Most women form the onset experience love at first sight. they already know he is the one from the very begining, sometimes even before the toasting and if u really watch it, you ll see that such women stay through thick and thin. but on the contrary when a man tells u he has fallen in love at first sight, it is usually more of lust and after a while they just don't feel the babe anylonger. im not saying im totally right, but for men to grow love, it usually takes a while to appreciate the woman especially if she is the worthy type.

im talking love here, not lustof chop and clean mouth o.

so men, tell me is it true love at first sight or lust, when and how did u finally realise that you were in love.

As a women and as a person who adores Aphrodite since she was ten, I must say I don't believe in "Love at first sight".

Because in order for it to be REAL love, it takes time and age.

For me to love you, I must be able to trust you fully, meaning i need time to do that.

It is usually mere infatuation of you that i feel at first, but[b] REAL[/b] needs more than sight, it needs age.

it's always lust for me. but when you see a responsible girl you'll know.

iice:

Please speak for yourself!
I don't do the first sight thing.
These are the things women like to deceive themselves with

speak for ur self too iice

smtimes d love @ first sight is real and lasts

How does it last when you "love" someone just upon seeing them? That's lust

It's when you gradually know the person and like what you know that it gradually becomes "love"

rampant:

speak for your self too iice

smtimes d love @ first sight is real and lasts

But you have to admit MOST of the time it is mere infatuation.

i think we shud leave this for the guys to answer.

KarmaMod:

How does it last when you "love" someone just upon seeing them? That's lust

It's when you gradually know the person and like what you know that it gradually becomes "love"

how do u know its lust?

it takes a second to fall inlove smtimes

Rampant

your argument befuddles me

@Topic, i know the guys i may eventually like from first sight

and the ones that dont have a chance, This is not Love tho

Gamine:

Rampant

your argument befuddles me

@Topic, i know the guys i may eventually like from first sight

and the ones that don't have a chance, This is not Love tho

nl is a forum where we all state our opinions,whether the other person likes it or not

so if u aint comfortable wt mine,log off or stop reading them

Ah sorry o.

spare me eh