death is one some thing we people don't like talking about, and it is satin that it will come one day .
So, who do you like to die first (1) between your mum and dad.(2) between you and your spouse.

But, it is biblical that wife should die before her husband.
And about my parents, my dad is dead already, and is good like that because is older than my mum.

Between my parents I would have to say my mom first, because I am not ready to loose my dad.

Between my husband and I, I would have to say me first. I dont want to be left here w/o him.

Both my parents are long gone, so that part of the question, I can't answer.

But as for myself and my wife, I'd prefer to go first.
I don't feel I can handle the pain of seeing her go before me.

But, if she goes first, I won't be far behind.

That is not within my power or anybody's else for that matter. God decides who goes first when and how.

sistawoman:

Between my parents I would have to say my mom first, because I am not ready to loose my dad.

Between my husband and I, I would have to say me first. I don't want to be left here w/o him.

sysadmin

Pals, don't let your mom see this.

And you prefer to die before your husband so that you will not face the problem(s) of your in-laws

Siena:

Both my parents are long gone, so that part of the question, I can't answer.

But as for myself and my wife, I'D prefer to go first.
I don't feel I can handle the pain of seeing her go before me.

But, if she goes first, I won't be far behind.

sienna,

so you love your wife up to that.

billy_all:

sysadmin

Pals, don't let your mom see this.

And you prefer to die before your husband so that you will not face the problem(s) of your in-laws

There is no secert that there is no love loss between my mom and me and that my dad is my heart.

My in-laws are long gone so I have no in-law problems. I just cant imange what i would do here w/o him.

hmmm