egopersonified: My step mum, she trained us to do everything ourselves and at a very young age. So to avoid trouble, I learnt fast how to do my chores perfectly and on time. When i got married and came to visit, her own kids bluntly refused to cook and fry d chicken she asked them to, it was me she now asked to help talk to her daughters of btw 18 to 21 yrs. In my mind, I just laughed, if it were my days, who born u. Now after eight years of marriage and 3 kids, I ve never had a househelp, my kids are even helping with chores now.

egopersonified: My step mum, she trained us to do everything ourselves and at a very young age. So to avoid trouble, I learnt fast how to do my chores perfectly and on time. When i got married and came to visit, her own kids bluntly refused to cook and fry d chicken she asked them to, it was me she now asked to help talk to her daughters of btw 18 to 21 yrs. In my mind, I just laughed, if it were my days, who born u. Now after eight years of marriage and 3 kids, I ve never had a househelp, my kids are even helping with chores now.

egopersonified: My step mum, she trained us to do everything ourselves and at a very young age. So to avoid trouble, I learnt fast how to do my chores perfectly and on time. When i got married and came to visit, her own kids bluntly refused to cook and fry d chicken she asked them to, it was me she now asked to help talk to her daughters of btw 18 to 21 yrs. In my mind, I just laughed, if it were my days, who born u. Now after eight years of marriage and 3 kids, I ve never had a househelp, my kids are even helping with chores now.

Bigsteveg:

Nice, her own kids end up useless while u becum useful to ur environment, back then, she and her kids would be smiling. Some women sha.

Emmyk: Can't talk, she might be here!

bbdrown: I've heard my elder brother and sister's "testimony" about living with our uncles when they were young. The way they were treated, especially by the wives, was very appalling. They abused them & made them see hell...more like they were so jealous...(of what?!!!). Unfortunately, the uncle wld always feel less concerned, or feel the wife was right. I just thank my stars I wasn't born then. Let's share our experiences.

Teespice: I have once lived with one, not lived per se but staying in her house for mid term breaks and short holidays and the experience was really horrible. But in a way, it helped me in terms of tolerance and endurance.

It is not something I would wish for my enemy. Some nearly all women are wicked with a capital W.

coogar:

fixed it for you!

Teespice:

Coogar,

I did not ask you to alter the post thank you very much.

coogar:

fixed it for you!

coogar:

my constitutional right as a nigerian gives me the power to alter, edit or even delete your post. if you feel too salty as a woman, go get a sex change!

Teespice:
Troublemaker
No time to engage you biko.

shiftmarket: As the uncle in question what would you advise he does and not have a situation where that anger is transferred to him or he is not accused of being biased

bbdrown: My uncle I once stayed with is so mature!!! Responsible and mature ones know how to deal with such issues.

ojesymsym:

Matured Either the woman was not really out for territorial demarcation or the man took the heat on your behalf without your knowledge.

rofemiguwa: My auntys husband tried sneaking into my room one night when I woke up he said he was checking if all the lights was off. In my mind I was like this man must tink am stupid.
The next time he entered my room and tried climbing on my bed I broke bottle on his head.
When his wife came back from vigil he no fit explain. Anyway I checked my self out the following day.


My advice to anyone if u are quiet and coolheaded like me please don't stay with relatives they will turn u to rag.

Amhappy: It took me 6months to forgive and another 6months to recover. Two years of agony,blackmailing,backstabbing,insult,putting down and slander. Even after i left,the slander continued but i simply chose to ignore.It was an unnecessary experience,i lost my self esteem in the process. It was easier to forgive the woman blc she ttc then and took out her frustration on me but it was tougher to forgive the man i have called my brother since when i was a kid. Today when i accomodate people who need a home,i pray everyday to love them.

SAMBARRY: Never liked the idea and neither will I allow my daughter to.in Nigeria aunties/uncles will use you like rain water and treat you like crap.the stories I have heard about that rubbish sef made it never appeal to me