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Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by kojeiwa(m): 5:16am On Oct 11, 2008 |
Family members are often around during a woman's delivery. Ladies will you let your husband watch your delivery? If not, who will you be comfortable to watch your delivery? Guys will you want to watch your wife deliver? If my wife doesn't want me to watch her delivery, I will be perfectly fine with it. |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by sistajay(f): 9:41am On Oct 11, 2008 |
Hey, it takes two to make a baby, yeah the man got to be there for his woman. |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by affee(f): 10:05am On Oct 11, 2008 |
Oh yes If he is not there I will hold it until he comes |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by arramyjay: 3:57pm On Oct 11, 2008 |
Yes he has to be there. |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by MissyB1(m): 3:58pm On Oct 11, 2008 |
A fat YES!!! |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Oct 11, 2008 |
What goes in must come out so he must watch as the ting don commot! Kpa! Like that! |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by sistawoman: 4:27pm On Oct 11, 2008 |
of freaking course. He was there for all of the births of all of our children. |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by TOYOSI20(f): 4:29pm On Oct 11, 2008 |
Yup, for "Moral support". . . . . . |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by Akinagirl(f): 4:32pm On Oct 11, 2008 |
Yes, I definately would want him to be there. |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by BOMANY: 6:07pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
hhhmmmm I dont think so by the way my wife is saying i must and i am saying no way, i will be out the room praying for her beside I dont think i have the heart to see all the pain she will go through |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by KarmaMod(f): 6:07pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
Coward |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by Leilah(f): 6:35pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
No I wont let him see that mess |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by Outstrip(f): 7:40pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
He was there with both. The first one he actually held one leg and the nurse held the other. The second one he sat behind the doctor and watched the whole show. |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by SimiBrasil(f): 7:58pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
No, a lot of men lost the sexual desire after watch the deliverance. His small sweety pot will increase in a crazy way, a lot of blood , etc , definitely not ! Their memory are super. It might affect sexual life AFTER |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by Okijajuju1(m): 9:01pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
Why would any man even want to see that!! |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by benincitys(f): 9:37pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
yes my husband was there when i have my baby last year he film everything, our sex life is still very good if not better |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by lysaa(f): 10:27pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
it depends on what the man wants, but for me, i owuld want him there. |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by ifyalways(f): 11:02pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
If he comes better,if not still good |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by Flakybaby(f): 11:07pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
Yes, we did it 2gether so he has 2 be there when the baby is cmng, shikena!! |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by plusQueen: 12:24am On Oct 16, 2008 |
Outstrip: Thank you. Mine also held leg and even cut the umbilical cord of all 11 kids |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by plusQueen: 12:28am On Oct 16, 2008 |
SimiBrasil: Not my experience. It actually made us closer after he saw what I went through to bring him heirs into our little "Osisi Kingdom" And he said a big thank you! and also added that he was extremely proud of me. and all the cards that came with the beautiful bouquet of flowers he brought always read "baby, thank you. You are one brave woman,I love you" |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by Outstrip(f): 12:35am On Oct 16, 2008 |
Plus Queen I agree that it definitely brought us closer. But wait o. You have 11 children? Tell me you are just playing |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by SimiBrasil(f): 1:19am On Oct 16, 2008 |
benincitys (f) and plus_Queen It is not a rule, it is what average happens most of the time. If during the deliverance he stay the side of head and dont see the pussy is one thing, if he helps is another thing. Anyway, I forgot almost of all nigerian men (pay attention, almost not all) doenst make MouthAction |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by KarmaMod(f): 1:20am On Oct 16, 2008 |
hahahahha Funny girl, simi |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by plusQueen: 1:23am On Oct 16, 2008 |
karma where's david? I haven't seen him in a while Is he sick? eloped with a woman? I know you folks yim and yam tell him I've been asking of him |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by KarmaMod(f): 1:24am On Oct 16, 2008 |
Berra ask his wife morenike alagolo |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by omoge(f): 1:26am On Oct 16, 2008 |
It will be nice to have him there |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by plusQueen: 1:29am On Oct 16, 2008 |
Morenike is leading this young man astray what is she doing to him? These Ekiti girls sef |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by SimiBrasil(f): 1:35am On Oct 16, 2008 |
"I was there to give my wife support during her almost 12 hours of labor. I took a lot of abuse, something about being in the worst pain of your life makes women say things they don't really mean, or I hope she didn't mean. Anyway I did not watch my daughter being born, and I told Doc up front not to even ask me to cut the cord, or I would be out like a light, and they would be tending to me as well as my wife. It did have an affect on our Love life afterward, but I guess anybody that only got about 4 hours of sleep a night, myself included, would not even think about making Love." "And I can completely understand how seeing it can change anyone's perception of and attitudes towards the mother's Instruments. It can happen to women, too, the switch from "woman" to "mother", with no room for sexuality. Usually it wears off after a little while (once the physical traumas have healed up), but I'm sure there are cases where it doesn't." __________________________________________________________________________ "The wedding is not the marriage, and the childbirth is not the family. The real happiness is to be found (or lost) in marriage and family, not in weddings and childbirth. Real life is lived in all those ordinary days, not on those big occasions that seem to matter so much when you're starting out." ___________________________________________________________________________ Here's an interesting piece in Slate about how harshly people reacted to the news that witnessing childbirth destroyed some men's sexual attraction to the woman who had given birth. Since men can't control whether they feel sexual desire or not, shouldn't women want to hear what the real facts are, even if those facts interfere with the sentimental birthing room dreams they have in mind? It's much more important to preserve your future sex life then to try to live up to some idealized picture of childbirth. If having your partner in the room really does endanger that sex life, women should think clearly about whether they want to take that risk. http://althouse..com/2005/08/must-should-man-witness-childbirth.html |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by milknhoney(f): 1:41am On Oct 16, 2008 |
Never really saw the point in the Husband being in the delivery room. I mean what is he going to do? Moral Support? Fiakwa. I rather him wait outside or something then hearing "Push Push Push Push Push Push Pussssssh! Oka now One, two, three. . . . you are almost there baby. We are in this together." Together in what again? |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by SeanT21(f): 5:12am On Oct 16, 2008 |
What am I hiding that he have not seen already? |
Re: Ladies Will You Let Your Husband Watch Your Delivery? by Angolobabe(f): 10:53am On Oct 16, 2008 |
Big Yes,he was there when i had my son and will be there when we decide to have more kids ,it actually made us closer and our sex life is great |
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