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Forget about it!

First of all,Wat things have u heard abt Igbo men?

my first question ,are you an igbo girl.if you are not i want you to know that naturally we igbo men both those pursuing academic career or business oriented usually like getting to there peak that is making money before getting married so you dont need to bother about marriage issue but you said you have kids already you might have problem with his family member with that.

His actions got nothing to do with his tribe.

A man's tribe does not affect his personality

Old Cargo! Leave our brother alone. His family will push you out if you try to force yourself into his life.

basisop: Old Cargo! Leave our brother alone. His family will push you out if you try to force yourself into his life.

learn to talk in a civil manner. @ OP, follow your instincts, and be patient with him. Take it easy on him, he would propose when he feels it's right... or you could even propose to him.

So what do you want to know? I sense some insecurity going on here? What does he do? What do you do?

either 1)his family do not approve of him getting married to a woman who already has children,
2)he feels he is not financially strong to give you all ur wishes and at the same time take care of your children.
3)afraid of what broke your past marriage (divorce/death)
4)he thinks you see him as a means to an end
from your story,these are the only things i feel would ME back if i were in his position!!

This has nofin to do with tribe everybody has his or her own personality but my brodas- Igbo kwenu! R wonderful men nd husbands I can assure u madam

basisop: Old Cargo! Leave our brother alone. His family will push you out if you try to force yourself into his life.

oponu rada rada

yeye wey dey stink

What tribe and race are you ?

How many children do you have ?

Are all your kids from one man ?

Try proposing to him, to hear his heart..

basisop: Old Cargo! Leave our brother alone. His family will push you out if you try to force yourself into his life.

...God...dats so unfair....i dont y some pples brain r still in d dark ages....even if she cant b ur mother..she s old enof to b ur sista..show some respect....well,dey say charity begins at home...

Igbo mothers control their sons, their not good mother in -laws, and they are not bother if their son is still single at d age of 50, anybody girl who frnd their son most prepare for frustration, heartbroken and unhappy love life, they push them to become womanizer, watch very well u will notice that almost all igbo guys are skirt chaser

SharonI: I have been dating a Igbo man for 4 years now. He is very caring and loving by action. We have personal conversations and he is open with me at times, although he is a very private person. He loves his mom and siblings I see that by action as well very family oriented I love that. He is an American citizen so he is not looking a green card. If he had a wife in Nigeria she would be here by now, and he doesn't travel back often twice in the 12 years he has been here. I have noticed at times he says we and us and I feel thats a plus. He is 32 no kids and I am 34 with children from a previous marriage. I just don't want to waste my time with him I hear so many things about Igbo men some I see in him some I just don't but the rest am unsure. What is he waiting on to get married and settle down. He is really laid back doesn't let to much bother him a plus to our relationship is that we have not ever had an argument not ever raised a voice at each other nothing weird but I love that we get along so well. I love him and would like to be his wife and have a child for him but there is something that frightens him with marriage. I am unwilling to have a child at this age without being married which he doesn't mind doing. He says we don't have to be married to be happy and or have a child. He already has a career and is in school to get a higher degree I love his drive. We are both very busy people so time is spent as often as we can at least once a week we usually don't let 2 weeks go by without seeing each other although we communicate on a daily basis we check in with each other as we work the same shift so we chat via text while at work because thats really the only time our schedules allow us to actually chat and see whats up with each other. He likes the fact that I am stress free no issues I don't bother him don't go through his stuff even when I am alone in his house just something I don't do I respect his space hoping we can share our space and our lives together.

pls my dear, igbo guys are two face, their mother tell them what to do, he cant marry u bcoz his mother has already choosen a village witch girl for his son, u better dont put all ur hope, plz love urself and kids first and looking for a great husband and father to kids

DiamonJ: [s]pls my dear, igbo guys are two face, their mother tell them what to do, he cant marry u bcoz his mother has already choosen a village witch girl for his son, u better dont put all ur hope, plz love urself and kids first and looking for a great husband and father to kids[/s]

You are an imbecil1c fvcktard! i bet this irritant must be from the red roof region, go tell that nonsense to your deranged mother who must have bewitched you at birth, fvcking deluded hypocrite displaying the symptoms of incurable stewpidity and iddiocy you lots are known for.

deluded fvcktard!

No I am AA with west indian parentage.

geophyscist: my first question ,are you an igbo girl.if you are not i want you to know that naturally we igbo men both those pursuing academic career or business oriented usually like getting to there peak that is making money before getting married so you dont need to bother about marriage issue but you said you have kids already you might have problem with his family member with that.

He came after the old cargo and still with it if you can read you will see what I said am stress free stupid not a bother to him at all.

basisop: Old Cargo! Leave our brother alone. His family will push you out if you try to force yourself into his life.

I am AA west indian parentage 3 children same man previous marriage husband passed away

okparaugo: What tribe and race are you ?

How many children do you have ?

Are all your kids from one man ?

Try proposing to him, to hear his heart..

Not insecure not even a little bit...... i am a nurse and he is a nurse practicioner. .... i know everyone is individual but i am just curious about igbo men on a whole we are a alike due to me having a west indian background yet so different

adconline: So what do you want to know? I sense some insecurity going on here? What does he do? What do you do?

SharonI: I am AA west indian parentage 3 children same man previous marriage husband passed away

Propose marriage to him nah

No one else would know..