I noticed onmy wife phone as I was browsing with her phone that she has her ex boyfriend number on her phone. I questioned her and she said that she doesn't want to pick his call anytime he called her but I don't believe her please matured guys in the house please advise

If you trust her then believe her and if not change her number so that she won't have any excuses to still keep his number

Remember, you can only force a woman to marry you but you can't force her to love you, so be cautious

Quietly delete the number and apologise to her if she gets angry. I really don't know but I believe it's difficult to be a close friend with an ex.

maybe she got it from google.

pagoti: I questioned her and she said that she doesn't want to pick his call anytime he called her but I don't believe her please matured guys in the house please advise

You gotta be careful bro, I don't buy the idea that you let her be if you trust her. People that ended up heart-broken were the ones who really trusted their partner. Get her a smartphone and tell her to blacklist his number.

ibizgirl: Quietly delete the number and apologise to her if she gets angry.

lols, apologise for wetin nah? He should get another line for her or atleast suggest it. Her reaction will surely reveal alot.

Y were you going thru her phone? *typical nl question* lol

tpia1: maybe she got it from google.

Through your phone abi!


Mtchewwww!

Back to the topic...
Two things actually made you to married your wife... love and trust. But I just want you to love her n at the same time trust every words coming out of her lips but... take cautious in matters like this. How?! Apply wisdom!

adebayo201:

Through your phone abi!

just saying the op needs to finetune his story, too many loose ends, its not a good script.

pagoti: I noticed onmy wife phone as I was browsing with her phone that she has her ex boyfriend number on her phone. I questioned her and she said that she doesn't want to pick his call anytime he called her but I don't believe her please matured guys in the house please advise

Whats the big deal? If she has his number and so? Does it mean she is climbing his d1ck?

tpia1:

just saying the op needs to finetune his story, too many loose ends, its not a good script.

Are u saying he shd try again later abt his "story" !


Na when "1" cm join body to ur name now ?

Daresh:

Whats the big deal? If she has his number and so? Does it mean she is climbing his d1ck?

Nawa oh!

tpia1:

just saying the op needs to finetune his story, too many loose ends, its not a good script.

When was the last time you read a good script in this section?

'Play' along or bone.

Daresh:

Whats the big deal? If she has his number and so? Does it mean she is climbing his d1ck?

yes.


dont go further than this plz,

Daresh:

Whats the big deal? If she has his number and so? Does it mean she is climbing his d1ck?

Seriously? Are you sure you know what you are saying?

tpia1:

yes.


dont go further than this plz,

why??

Na wa, it shouldnt surprise me anymore but it still does.
Just a few days ago a woman wrote here how she checked her husbands phone and found him sending naked pictures and she wasnt even comforted for her pain rather blamed for "invasion of privacy .
"What were you looking for?" "seek and you shall find" " dont touch his phone. Avoid High blood pressure"
Today a man went through his wives phone and found not nak-ed pictures or initimate conversations just an exes phone number and the world is coming to a standstill. No one is asking why he invaded her "privacy" or asking him to pray and fast so she wont call the ex.

The double standard very glaring is always a wonder

quivah:
why??

to avoid more preponderance of s.tupid threads.

when they hear "go" dem no dey hear "come".

na soso run dem go dey run, just spamming the forum senselessly.

I have my ex number and he has mine. No big deal if you trust your wife

Does it mean when you quit a relationship you are no longer friends with the person? If your past relationships were not built on sex I truly do not see reasons to be bothered. People quit relationships because they do not see it working out the way they want but that doesn't mean you can't be friends anymore.

Daresh:

Whats the big deal? If she has his number and so? Does it mean she is climbing his d1ck?

Tells of the kind of relationship an average Nigerian builds with the opposite sex. I am sure sooner than later some people will have to complain when their spouse have the opposite sex as friends.

She has the right to that.
It is her phone.
You learn to mind your doggone bizz!

All these people saying mind your business, haven't you heard that in marriage the two become one. So what is so private about a wife's phone in her husband's hand and what is so private about a husband's phone in the hands of his wife. Remember if you tell the truth always, you don't need to remember anything and yu don't need to fear any invasion of your privacy.

Marriage nor be jail sentence or life term!
IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT YOU SEE. . . LEAVE!
No need to come to NL to make noise!
Period!

Make I catch my phone for any man hand. . .HUSBAND OR NOT!
You go see wetin I go take your eye and nose smell that day!
Sheeeeeeeeeeesh!!!!

Me nor kia wetin dey for ya phone.
If you nor wan to marry. . .COMOT FOR MY HOUSE!
Simple!!!!

All these CONTROL FREAKS wey nor dey meihn dem bissness!

ANODA REDUNDANT TOPIC! Mtchew!

prest: If you trust her then believe her and if not change her number so that she won't have any excuses to still keep his number

@ the bolded, i thought the op was about his WIFE and not his preteen daughter

ibizgirl: All these people saying mind your business, haven't you heard that in marriage the two become one. So what is so private about a wife's phone in her husband's hand and what is so private about a husband's phone in the hands of his wife. Remember if you tell the truth always, you don't need to remember anything and yu don't need to fear any invasion of your privacy.

There is still some need for privacy. The two become one is now so hyped that many thinks because they are married their life is totally subjected to the other. Anyways, each individual has that which works best for them.

jumzzy448:
Seriously? Are you sure you know what you are saying?

I repeat, what is the big deal? I have ex number. We were friends, he even gave my husband and I an inverter. Whats the big deal if she has his number? See you guys should stop acting like women are children. If she wants to cheat she will cheat. Whether or not she has his number. If she were being sneaky she would have stored it in code that way he won't know. So whats the big deal?

tpia1:



to avoid more preponderance of s.tupid threads.

when they hear "go" dem no dey hear "come".

na soso run dem go dey run, just spamming the forum senselessly.

enh oh ok

I do not see the big deal in having your ex's number ..

Nigerians can read st.up.id things to any woman's actions sha..

rubbish! if she wanna cheat,she will. with ex or no ex!

prest: If you trust her then believe her and if not change her number so that she won't have any excuses to still keep his number

He should change her number huh? Because she's his daughter Abi? All these husband's from hell.

Sometimes we save people's number so that we can avoid their calls.

sapiosexual:


He should change her number huh? Because she's his daughter Abi? All these husband's from hell.

Sometimes we save people's number so that we can avoid their calls.

I tire o..

if I was the suspecting husby tho, what I would be concerned with is the rate at which he calls/she calls him ...


"don't hate the player,, change the game".

So people cannot have their ex number after getting married? Is marriage now some sort of prison? .What if she saves that number with a phony name like "Doctor","Plumber" etc. I suspect there are trust issues that have not been fully dealt with between this couple. They need to sit down and have a meaningful discussion.Op what exactly do you fear? Has she compromised in the past?