hermesprogidy: you are not even a guy, guess what? Am one and every guy always asks for sex @ the end. It's only a matter of time.

speak for yourself!! The fact that you would ask for sex doesn't mean other guys will. Which has brought me back to what i said earlier. STOP THE GENERALIZATION!

joywendy: speak for yourself!! The fact that you would ask for sex doesn't mean other guys will. Which has brought me back to what i said earlier. STOP THE GENERALIZATION!

are you a guy?

hermesprogidy: are you a guy?

are you a lady?

joywendy: are you a lady?

Lol.. I take it that you agree with me then. I rest my case.

hermesprogidy: Lol.. I take it that you agree with me then. I rest my case.

I don't agree with you. You come on a thread advicing ladies not believe in such a thing as 'platonic relationship' and that the guys would want sex. This your advise was based on generalization and self experience. With no clear facts whatsoever, it happened to you or someone else you know and you think it's the same thing for everyone? Come on be a bit realistic here. It doesn't matter the gender, it's common sense. Stop the generalization!

joywendy: I don't agree with you. You come on a thread advicing ladies not believe in such a thing as 'platonic relationship' and that the guys would want sex. This your advise was based on generalization and self experience. With no clear facts whatsoever, it happened to you or someone else you know and you think it's the same thing for everyone? Come on be a bit realistic here. It doesn't matter the gender, it's common sense. Stop the generalization!

This is not generalization, it's simple fact. There is nothing like a platonic relationship between men and women who are not blood relations, the guy always asks for sex or implies it in the long or short run. Even guys that start out platonic get attached with time or feel used (as emotional dumps) and directly or indirectly request for sex. You are a woman, so I don't expect you to understand.

Word of advice, If you are currently in a similar situation, just give it time, and you will see things unfold and if it still stays platonic, then it's either your friend is gay, or I would just start worrying for you.

hermesprogidy: This is not generalization, it's simple fact. There is nothing like a platonic relationship between men and women who are not blood relations, the guy always asks for sex or implies it in the long or short run. Even guys that start out platonic get attached with time or feel used (as emotional dumps) and directly or indirectly request for sex. You are a woman, so I don't expect you to understand.

Word of advice, If you are currently in a similar situation, just give it time, and you will see things unfold and if it still stays platonic, then it's either your friend is gay, or I would just start worrying for you.

I have seen and heard of some people who have opposite sex has close friends that even their partners are friends too. I believe is all about mutual understanding and self control.Like I said been female has nothing to do with this.
Lol! Seriously? Gay? I can't laugh

joywendy: I have seen and heard of some people who have opposite sex has close friends that even their partners are friends too. I believe is all about mutual understanding and self control.Like I said been female has nothing to do with this.
Lol! Seriously? Gay? I can't laugh

better laugh o.. did you say self control and understanding?.. it's my turn to laugh

hermesprogidy: better laugh o.. did you say self control and understanding?.. it's my turn to laugh

oya let's laugh together
Anyways it's my opnion though. If you are too close to the same sex they call you homo now if you are close to the opposite sex it won't last they will bleep u at the end.
Later they will say no man is an island. The irony of life. I rest my case

ah! ah! this babe you still dey? you no dey tire? am beginning to like you o..

joywendy: oya let's laugh together
Anyways it's my opnion though. If you are too close to the same sex they call you homo now if you are close to the opposite sex it won't last they will bleep u at the end.
Later they will say no man is an island. The irony of life

hermesprogidy: ah! ah! this babe you still dey? you no dey tire? am beginning to like you o..

lolz I don rest my case na. Like me ke? Thank you, You are not bad yourself but Remember I have taken your advice, no such thing as platonic relationship therefore we can't be friends

joywendy: lolz I don rest my case na. Like me ke? Thank you, You are not bad yourself but Remember I have taken your advice, no such thing as platonic relationship therefore we can't be friends

chai!!! you see why it's not good to talk true? . Ok o enjoy yasef.