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. by amaprincess(op): 9:45am On Aug 14, 2014*

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Re: . by Nobody: 9:52am On Aug 14, 2014

Full of emotions and truth. Best post of the day. wink

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Re: . by eleojo23: 9:57am On Aug 14, 2014*

I'm touched. Op, it is encouraging to know that you have used your past unfortunate experience as a motivation to help those who are currently facing similar situations. There is no better voice against divorce than that of someone who has experienced it's effects firsthand. God bless your efforts.

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Re: . by cirmuell(m): 10:01am On Aug 14, 2014

I have a huge plan for this set of people when the time comes.

Re: . by breadplanets(f): 10:10am On Aug 14, 2014

Its not easy at all. Thankfully my mother took me and my brother wherever she went. So it didnt matter whether we ate or not. We were together. But till date we cant relate with popsy at all. Whenever we spend more than one hour with him it becomes irritating. On my part marriage scares d bejeezus out of me. Hmmmm.... Growing up in a broken home no be beans at all at all. But in all we still give thanks to God.

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Re: . by Nobody: 11:14am On Aug 14, 2014*

Nice write up @op. pure reality of life. keep up the good work

Re: . by KanwuliaJara: 11:14am On Aug 14, 2014

Barack Obama is from a SUPER "BROKE HOME". . . . .
So is Prince WILLIAM. . . .

OPRAH WINFREY nko?

No need for a pity party! Sounds like clinical depression. I doubt NGOs can help MOST of these cases. kiss

Na poverty be the problem here o!

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Re: . by SAMBARRY: 11:35am On Aug 14, 2014

Try and listen to Whitney Houston's song. :where do broken hearts go, you will understand what the person in question is feeling

KanwuliaJara: Barack Obama is from a SUPER "BROKE HOME". . . . .
So is Prince WILLIAM. . . .

OPRAH WINFREY nko?

No need for a pity party! Sounds like clinical depression. I doubt NGOs can help MOST of these cases.
Na poverty be the problem here o!

Re: . by KanwuliaJara: 11:43am On Aug 14, 2014

SAMBARRY: Try and listen to Whitney Houston's song. :where do broken hearts go, you will understand what the person in question is feeling

My point is that THEY ALL SURVIVED. . . , . and did make the best of the worst situations! kiss

The world is all about SURVIVING! kiss

No need for pity parties!

Only STRONG ROLE MODELS should mentor the weak. Not DEPRESSED PEEPS! Nothing like a bunch of miserable people getting together!
TOTAL DISASTER! kiss

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Re: . by cococandy(f): 12:28pm On Aug 14, 2014

The main problem is that ADULTS use kids to settle scores and drive home bitter points in their fight for revenge or whatever it is they are after when they get divorced.

If ADULTS would be less selfish and think first about the kids in the union,there will be less cases of parents denied access to their children by the other party or children passed around from one relative to the other because mommy or daddy wants to move on with their lives.
As if the kids aren't a part of that life.

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Re: . by temi4fash(m): 12:39pm On Aug 14, 2014

KanwuliaJara: My point is that THEY ALL SURVIVED. . . , . and did make the best of the worst situations!
The world is all about SURVIVING!
No need for pity parties!

Only STRONG ROLE MODELS should mentor the weak. Not DEPRESSED PEEPS! Nothing like a bunch of miserable people getting together!
TOTAL DISASTER!

yes they all did... But do know how many go thru that route and never survived...

Re: . by SAMBARRY: 1:17pm On Aug 14, 2014

temi4fash: yes they all did... But do know how many go thru that route and never survived...

exactly my point. Not everyone is that emotionally strong

Re: . by Nobody: 1:29pm On Aug 14, 2014

KanwuliaJara: Barack Obama is from a SUPER "BROKE HOME". . . . .
So is Prince WILLIAM. . . .

OPRAH WINFREY nko?

No need for a pity party! Sounds like clinical depression. I doubt NGOs can help MOST of these cases.
Na poverty be the problem here o!

True.

Re: . by KanwuliaJara: 3:12pm On Aug 14, 2014

temi4fash: yes they all did... But do know how many go thru that route and never survived...

MANY!
They can NEVER be helped!
It is left to the individual to rescu himself or herself from the demons that plague him/her or SUCCUMB! kiss

Re: . by Nobody: 3:19pm On Aug 14, 2014

I admire how you transform the negative experiences in your life into something positive. kiss

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Re: . by hydeka: 3:31pm On Aug 14, 2014

Very nice thread. Kudos Op. Mynd44 frontpage please. Thank you.

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Re: . by Dainy1(m): 5:07pm On Aug 14, 2014

Nice one @op. growing up in a broken home is not really easy. i remember how my ex parent treated me just because i told them i was from a broken home. we eventually broke up, but thank God today am a happy married man. i don't know what my life would have been if i do not met my wife.
Nice work you're doing. talking to someone and listening to them could actually go a long way.

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Re: . by hydeka: 6:02pm On Aug 14, 2014*

Double post.

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Re: . by Beautifulme4me: 8:26pm On Aug 14, 2014

love this @op

Re: . by vikel2104: 3:47am On Aug 15, 2014

hydeka: Very nice thread. Kudos Op. Mynd44 frontpage please. Thank you.

seconded. Frontpage

Re: . by Arsenate(m): 8:47am On Aug 15, 2014

that's why it pisses me so bad to read posters here on nairaland encouraging anyone with any sort of marital problem to divorce.
divorce is terrible: the child usually suffers the most. only selfish people take divorce as an escape route.
@op I really appreciate your situation. it's well.

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Re: . by amaprincess(op): 6:05pm On Aug 15, 2014

Thanks all

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Re: . by hydeka: 4:40am On Aug 16, 2014

hydeka: Very nice thread. Kudos Op. Mynd44 frontpage please. Thank you.

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Re: . by Dainy1(m): 8:56am On Aug 16, 2014

vikel2104: seconded. Frontpage

So this thread has not been taken to front page @mod. pls front page

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Re: . by pickabeau1: 10:12am On Aug 16, 2014

Nice thread

Please no front page

Re: . by Edykul(f): 11:06am On Aug 16, 2014

@OP,this is a nice initiative.......My prayers are with u as u take up d challenging task.

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Re: . by shelter4luving(f): 1:00pm On Aug 16, 2014

andromida: True.

What's true about that?

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Re: . by shelter4luving(f): 1:02pm On Aug 16, 2014*

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Re: . by vikel2104: 7:18am On Aug 17, 2014*

Keep the family united, save children from the trauma caused by broken homes.

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Re: . by IFELEKE(m): 11:46am On Aug 17, 2014

@OP,
Thank God mercy found you...
It's not easy to be a product of a broken home, more difficult if one is trying to make a positive difference...I am glad for you.
Let your scars be a constant reminder of where you are coming from, an appreciation for where you are and a driving force for where you aspire to be...
All The Best!

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Re: . by amaprincess(op): 1:45pm On Aug 17, 2014

THANK U ALL

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Re: . by royalsweetness(f): 1:48pm On Aug 17, 2014

@ OP, people from broken homes would come here to diss you because they are still in denial and are yet to accept their hildhood. You are brave, success in your endeavours.

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