I'm a kind of guy that always acts nice because of my Christain life.So on nd on Ladies ask me out on date which i turn down gladly but d questions is why do Ladies build hatred towards one they ask out once He reject d offer? Your comment matter most

honestly,i dont knw.....its a natural thing

temigracie: honestly,i dont knw.....its a natural thing

hmm but guys don't do dat

Olusanya333: hmm but guys don't do dat

cos its a normal thing for a guy to ask a lady out.....i think dey hate u because dey av broken protocols n dey expect u to like feel dem....since u r not feeling dem, d shame turns to hatred

no man likes rejection

for every rejection one receives there is a loss of self esteem and confidence

temigracie: cos its a normal thing for a guy to ask a lady out.....i think dey hate u because dey av broken protocols n dey expect u to like feel dem....since u r not feeling dem, d shame turns to hatred

hmm wait is it really a shame?

Onlinebizexpert: no man likes rejection

for every rejection one receives there is a loss of self esteem and confidence

I Love dat ascertion but Ladies do dat to guys nd guys don't get to hate dem

Olusanya333: hmm wait is it really a shame?

...i think so.....d funniest part s dat d foolish guy might strt thinking d girl is cheap....one of dos st*pid mentality we av in africa

temigracie: ...i think so.....d funniest part s dat d foolish guy might strt thinking d girl is cheap....one of dos st*pid mentality we av in africa

hmm i was lyk telling dem "we are friend" is dat 2much?

Olusanya333: hmm i was lyk telling dem "we are friend" is dat 2much?

well,it depends on how approach d issue..mayb u didnt make dem realise d real reason u cant b with dem....mayb u turned dem down immaturely....or afterwards,u told ur friends abt dem....dats d possible reasons y a lady will act dat way after askn u out

temigracie: well,it depends on how approach d issue..mayb u didnt make dem realise d real reason u cant b with dem....mayb u turned dem down immaturely....or afterwards,u told ur friends abt dem....dats d possible reasons y a lady will act dat way after askn u out

hmm well i only have online friends nd none of d above seems to happen.Maybe its Ladies' nature

Olusanya333: I Love dat ascertion but Ladies do dat to guys nd guys don't get to hate dem

bros na normal thing for us ooooo


buh it will only pain a guy if the gal insults him

As a guy, how does it feel after asking a lady out and she gives u a flat no? Now, it is ur duty to do d chase and yet u dnt feel ok getting a NO for an ans. Now, imagine u re a girl and despite all odds, u decided to chase putting ur dignity and self respect on d line and u get a NO? Do d maths bro

sammieguze: As a guy, how does it feel after asking a lady out and she gives u a flat no? Now, it is ur duty to do d chase and yet u dnt feel ok getting a NO for an ans. Now, imagine u re a girl and despite all odds, u decided to chase putting ur dignity and self respect on d line and u get a NO? Do d maths bro

whatsoever u like men do to u yee do also to dem. Ladies like doing dat but dem no gree dat happen to dem

temigracie: cos its a normal thing for a guy to ask a lady out.....i think dey hate u because dey av broken protocols n dey expect u to like feel dem....since u r not feeling dem, d shame turns to hatred

So it feels that bad huh. It is either they get used to being rejected or they park well, after all they reject guys everyday, some even brag about it. And the maner with which they reject guys is what annoys me most. Luke 6:31 says Do to others as you would have them do to you.

@Op, women hate rejection, it makes them feel cheap and insecure so becareful next time yhu turn a woman. No matter how jajaweedly they act on nairaland we still gotta treat them as ladies. You know they over anaylze things to death so don't reject her just like that, appreciate her courage, act like you are interested, then friendzone her. You can even sisterzone her if she is a good perosn. This will get her confused. But if you don't wana make her your friend or sister then I think it is important to talk to her, explain to her why it's not gonna work and do it in away that won't hurt her feeling.

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They must hate na. They think you should jump at the opportunity just because of common beauty that they didn't work for. It appears the fine ones feel insulted when you reject them. Talk about ego.

I don't hate chics who have told me no. Why then should you hate me? I think they should display the same so-called "maturity" that they demand from guys who get rejected.