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Hi, straight to the point.
I have a great guy friend. We talk a lot..come to work together & go home together from work. I've known him for quite a while.
He invited me to his house & I went. We had a great time...chatted, watched tv, hugged. No kissing or any other form of intimacy. He did try but I rebuffed him. I told him we r just friends..and nothing could happen between us cos he had a gf although i cared about him.

Then he invited me again...and he stood me up! He didn't pick my calls and two days later he called me saying he just wanted to be alone for a few days!!!

I was disappointed...should I?

Is it wrong to want to be just friends with a guy that has a gf?

Isn't there a toasting stage and al even if I am interested? Must I kiss or sleep with a guy on the first date?

I'm confused or am I old school?

He's not worth being your friend. Run away from him. All he wants is your body.
Why should you even visit him alone. Don't you know you are looking for trouble?

Jaydenphoenix: Hi, straight to the point.
I have a great guy friend. We talk a lot..come to work together & go home together from work. I've known him for quite a while.
He invited me to his house & I went. We had a great time...chatted, watched tv, hugged. No kissing or any other form of intimacy. He did try but I rebuffed him. I told him we r just friends..and nothing could happen between us cos he had a gf although i cared about him.

Then he invited me again...and he stood me up! He didn't pick my calls and two days later he called me saying he just wanted to be alone for a few days!!!

I was disappointed...should I?

Is it wrong to want to be just friends with a guy that has a gf?

Isn't there a toasting stage and al even if I am interested? Must I kiss or sleep with a guy on the first date?

I'm confused or am I old school?

. Girls nvr learn; u can nevr be. "Just friend" with a Black Nigga; never; its either u a "friend wt benefit' or U dating; a guy will nvr be so 9c n concerned about U; if either of d above is not involved ... Den u on a Long thing...

Really?? Seriously??