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My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Orikinla(m): 5:08pm On Jul 05, 2006
My Dear,
In America, seeing is believing.
You will never know the true meaning of freedom
Until you come to America.
Ahaah! You cannot slap a woman in America.
Hmmn. Not even your wife?
Dare and you will regret it for the rest of your life.”

From: The Beauty of American Liberty in Jewaira's Boudoir
https://jewaira.

But, is it true that you cannot slap a woman in America and go unpunished?
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Hotstepper(f): 5:16pm On Jul 05, 2006
you cannont, North America as I know of is a woman's world. tongue
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by shawna(f): 5:20pm On Jul 05, 2006
well u can slap a woman in america but u would get in a whole lot of trouble and when i mean trouble i mean serious trouble wink
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by iice(f): 5:20pm On Jul 05, 2006
In the land wey dem dey sue anyhow and wey feminists dey prevalent, abeg its a given that such cannot go unpunished.  What about all the domestic problems wetin dem dey call am ma? Wey if husband beat wife, she call police and they go arrest da dude tongue
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by shawna(f): 5:24pm On Jul 05, 2006
i think its called domestic violence or abuse undecided something like that anyways the husband will be in serious trouble either way
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by desiree(f): 5:44pm On Jul 05, 2006
It the same story here, come to think of it , why would you want to slap a woman undecided undecided

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Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Busta(f): 6:01pm On Jul 05, 2006
why the question? the best way to find out is for u to slap a woman and tell us wateva happens thereafter wink
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by shawna(f): 6:08pm On Jul 05, 2006
busta lol cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by desiree(f): 6:12pm On Jul 05, 2006
Slapping people is not one my favourite pastimes grin maybe i will try it just for experiment, I mean, for a man to slap a woman in a civilized world, he’s gat to pay for it.
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by whiz(m): 7:38pm On Jul 05, 2006
What happens when a woman slaps another woman??
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Eastcoast(f): 7:53pm On Jul 05, 2006
ofcourse it is true. it is domestic violence. why would u want to slap a woman when it's not like she is a cow or goat angry angry
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by diddy4(m): 8:07pm On Jul 05, 2006
but a woman can slap a man cuzz we are cows and goats abi?

well, that is america for you. slap and u will go to jail for abuse and stuff. its a woman's world. men don suffer nobi small.
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by hotangel2(f): 8:32pm On Jul 05, 2006
U can slap a woman in America!

Just be ready to eat baked beans for some years in ur life. That is to say, be ready to go to jail if she takes you to court and has enough proof!
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Kadeejah(f): 8:36pm On Jul 05, 2006
ye u cant slap a woman shocked shocked shocked if a man slaps me imm@ make sure i give him tha hurt of hiz life b4 i send hiz sorry ass ta jail grin
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by hotangel2(f): 8:38pm On Jul 05, 2006
Hold a second.

U have to play it smart before u send him to jail. If u hit him back, then u have one thing against you. Yes u can claim 'self defence', but u'll make ur case slow.

Just let him hit u, try and find some evidence and send his ass to jail. Nigga will come out taking care of women like eggs. After he looks for you and beat ur ass up again tho.

Sending a brother to jail (as a girl) means u've totaly ran over his ego.
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Kadeejah(f): 8:40pm On Jul 05, 2006
ye girl tru d@t wink
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Eastcoast(f): 9:10pm On Jul 05, 2006
Actually, they won't send a man to jail just for slapping a woman especially if she is your wife. First of all, you may sleep in police office for a night or two, then go to court and they may possible give you a restraining order, and definitely order you to take anger management classes which runs in hundreds of dollars.
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Eastcoast(f): 9:10pm On Jul 05, 2006
And did i forget to mention, just having police wahala could run you record.
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Badman888(m): 9:23pm On Jul 05, 2006
The law favours the women more, so if a guy slaps a woman that is big trouble,
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by hotangel2(f): 9:25pm On Jul 05, 2006
And God help u to be a black guy. U are in big trouble.

Or better yet a black guy with record already.
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by diddy4(m): 10:40pm On Jul 05, 2006
there is a simple solution to this, send me to jail but no come back naija cuzz na then u go hear am. i tell you. grin grin grin
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Seun(m): 1:29pm On Jul 06, 2006
This is not a problem. Why should you want to slap your wife or girlfriend in the first place?
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Orikinla(m): 2:38pm On Jul 06, 2006
I asked, because in Nigeria, it is not a crime to slap a woman.
She talks too much, you shut her mouth with a slap across the face.Whack!
She snarls at you and you reply with another slap!

I saw my cousin actually boxing the wife like he was boxing another man in a fight.
He punched her and then gripped her cheeks mercilessly. I did not know when I started sobbing, because I was embarassed to witness the shameless and barbaric action of my cousin. I succeeded in stopping the fight. But I heard that he continued to beat her when I left.

Later, he told me that I must be a man. So, beating up a woman makes a guy a man in Nigeria?

Well, I saw my father beat up my mother and later that same night made love to her.
Strange love.

I must confess that I slapped my younger sister the day I saw her compromising her dignity in a red light district in Lagos.
Whack! I slapped her and her sunglasses fell off.
It was a very hot slap.
But, that was to discipline her.

If your wife is rude and she asked for it, would it be wrong to slap her.
Or use Koboko to discipline her.

I saw a friiend slapping his girlfriend until blood flowed from her ears.
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by iice(f): 2:54pm On Jul 06, 2006
Orikinla:


I saw my cousin actually boxing the wife like he was boxing another man in a fight.
He punched her and then gripped her cheeks mercilessly. I did not know when I started sobbing, because I was embarassed to witness the shameless and barbaric action of my cousin. I succeeded in stopping the fight. But I heard that he continued to beat her when I left.

Later, he told me that I must be a man. So, beating up a woman makes a guy a man in Nigeria?

Well, I saw my father beat up my mother and later that same night made love to her.
Strange love.


If your wife is rude and she asked for it, would it be wrong to slap her.
Or use Koboko to discipline her.

First you're embarassed that your cousin's beating up his wife
Then you feel that your father and mother have strange love coz it's beating and making love afterwards
But you ask if its wrong 2 slap your wife or gf?
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Orikinla(m): 3:03pm On Jul 06, 2006
Slapping is often used to discipline insolent weaker people.
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by iice(f): 3:07pm On Jul 06, 2006
By weaker you mean, of lesser physical power right? So does it make that right? To slap some1 of lesser physical power just because they are insolent? Hmmmm i dont know sha, but no man will lay his hands on me that way, woman never do am masef then na man go do am?
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by shawna(f): 3:07pm On Jul 06, 2006
hitting a woman is not right at all and women arent isolent weaker ppl
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Orikinla(m): 3:30pm On Jul 06, 2006
Slapping women is very common in Nigeria.
Even worse forms of violence against women are going on right now in Nigeria.

I read of a case where a man even bit a woman. And believe it or not, this man was an educated banker in Lagos.
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Seun(m): 3:38pm On Jul 06, 2006
Are you trying to justify slapping of your unfortunate physically weaker wife by pointing to others who are worse than you? Can you justify sealing by pointing to a murderer and saying at least you are better?
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Orikinla(m): 3:51pm On Jul 06, 2006
Seun,
This is not about me.
Again, I am not even married.

I am against all forms of violence against women, including FGM and forced marriage.
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by iice(f): 4:48pm On Jul 06, 2006
Orikinla:

Slapping is often used to discipline insolent weaker people.

Orikinla:


I am against all forms of violence against women, including FGM and forced marriage.
Against all forms of violence and yet a statement was made earlier about slapping often used to discipline insolent weaker people undecided
Re: My Dear, You Cannot Slap A Woman In America by Eastcoast(f): 4:58pm On Jul 06, 2006
@orikinla, i'm very dissappointed in you. From your post, i can conclude that you won't mind slapping even worse rapping any woman you come across. since women are generally weaker. I have one question for you; have you ever slapped linda ikeji?

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