The popular perception of strip clubs tends towards the notion that these venues are “Gentleman’s Clubs”, geared exclusively toward fostering misogynist attitudes to women, and the devaluing of the female body. But are these opinions or views outdated? After all, as the habit of hen-nights hiring male strippers will attest, striptease is not only for men. In many ways, this article plays the devil’s advocate, but then, here are 10 good reasons why women need to visit a strip club, at least once!

1. Watching other women dance erotically can teach you a lot about your own body.
Learning to appreciate other women’s bodies and even to find them attractive can help you lift your own self-confidence.
Watching strippers dance can teach you to love and appreciate your body and perhaps help you realize that you are attractive in other people’s eyes.

2. Even if it doesn't teach you all that… You get to know your enemy!
Going to a strip club will inform and bolster your convictions about this industry.

3. If you’ve never thought about finding other women sexually attractive, this could be a chance to test your sexual preferences.
Being in this environment could challenge your personal boundaries. Watching women in a club, rather than making moves on your friends, could be a safe and a relatively unembarrassing way to explore your sexual orientation if you’re bi-curious or even unsure about whether you’re lesbian.
You won’t be the only one.

4. Strip clubs can be an exciting new experience for couples, and can offer fun and friendly opportunity.
Why not go with your partner? You may find it an intimate experience to be there together, to find out what turns him on, and to spice up your sex life.
Being in that environment is highly likely to turn him on, but at the end of the night, it’s you he’s going to go home with, because you’re the one he loves. Accepting and understanding that could be exciting and exhilarating for both of you.

5. Learn to become upfront and honest with your partner about other women.
It may not be an easy experience, but it may help both of you to understand that he may find other women attractive.
It could even just be fun to compare which of the girls you and him find attractive, or stimulate some healthy debate about what your relationship means to both of you.

6. Get to chat with the girls who work there.
No matter what your feelings are ethically, morally or personally about the sex industry, talking to the women who have been right in the middle of it could help you understand the “other side of the story”.

7. Go to find out whether this is something you would be happy doing to earn some extra money.
This is becoming an increasingly common or normal way for students to supplement their income and help ease the burden of student debt.

8. Beauty is only skin deep.
Visit a strip club to reassure yourself that, even if your body isn’t as “perfect” as the dancers, you can appreciate yourself as being normal and feel beautiful just for being that.
And don’t forget that the girls who work there are more than dancers, too.

9. Strip clubs are full of single guys.
Make sure you take the most good-looking one home!

10. You only have one life.
Sometimes you have to tease the boundaries of your comfort zone.

There are, of course so many counter-arguments to all of these reasons. But it doesn’t mean that the reasons aren’t there.
Sometimes it’s best to recognise that it is “better you know the devil” than to dismiss out of hand something that's difficult to understand without trying. After all, it could be fun, exciting, and as research has shown, women tend to see other women’s bodies as more attractive than naked men. If you doubt this, visit a strip club and find out for yourself!

Someone sat down and came up with this? Konji na bastard. Enyi a go get laid biko.

I disagree totally in every area or aspect or corner or perspective or view or understanding or wisdom in this trashy thread..Dude quit promoting prostitution.

repent for the kingdom of GOD is at hand. Dont cause people to sin pls

I don't think I wanna go dia o!
Wetin I wan s smell anode woman TOTO for?
Please, I WANNO SEE NAYKED MEN ONLY!!!

This is just what ive been thinking of doing to one virgin girlfriend of mine.

Send addresses. You've got a convert

Just like saying guys should visit male. Strip clubs so they can learn more. About their body! Let me advice u on how to copy topics from online! Copy somthing worthy and. Make sure u go through it before posting!

Oh puhleeeeeese!!strips clubs in naija should be scraped!bunch of elephants walking on stage...Mtchewwww

Rubbish!

mystiqueDZ: Oh puhleeeeeese!!strips clubs in naija should be scraped!bunch of elephants walking on stage...Mtchewwww

Are the dancers fat?

I have been there once, not because of any of the reasons above though...I just wanted to satisfy my curiousity.

Kachisbarbie: I have been there once, not because of any of the reasons above though...I just wanted to satisfy my curiousity.

How was your experience?

CFCfan:
How was your experience?

Hmmm...I couldn't even stay till the end, it started pissing me off @ a point. I had to leave.

All your reasons still doesn't make sense to me. AND HE WEPT!!! I just pity the underage children here that will heed your advice ( or should I say reason?)

Kachisbarbie: I have been there once, not because of any of the reasons above though...I just wanted to satisfy my curiousity.

Are u serious? Is it now or before? Haven't been there tho n don't intend to mbok


@Topic,how can someone sit down n come up with this piece of poo?*Shit Happens* So a lady should go watch her fellow woman who has gone banana strip 'neked' just to lift her self confidence? *SmBs4U*

Kachisbarbie:
Hmmm...I couldn't even stay till the end, it started pissing me off @ a point. I had to leave.

Lol. Kpele oh

I heard some wives bring their husbands to such clubs. Though it's mostly White folks that do so.

priscaoge:
Are u serious? Is it now or before? Haven't been there tho n don't intend to mbok


@Topic,how can someone sit down n come up with this piece of poo?*Shit Happens* So a lady should go watch her fellow woman who has gone banana strip 'neked' just to lift her self confidence? *SmBs4U*

I know, right. I can't imagine myself going to a male strip club

priscaoge:
Are u serious? Is it now or before? Haven't been there tho n don't intend to mbok


@Topic,how can someone sit down n come up with this piece of poo?*Shit Happens* So a lady should go watch her fellow woman who has gone banana strip 'neked' just to lift her self confidence? *SmBs4U*

Lol, his reasons tire me too, that's why I agreed that I've been there, but not for the above reasons.
I went there years ago, about 4yrs ago. It wouldn't be a bad idea to go, I heard a lot of stories about it then, I just went to confirm which one is true/lie...lol

@CFCfan : na dem sabi why they do that kind thing, I didn't go with my husband tho, went with some friends...hahaha. I was actually the one that initiated the idea, we had serious arguments , then I won. We balled into the place...lol. all through it my face was squeezed o, but I wanted to see the end of it

^^
It was a good decision not to go with ur husband.

Kachisbarbie:
Lol, his reasons tire me too, that's why I agreed that I've been there, but not for the above reasons.
I went there years ago, about 4yrs ago. It wouldn't be a bad idea to go, I heard a lot of stories about it then, I just went to confirm which one is true/lie...lol

@CFCfan : na dem sabi why they do that kind thing, I didn't go with my husband tho, went with some friends...hahaha. I was actually the one that initiated the idea, we had serious arguments , then I won. We balled into the place...lol. all through it my face was squeezed o, but I wanted to see the end of it

Lol...U love adventures huh? Bia Y u go der begin squeeze face?.

-I wonder how much they are been paid to disgrace themselves in that manner Will they ever be proud of their work? Na wa oooo

CFCfan:
I know, right. I can't imagine myself going to a male strip club

Lolz..Is there anything like male strippers? I mean do men also do that?

teedeeone: The popular perception of strip clubs tends towards the notion that these venues are “Gentleman’s Clubs”, geared exclusively toward fostering misogynist attitudes to women, and the devaluing of the female body. But are these opinions or views outdated? After all, as the habit of hen-nights hiring male strippers will attest, striptease is not only for men. In many ways, this article plays the devil’s advocate, but then, here are 10 good reasons why women need to visit a strip club, at least once!

1. Watching other women dance erotically can teach you a lot about your own body.
Learning to appreciate other women’s bodies and even to find them attractive can help you lift your own self-confidence.
Watching strippers dance can teach you to love and appreciate your body and perhaps help you realize that you are attractive in other people’s eyes.

2. Even if it doesn't teach you all that… You get to know your enemy!
Going to a strip club will inform and bolster your convictions about this industry.

3. If you’ve never thought about finding other women sexually attractive, this could be a chance to test your sexual preferences.
Being in this environment could challenge your personal boundaries. Watching women in a club, rather than making moves on your friends, could be a safe and a relatively unembarrassing way to explore your sexual orientation if you’re bi-curious or even unsure about whether you’re lesbian.
You won’t be the only one.

4. Strip clubs can be an exciting new experience for couples, and can offer fun and friendly opportunity.
Why not go with your partner? You may find it an intimate experience to be there together, to find out what turns him on, and to spice up your sex life.
Being in that environment is highly likely to turn him on, but at the end of the night, it’s you he’s going to go home with, because you’re the one he loves. Accepting and understanding that could be exciting and exhilarating for both of you.

5. Learn to become upfront and honest with your partner about other women.
It may not be an easy experience, but it may help both of you to understand that he may find other women attractive.
It could even just be fun to compare which of the girls you and him find attractive, or stimulate some healthy debate about what your relationship means to both of you.

6. Get to chat with the girls who work there.
No matter what your feelings are ethically, morally or personally about the sex industry, talking to the women who have been right in the middle of it could help you understand the “other side of the story”.

7. Go to find out whether this is something you would be happy doing to earn some extra money.
This is becoming an increasingly common or normal way for students to supplement their income and help ease the burden of student debt.

8. Beauty is only skin deep.
Visit a strip club to reassure yourself that, even if your body isn’t as “perfect” as the dancers, you can appreciate yourself as being normal and feel beautiful just for being that.
And don’t forget that the girls who work there are more than dancers, too.

9. Strip clubs are full of single guys.
Make sure you take the most good-looking one home!

10. You only have one life.
Sometimes you have to tease the boundaries of your comfort zone.

There are, of course so many counter-arguments to all of these reasons. But it doesn’t mean that the reasons aren’t there.
Sometimes it’s best to recognise that it is “better you know the devil” than to dismiss out of hand something that's difficult to understand without trying. After all, it could be fun, exciting, and as research has shown, women tend to see other women’s bodies as more attractive than naked men. If you doubt this, visit a strip club and find out for yourself!

You sef wey write this epistle,can u advice Ur kid Sis or Ur Gf 2 attend strippers club

priscaoge:
Lol...U love adventures huh? Bia Y u go der begin squeeze face?.

-I wonder how much they are been paid to disgrace themselves in that manner Will they ever be proud of their work? Na wa oooo

My dear, I had to squeeze ma face o, if you smile anyhow they would come near you.
You are asking if they are proud of their work? You think those ones are normal like you/I...those girls are high on a special frequency o. You need to see niggas slipping dollars into their panties...you go just tire.

priscaoge:
Lolz..Is there anything like male strippers? I mean do men also do that?

Yeah. But I think those type of clubs are limited to Las Vegas and a handful of other cities here in the US.

priscaoge:
Lol...U love adventures huh? Bia Y u go der begin squeeze face?.

-I wonder how much they are been paid to disgrace themselves in that manner Will they ever be proud of their work? Na wa oooo

I read somewhere that a particular strip club in Lagos pays their strippers N70,000/week, including tips.

In America, some ladies do it to pay for school, and they could earn up to $500/week on average. There was a story of one American stripper who claimed she earns $500 in a single day!

Kachisbarbie:
My dear, I had to squeeze ma face o, if you smile anyhow they would come near you.
You are asking if they are proud of their work? You think those ones are normal like you/I...those girls are high on a special frequency o. You need to see niggas slipping dollars into their panties...you go just tire.

Was it in Lagos?

CFCfan:
Was it in Lagos?

Nope, PHC

Hmmm *shakes boobs*

1-5, 7,8 &10 can all be done in the your home while you and your partner watch a video.


I do agree that women should discuss the types of things their husbands enjoy, and be willing to try them out. Men should do the same.


Sex should be a subject that is discussed freely and be a no judgment zone between couples. It is important that both sides be heard, and if need be, compromise can and should be considered.


Sex, within the bonds of marriage, is not a sin. It should be discussed sensibly and thoroughly. Partners should provide a safe and judgement free zone for each other to voice their views.

teedeeone:
6. Get to chat with the girls who work there.
No matter what your feelings are ethically, morally or personally about the sex industry, talking to the women who have been right in the middle of it could help you understand the “other side of the story”.

These women don't have the time to stop and chat with your wife or gf. Unless, of course, they are paid for their time.


Google is your friend ladies. If you don't want to step foot in a strip joint, but are curious, let your fingers do the walking...


Examples:

Sex Work: Writings by Women in the Sex Industry

Sex Tips and Tales from Women Who Dare: Exploring the Exotic Erotic

http://www.today.com/id/22492002/ns/today-today_books/t/you-dont-have-be-sex-starved-wife/

teedeeone:
9. Strip clubs are full of single guys.
Make sure you take the most good-looking one home!

Kachisbarbie:
My dear, I had to squeeze ma face o, if you smile anyhow they would come near you.
You are asking if they are proud of their work? You think those ones are normal like you/I...those girls are high on a special frequency o. You need to see niggas slipping dollars into their panties...you go just tire.

Hahhahaha, no be small special frequency. Girls get mind joor. They must be taking drugs mbok!

CFCfan:
I read somewhere that a particular strip club in Lagos pays their strippers N70,000/week, including tips.

In America, some ladies do it to pay for school, and they could earn up to $500/week on average. There was a story of one American stripper who claimed she earns $500 in a single day!

Mstchewww. For a thousand dollars,I no fit. I still value my pride n dignity as a woman n as an African lady. It's as good as strolling d street na•ked naaa. Doing things that someday,u won't be proud of ur past has no meaning.