I don't why ladies see it as a social norm asking for help from guys who aren't their boyfriend..
Imagine.. An old female friend (who hardly calls ) called me this mawing, telling she needs money..
(pls, tell me who no need money.. even the country self need money)..
I asked her what she needed the money for ? and she told me, she wants to use it for business.
me::Business
her::Yes, business.
me:: wot kinda business
her:: buying in bulk and resaling...
me:: but I'm broke right now
her:: hmmm... since last month.. u r still broke..
okay ooo..
I was like ..ohhh my God.. see as she dey talk like say she carry money keep for my hand
The one that vexates me d most is when they ask for sumtin like..
Ercros.. pls, buy me airtime...
And If fortunately I buy it for her.. she will still come another day asking for another help..
guys.. have u experienced such tinz too or na only me waka come.
pls.. ladies.. I don't seem to get it..
is it a norm asking for various help frm guys..
we work for this money
We weren't given as grants
U can work for it too, if u know u will really need it..

mtchewwwwwww

dyttt: mtchewwwwwww

Looks like someone is guilty hia ooo..
guilty as charged...

Op keep ranting u hear.

A norms for ladies why not ask the lady in question if it is a norm for her instead of generalizing.

snadguy007: OP, is there a crime in helping a sister out?

definitely.. Dere is no crime in helping a sister that's if she is my biological sister..
and not if she want me to give as a GRANT .
she didn't intend on returning the money with d way she has asked..

@OP
you had time, the minute she would have said:"since last month.. u r still broke" that was the time i would have told her:" aint YOU also broke since last month?" nonsense!

since it is not a life threatening emergency, you should NOT give this disrespectful woman a dime.....but if you lose your mind and borrow her the money, make sure you get the loan in writing, with repayment plans/schedule etc. its always easy to borrow, but when it is time to repay the money, thats when you hear stories.

Lol