocharged & what calms her down, keep doing the later. |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by mariahAngel(f): 3:59pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Re: My Wife Has Crazy Temper Tantrums by Nobody: 4:04pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
mariahAngel:He is alive |
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